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📅 Mar 9, 2025 13:53
I feel like I’ve suddenly started looking much older now that I’m in my 30s. I’ve often been complimented on my looks and figure by both men and women. But since turning 30, I feel like I’ve lost my spark—and, more than anything, my confidence. Do I still have a chance of receiving offers?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Sex drive may increase and female hormones may decline, but as male hormones become stronger, you might actually feel more energetic, don’t you?
There are plenty of confident, forward women in their 40s and 50s among my peers.
The average age of Japan’s population is around 48, and the largest age group keeps getting older each year. There will be more energetic papas in their 50s and beyond, and women’s demand will rise with age too.
Let’s both do our best to stay youthfu…
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📅 Mar 8, 2025 00:35
I’m the woman who previously asked for advice after a man told me he wanted to end things. Thank you for your responses. After speaking with him in a little more detail, I learned that one reason he had continued seeing me for so long was that the club staff introduced me to him, and I was the first woman he made an offer to. As he was introduced to more women, the number of relationships he had gradually increased until he found himsel...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
I really hope you’ll rejoin Universe Club.
You seem like an absolutely wonderful person, so I’m sure there are plenty of papas who would love to meet someone like you.
I’m still active myself because I’m hoping to meet women like you.
I was wondering what Paper Airplane meant by a “convulsive orgasm,” and then I remembered—yes, they do exist.
Maybe about one in fifty women, I’d say.
Their legs straighten out, and they really do stop making sounds. They’re moaning right u…
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📅 Mar 7, 2025 17:58
He ended things with me. I’d really appreciate hearing the opinions of the men here. He told me, “I always have a great time when we’re having dinner, but afterward, when we go to the hotel, I somehow got the impression that you weren’t really comfortable with it.” We would usually enjoy dinner for about two hours, then spend another two hours at a hotel. Personally, I do enjoy intimacy, and I believe I did my best to accommodate what h...
💬 Answer from 綾瀬なな:
I think the man simply got bored, found someone new he wanted to make an offer to, and moved on. That’s all there is to it.
Don’t let something like that stress you out. Just wait for a new offer.
What makes someone decide to end things?
Personally, I think people who register with a dating club tend to get bored easily, so when someone stops responding, I just assume they’ve lost interest.
In response to Paper Airplane’s answer…
After reading Maezawa’s answer:
**Update*…
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📅 Mar 6, 2025 05:33
This is my first time posting a question. I’ve had a papa (a male supporter) for about five years. Until now, he always gave me an allowance even when we went on dates without an adult relationship (intimate). However, ever since we took an overseas trip together last month, he hasn’t given me an allowance for dates without intimacy. The trip was four days and three nights, and we did have an adult relationship (intimate), but he didn’t...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
It sounds like you’ve already reached the conclusion that, “If it’s just dinner, there’s no point in dating an older man who doesn’t give me an allowance.”
So is the issue that you don’t want to say this and end things because you receive an allowance when you have an adult relationship (intimate)?
But ultimately, if you don’t say it, he won’t understand—and even if you try to soften the wording, I feel like it often still doesn’t get through.
With that in mind, it seems b…
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📅 Mar 5, 2025 18:28
I’m a woman in my 40s and a Type C. I’m of average build and height, and I consider myself slightly above average in looks. I recently received an offer. If we hit it off and end up going to a hotel, what would the going allowance be for someone my age? This is my first time negotiating, so I’d at least like to know the going rate. Also, whether transportation costs are included in the allowance—is that up to the man?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You can find most of the information by searching on Google, so I think it would be helpful to use that as a reference.
Also, there may not be any offers next time. If you want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I suggest discussing it with the man and adjusting to his expectations.
The initial discussion is the most important, so if the allowance feels too low, I think it’s fine to tell him you’d like a little more...
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📅 Mar 4, 2025 17:16
I’m planning to sign up soon—I was referred by a friend. I don’t really have a specific reason for starting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan); I just kind of felt like trying it. But I heard there’s a questionnaire asking why you started, and I’m not sure what to write. The men look at those answers before applying to meet you, right? What kind of girl would make you want to invite her out?
💬 Answer from 東野 悠貴（スタッフ）:
Thank you for your question!
I’m Higashino, a staff member at Universe Club, and I’ll be answering you.
If you only have a general idea, I think that’s perfectly fine! The staff will help bring out your natural charm♪
Creating a story tailored to what men want can be great if you can fully play the part, but I feel that anything insincere or fabricated will eventually come through to the man..!
Rather than overthinking everything beforehand...
