We met on a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) site, but I ended up falling for him, and we’ve been dating without any money changing hands.
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We used to talk on the phone every night, but whenever we went on dates, he always seemed tired and like he wasn’t having much fun. Then he was transferred to another location and moved away.
I understand that it would be difficult for him to stay in touch because he has a family, but I didn’t hear from him at all over Christmas. When I messaged him “Happy New Year,” I found out he had gone to a shrine for the New Year with someone who wasn’t his family.
He even forgot my birthday…
Still, I love him so much, and I’ve always supported him, even when work was difficult for him.
Now that it’s a new year, I’m lonely, but I think I should end this relationship. However, because I love him so much, I just can’t seem to let go.
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It’s perfectly possible to develop feelings for someone through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I can certainly relate to that—it’s only human.
That said, stopping the exchange of money was a mistake. Even though you met through a papa-katsu app, ending the financial arrangement was probably not the right move. Perhaps you thought that no money changing hands would make the relationship more genuine, but your papa (a male supporter) likely didn’t see it that way.
Unfortunately, there’s no one-size-fits-all magic solution for cutting off your feelings. However, there is the golden rule that time heals all wounds. If possible, why not start something new—anything at all—to help you move on more quickly? Since it’s a new year, this seems like a good opportunity.
By the way, instead of osechi, I made Tenshinhan for Emmy. The two of us enjoyed the fluffy, velvety dish together. I have a feeling this is going to be a good year.
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You seem like the type to fall for someone easily, so I think you should look for another papa (a male supporter) on a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) site.
If you can’t find one through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you may have no choice but to use dating apps or X and overwrite those feelings with a new papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) arrangement or romance...
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I guess we both just lost interest.
Whether you meet at a hostess club, through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), or in the adult entertainment industry, it probably ends the same way.
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What a disappointment—the first post of the new year is about masturbation.
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