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📅 Feb 15, 2025 23:03
Is it true that around 70% of women who register with Universe Club eventually give up and leave without ever receiving an offer? Was that just the case in the past, or is it still like that now?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I don’t know the exact percentage, but there are probably quite a few women who don’t receive any offers.
Clubs don’t get paid by the women, and their interviews are relatively lenient
(which is fine, really).
Papa (a male supporter) won’t pay money to make an offer to someone who isn’t his type.
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) apps, there aren’t even interviews, so unattractive or unkempt people can join freely. That probably means there are even more wom…
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📅 Feb 15, 2025 22:14
After my papa (a male supporter) of two years came, he said, “Ah… I’m getting hooked…” He’s never said anything like that before. What do you think he meant? Did he just say it in the heat of the moment?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
That’s great.
You could ask her what she means by “getting hooked.”
Simply put, I think it means:
“It feels so good I can’t stop” → getting hooked.
If you’ve been seeing each other for two years and she says that, the sex must be exceptionally good. Men are supposedly wired to get bored after about two years for genetic reasons.
That’s great. Enjoy it.
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📅 Feb 14, 2025 16:07
My monthly-arrangement papa (a male supporter) rents an apartment for me, and he wants to stay over. I’m okay with seeing him at home, but he wants to stay the night after we go out for drinks, and I’m having trouble with that. How can I turn him down?
💬 Answer from バジル:
In the past, mistresses couldn’t refuse when their patron came to see them. If you’re having someone provide you with a place to live, you should be prepared for at least this much.
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📅 Feb 14, 2025 14:22
Don’t bother singing—just give me the only million yen you’ve got, lol. Don’t you think most girls are like that?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
What do you think?
Rather than someone with only ¥1 million, wouldn’t you go for someone who has more money?
It takes the same amount of effort to date someone and receive an allowance from them, so wouldn’t you just avoid anyone who only has ¥1 million to their name in the first place?
The time-to-money ratio is way too poor.
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📅 Feb 14, 2025 06:38
I have absolutely no confidence in my looks, and I only have about ¥1 million to my name. But I can sing my heart out. I’m not a singer or anything—I’m just an otaku middle-aged guy. Would a woman still find someone like me attractive?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you’re talented at singing, you can upload your work to social media, YouTube, and other platforms these days and get discovered even if you’re unknown.
So if no one has discovered you, it’s reasonable to assume that you either lack talent or simply don’t have enough appeal.
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📅 Feb 14, 2025 00:19
Are there any other dating clubs that give you an Amazon gift card just for attending an interview? Is Universe the only one?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Depending on the time of year, there may be various membership campaigns or referral bonuses for introducing friends. Check the club’s website or contact them directly by email to ask.
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📅 Feb 13, 2025 22:26
Despite having a five-star rating on Universe Club’s profile and receiving glowing comments from the staff, I hesitate to make an offer when a woman has only one star on Patro, or when her post-date feedback shows just 16% for “sent a thank-you message” or “was actively engaged in conversation.” With it being 16%, I assume there must be a reasonably large sample size behind that figure. How reliable is Patro’s feedback, really? Does thi...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
The system engineer explained that because the stars are calculated differently, ratings on Patro fluctuate much more dramatically, while ratings at the club tend to change more gradually.
On Patro, if you happen to turn down a low-paying allowance and the papa lowers your rating, your score can drop all at once. So I think women who maintain high ratings on Patro for a long time are both lucky and really putting in the effort.
I once made an offer to a woman who had five s…
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📅 Feb 13, 2025 19:46
I’ve gotten quite a lot of favorites, but not a single offer has come through...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You may still be better off just because you’ve been added to someone’s favorites.
There are women who don’t even get favorites or offers.
If you’re using Pato, you might start getting offers if you lower your desired allowance or transportation fee.
If you’re with a club, you might get offers if you remove comments on your profile that make you seem expensive.
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📅 Feb 13, 2025 17:16
I'm going on a date with my girlfriend in Tokyo this weekend. Can you recommend a high-end hotel? Aman is too expensive.
💬 Answer from マックさん:
I’m getting a nose job tomorrow. I’m scared. But I want to look cuter and wring even more money out of papas. Give me some courage.
2024/06/24 00:02 Woman, 20s, No answer 89423
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/16903
How can I get the woman I’m dating to cheer up? Since last year, I’ve been the one saying that we should go to Kyoto during this year’s summer vacation...
2024/06/15 19:45 Man, 40s, No answer 89423
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/…
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📅 Feb 13, 2025 16:19
I'm planning a family trip with my 7-year-old child and 70-year-old grandmother. Can you recommend activities suitable for both ages and tell me how to book them?
💬 Answer from カズ:
You’re posting question in wrong place.
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📅 Feb 13, 2025 12:39
At the first meeting, he said, “Konchikubi~.” I definitely didn’t mishear him. Is that some kind of trend?
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
I said “conchinko.”
Sorry, I’ve got terrible diction.
Either way, it’s not trending.
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📅 Feb 13, 2025 04:05
I wish the naive girls who say they don’t want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) would just quit already. That way, there’d be less competition, which would be great for women who are prepared to commit to it. Go away! Go away! Hurry up and disappear! You’re such a child.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It seems like people who don’t want to do it aren’t even competition for those who are willing to be proactive.