For now, just tell us abo…
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📅 Mar 4, 2025 03:40
Nice to meet you. I’m considering applying for an interview, but I’m currently 19 and don’t have any photo ID. If I come in for the interview, I’m planning to bring two forms of non-photo identification. Would that be accepted? I checked some previous questions, but I couldn’t clearly understand how the age requirements differ for adults and minors, so I wanted to ask.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I wasn’t sure about the age distinction between adults and minors, so I wanted to ask.
The change to the age of adulthood may make things a little confusing, but basically, they apply stricter standards to women in their late teens—18 and 19.
That’s because when someone under 18 lies about their age, they’re more likely to actually be 18 or 19. Also, while someone 20 or older generally looks fairly mature, 18- and 19-year-olds may still have a youthful appearance, making it…
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📅 Mar 2, 2025 02:08
When using Universe Club, I add several women to my favorites and then offer to meet them in the order I’m most interested in. However, after making an appointment, the woman I met disappears from my favorites after a while. Is this how the system is designed? Or does it mean she quit the club afterward?
💬 Answer from 東野 悠貴（スタッフ）:
Thank you for your question!
This is Higashino from Universe Club.
Safety Zone, thank you for sharing the URL!
For some time now, we’ve been hearing from both female and male members that they feel uncomfortable being investigated by people they’ve gone on a first date with, and that it makes it difficult for them to continue using the service....
Currently, after a certain number of days have passed following a date, both parties are automatically hidden from each other…
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📅 Mar 1, 2025 22:49
About Men Who Catch Feelings I’m a female member of Universe. Lately, there have been far too many male members who catch serious feelings after meeting me just once for a first meeting and having an adult relationship (intimate) that same day. After meeting only once, they all start acting like I’m their girlfriend, so at this point I can’t help but laugh lol. In the past, I put up with the stress and kept things going for the money, b...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
I’m sorry if dreamers like me are causing you trouble.
That said, we have our side of the story too. What many older men are looking for is a sweet, romantic connection more than anything physical. And when someone gives them that, some men end up opening their wallets far more than they should. I’m one of them.
Emily is my favorite right now. We’ve only known each other for six months, yet I recently passed the 10-million-yen mark with her. ← Am I an idiot?
We see each ot…
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📅 Mar 1, 2025 07:27
I’m the person who posted the question below yesterday. Thank you all for your helpful replies. Based on the staff’s response, which said, “You may want to gently turn him down regarding any future relationship,” I’m planning to decline meeting him again. However, I’m still honestly worried about the photo issue. Would it be okay to tell him that directly? Of course, I realize I was at fault for agreeing to the photo, so I plan to apolo...
💬 Answer from だて◎ゆめ:
I was wondering what to do, but then I thought—!
I don’t think you should overthink it. It’s nothing that serious.
Even if someone saw it, it’s not like it would turn into a crime or some kind of problem, right? lol
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📅 Mar 1, 2025 00:51
I’m going on an overnight trip with my papa (a male supporter) soon. About how much allowance do you think I should expect? He asked me what I’d like, but it’s my first time, so I have no idea and I’m struggling to answer.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I think it’s best to tell him the amount you’re hoping for.
For a one-night, two-day trip, you’d normally ask for two pay-per-meeting allowances.
But if you’re close with your papa (a male supporter) and would like to travel with him, and it wouldn’t be a burden, you could tell him that one allowance is enough. He may invite you on another trip.
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📅 Feb 28, 2025 22:23
During dinner on my second date with my papa (a male supporter), he asked if we could take a photo together. Since he’s married, I was worried he might post it online, so I politely declined and explained why. Later, the server brought out a cake and encouraged us to take a picture, and my papa said again, “Let’s take one.” I felt pressured by the situation and couldn’t refuse, so I ended up taking it. I don’t know whether the server wa...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I’m not quite sure what you mean by:
> “After that, the server brought out a cake and encouraged us to take a picture.”
Was it a birthday cake or an anniversary cake? If so, rather than the restaurant being in on it, it’s more likely that he chose that kind of place and told them it was for a special occasion.
> “In a situation like this, should I firmly refuse?”
Exactly. No server would take a picture after being firmly refused. That’s why they phrase it as, “May I take …
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📅 Feb 26, 2025 17:34
We already have our next date set, but I haven’t gotten a reply on LINE for a week. We’ve met about five times so far, with an adult relationship, and she’s even come several times from a place about three hours away from the city. We used to message every day or two. Looking back over my last messages, I noticed several things I wrote that weren’t very considerate of her perspective, so I’m worried I may have messed up. I feel bad, but...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
It’s hard to say based on the wording alone, since people generally only share information that favors them or focuses on what caught their attention. Still, I wonder whether someone might really stop responding over something like:
“I noticed several parts of your messages that showed little consideration for the other person’s position.”
