Tips Dec 14, 2024 01:59

Would it be appropriate to give money as a condolence gift to a man who has lost his father?

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I’ve been seeing him regularly for meals and karaoke for about four years. We get along well, and we often enjoy going out together. I’m a Type C, but he wasn’t looking for a Type C relationship. Even so, we’ve continued to have a comfortable, natural relationship. I recently heard that his father passed away. I was very shocked and have been wondering if there’s anything I can do for him. However, I’m unsure because giving him condolence money might seem a little strange. How can I express my feelings without making him uncomfortable?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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Maybe it feels too personal, like you’re becoming family, and that makes it feel emotionally heavy...?
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Since papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is ultimately about money, you probably don’t need to overthink it. As for condolence money, I wouldn’t want that from Fuu. I’d rather just have them take me on a normal date. I think I’d be happier hearing something like, “I know you’re feeling down, so I want to take you out,” or seeing that kind of thoughtfulness in their attitude. Though it depends on the person...
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
How the recipient feels about it depends on the person receiving it. Asking a third party won’t tell you whether it’s okay to give it to them.
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Wouldn’t it be okay to simply give them a present?
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