In a way, the fact that there are B’s and A’s who can’t do it makes the C’s who can even more appealing…
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📅 Feb 13, 2025 03:50
I’m thinking about applying for an interview soon, but do you offer things like travel compensation just for attending the interview, or an Amazon gift card just for the interview?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I believe there have been limited-time campaigns like this in the past. If you’re a Black-class-level member, I may be able to arrange something comparable to those previous campaigns, so please contact Maezawa.
That said, someone who seems like they should be Black may end up being Platinum instead, so luck plays a part—depending on whether you happen to get a strict staff member.
I believe that luck is part of one’s ability, too.
Also, I can’t do anything if you contact …
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📅 Feb 13, 2025 00:48
What do you think about women who have pubic hair?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I think either is fine, but—
For example, asking what you think of women with long hair is a similar kind of question. I don’t think there’s any answer other than that it comes down to personal preference.
Though I suspect this is probably just another survey of the respondents’ opinions…
Regarding pubic hair:
There was a time when not only showing the genitals, but even showing pubic hair, was considered “obscene.” Naturally, anyone who published a photo book featuring p…
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📅 Feb 12, 2025 22:16
I’ve been seeing my papa (a male supporter) for a little while now, and his shedding has started to bother me. He has a lot of body hair, and whenever we take a bath together, so much hair floats in the water that I find it unpleasant and lose the mood before intimacy. Even after we get out, there’s so much hair scattered on the floor that it’s difficult to find anywhere to step. He’s a serious, nice person, and our conversations are ea...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Take separate baths. Have the person asking the question go first.
I highly recommend getting full-body hair removal.
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📅 Feb 12, 2025 00:59
I’ve contracted an STI—gonorrhea. I’m not sure whether I got it from one of the three women I’ve been in long-term relationships with, or from the woman I had a one-night stand with. Since I had sex with all three during the time I was infected, there’s a chance they’ve all been infected as well. I’ve told each of them, “You’re the only one for me,” so I can’t tell them I have an STI. They’ve also each told me I’m the only one they’re s...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
No, no—every woman knows that “you’re the only one” is a lie.
The person asking probably caught it from one of those four too, haha.
You need to tell everyone. If they don’t all get treated, it’ll just keep getting passed back and forth, and you’ll catch it again, haha. You won’t develop immunity.
Your only option is to tell them. If that means breaking up, then break up and look for offers from new people at the club.
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 23:57
What should I do when a man can’t finish? I’m the person who asked the question above. Thank you so much for your answers. There’s one thing I’d like to add. Sometimes, when a man can’t finish, he keeps trying for two or three hours, and I have no idea when it’s going to end. I’d also like to ask what I should do in situations like that. (I’ve tried taking a shower, but when I came back out, he started touching my breasts again.) Since ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Don’t give in.
Even if it means ending things, say no when something makes you uncomfortable.
If you don’t speak up, it becomes the default, and men aren’t very good at picking up on hints.
I say that as someone who failed to notice the signs myself and ended up parting ways with an important woman. I regret it. I used to be much more sensitive to those signals, but I messed up.
Looking at it from a woman’s perspective, please don’t continue your papa-katsu (compensated d…
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 23:10
I always find the posts here helpful. A man with Universe membership on PATOLO messaged me saying he wanted to talk, so we exchanged messages a few times. We never discussed an allowance or anything like that—just ordinary conversation—but then he said he was busy and couldn’t make me an offer right away. Months have passed, and things are still the same. Does he only want to exchange messages? What are men like this trying to get out o...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
When sending an offer, they may message several people at the same time and see how each person responds.
Since Patro doesn’t have classes, I don’t think this is limited to black-class members specifically.
If the number of messages is overwhelming or you find it annoying, you can just ignore them.
Though, you might miss out on offers from people who don’t ignore you...
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 21:40
It’s so emotionally draining that an adult relationship is basically a prerequisite. I’m a female member. The staff told me that Type A gets very few offers, so I switched to Type B, but honestly, the fact that an adult relationship is still expected makes me feel like crying. Spending time at hotels is genuinely painful. I put up with it every time, but I’ve reached my limit and feel sick. Are there really no papas (male supporters) wh...
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
Wouldn’t it be better to change your relationship type to A, even knowing that offers may become harder to come by, or consider another approach?
Among the people I’m currently seeing, some mainly want to go out for meals.
You’ll need to make an effort to become someone they want to meet—even for dinner only (no intimacy)—with an allowance.
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 20:08
I’m dating someone who’s a B2 type, and I’d like some advice on negotiating the allowance for our next date. At the end of our meeting, should we simply agree to see each other again, exchange contact information, and decide on the allowance later via LINE or something similar? Or should I negotiate the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate) next time first, then exchange contact information once we’ve reached an agreement? If t...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I only offer C, so…
When you explain the terms over LINE, you really have to be careful with your wording. Otherwise, it can come across as cold, and the nuances may not get across properly.
So I talk about it in person. I bring up the terms at the end of the meal. If we agree, we move on to the next step. If we can’t agree, we go our separate ways.
In Fuu’s case, it’s become pretty rare lately for us not to reach an agreement. Sorry to brag, but my five-plus years of expe…