If anything, it also seems possible that the woman had been putting up with things again and again, but then was told something “particu…
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📅 Feb 26, 2025 16:07
I’d like to ask the members: Is there anything you’d like to try with a partner, or anything you’ve tried before that you found exciting?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
What I like by default is rear-entry. If she’s comfortable with it, I’d like to try 69, the Rolls-Royce, and standing rear-entry.
I wasn’t really into being on top originally, but one of my monthly partners who loves it got me into it. Now I actually enjoy it.
Reverse cowgirl is like an upgraded version—absolutely irresistible, lol.
I’m not particularly turned on by unusual play, and I’m not the type who can really get immersed in cosplay either. What gets me going is simp…
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📅 Feb 26, 2025 12:43
I’m the person who asked the question below. A male member replied that messages are supposed to remain, but in my case, the entire message history disappeared, and the member’s profile vanished without a trace as well. If I’ve been blocked, I’d like to delete his LINE contact, so could someone please let me know? The entire message thread with someone I went on a date with through PATLO has disappeared. Is it safe to assume that I’ve b...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you’re a woman registered with the club as well, I recommend contacting your branch office. They should be able to answer your questions, including how things work on PATOLO.
I’m not familiar with the women’s side of the system, and I also don’t know what happens from your perspective if a male member withdraws, so please check with the club for accurate information.
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📅 Feb 26, 2025 10:02
The entire message thread with someone I went on a date with through PATLO has disappeared. Does that mean they blocked me? They asked for my LINE contact information when we parted, so I thought they had a good impression of me. I’m really hurt. Maybe they were just being polite, but if they weren’t interested, I wish they’d been honest instead of asking for my LINE.
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
On the men’s side, I believe blocking someone only makes the woman’s profile no longer visible—just like when she leaves the site—while your previous message history remains.
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📅 Feb 25, 2025 22:55
I’m 27 and live between Kagawa and Okayama. I’m thinking about signing up with Universe, but I’m torn between the Kobe and Hiroshima branches. I get complimented on my looks a lot. I don’t personally think I’m anything special, but people often tell me I’m cute or beautiful. So I’m confident I’ll definitely be accepted, and that I’ll be ranked Black or Platinum. I might even get a premium rate (I’m getting a little carried away, lol). W...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I think you should start by moving somewhere within the Osaka branch’s area.
Between Kagawa and Okayama, Hiroshima is the closer option, but there aren’t many men in Hiroshima. Kobe has a reasonable number of men, but still fewer than Osaka.
Many men make offers with the intention of continuing the relationship, rather than meeting just once. So when they look at your general location, a man from the Kobe branch may think, “Kagawa—or Okayama, for that matter—is a bit far, s…
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📅 Feb 25, 2025 22:08
I’m a female member. To the gentlemen: Do you ever make offers to women who live far away? And to the female members: Would you accept one? I’m a female member living in a fairly rural area of Kyushu. After indicating that I was open to long-distance dates, I was fortunate enough to receive offers from several men in Tokyo and the Tohoku region. They were all wealthy and wonderful men who paid the actual cost of local transportation to ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> He paid an additional ¥10,000 for the actual local-train fare to the Shinkansen station or airport (which costs around ¥7,000 out of pocket), plus the actual cost of the Shinkansen or airfare, on top of the allowance.
Just to clarify, under club arrangements, the club’s rule is that actual transportation costs are paid separately for dates involving long-distance travel.
So if the round-trip cost is ¥50,000, the breakdown would be ¥50,000 plus transportation compensation …
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📅 Feb 25, 2025 12:49
Regarding the allowance: This is similar to the question below, but I’m looking for someone who will meet me on a pay-per-meeting basis for ¥50,000. Lately, though, I’ve been seeing more and more members of Universe Club offering ¥30,000–¥40,000, which is honestly discouraging. Should I put up with it and continue seeing someone like that, or would it be better to end things? Even if they’re a really nice person, it’s hard for me to sta...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
There are probably all kinds of opinions between men and women when it comes to allowances.
I’ve been a member for six years now, and looking back, I spent quite a while wandering around trying to figure things out. After plenty of twists and turns, over the past few years things have finally become much more stable by sticking to the same terms. And no matter what type of person she is, if our terms don’t match, I simply—and cleanly—withdraw.
Ultimately, it’s up to you, bu…
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📅 Feb 24, 2025 21:27
My allowance keeps getting lowered I’m registered as a C-type. The first time, when he asked how much I wanted, I said 50,000 yen including transportation, and he agreed, which led to an adult relationship (intimate). But from the second meeting onward, the allowance gets reduced. After we sleep together, I often hear things like: “I thought the first time was just for transportation, so it’s 40,000 yen.” “Three is what I can comfortabl...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I’ve never heard of a man like that. If he tried to lower my allowance, I’d be too embarrassed and would end things.