The other day, I sent an offer to a woman, but she turned me down…
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Does this kind of thing happen often?
The information available about men is only about 20% of the total—age, name, and a brief self-introduction—so I’m simply wondering why she declined.
Could it be that some women remain registered even when they aren’t actively looking for offers?
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A Brief Self-Introduction?
There are men who write some really strange things in their profiles—so strange that even I would think, “I wouldn’t want to meet this guy.”
For women, meeting someone may even involve the possibility of going to a hotel, so something like that is obviously a deal-breaker.
Women who believe they can handle any kind of man and are good at dealing with difficult people may still accept an offer despite a strange profile.
But women who are registering with a dating club for the first time and have never used an app before may read the profile and think, “That’s not for me,” and turn it down.
The man himself may think, “I didn’t write anything that strange,” but female staff at the club review these profiles, saying things like, “This is creepy,” so they become widely known internally.
So even if a woman turns him down, we’re thinking to ourselves, “Well, with a profile like that, of course she would.”
If you have a female acquaintance, I think it would be a good idea to show her the text and ask whether it sounds strange.
Women seem to have a knack for spotting someone dangerous from even the smallest details in their wording.
There are also cases where women refuse someone based on his occupation, and occasionally they may reject someone because of his age.
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I didn’t realize offers could get turned down too. Don’t let it get you down.
If you target men in their 50s, I feel like you’re less likely to be turned down—though they’ll be older than you, lol.
I do feel there isn’t much information about the men, either.
Some of the men who add me to their favorites use just a single letter of the alphabet…
I end up wondering what to call them, so I struggle with my first message.
—A mature woman ♡
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Yes, there are.
This can include your attitude during past activities, so if you treated women carelessly or showed up late, for example, you may be turned down.
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With Universe Club, there’s no such thing as being registered but not currently accepting offers.
It sounds like a malicious question from someone involved with another dating club.
We confirm members’ status every six months. If a woman isn’t currently accepting offers, she can ask us to lower her profile’s visibility.
When a woman turns down an offer, there’s usually a reason.
The most common is that the proposed date doesn’t work with her schedule.
She may also decline after seeing the man’s age or occupation.
As Makeo-san mentioned, the man’s star rating may also be a reason for rejection.
Either way, the club staff can tell you if you ask them.
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Some women turn down men in certain professions, while others decline because their schedules don’t line up. Some may have had a profile posted but decided they no longer wanted to continue.
There could be various reasons.
Simply put, your rating may have dropped because your previous reviews were low.
If you’ve made several offers and been turned down several times, you may have received complaints or have a low rating for some reason.
Think back on your papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) experiences so far. Is there anything you need to reflect on?
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Based on my personal experience, I don’t think it happens very often.
If you ask why you were turned down, the staff will usually have heard the reason, so they’ll probably tell you if they feel it’s appropriate to share.
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I’ve heard that women sometimes turn down offers when a papa has a low star rating.
If you just go on a normal date, you’ll probably get five stars, but apparently women become cautious when the rating is as low as three.
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