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📅 Feb 21, 2025 13:46
What’s the best way to stay in touch with someone? I assume most people register under their club name, but after the first meeting, how do you usually exchange contact information? I currently use text messages on my phone, but are there any other good options? With apps like LINE, is there a chance your real name might be visible?
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
I use my computer whenever I’m not out, so LINE is the obvious choice for me. Most of the people I’ve met used their real names. Though even when they do, they usually use hiragana or Roman letters.
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📅 Feb 21, 2025 12:36
I just signed up, and when it comes to an adult relationship (intimate), is it usually without a condom? If possible, I’d prefer to use one. I’m not on the pill, so getting pregnant would be a problem.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’d tell him during the negotiation before going to his place that using a condom is mandatory.
If you’re going to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you should also consider taking the pill.
Hopefully nothing happens, but condoms can break, slip off, or leak, and someone might force you into going without one. Once you regret it, it’s too late, so protect yourself first and manage the risks.
Low-dose birth control pills have little to no effect on your body, can…
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📅 Feb 21, 2025 10:48
How should I decline when someone asks to exchange LINE at the first meeting? A guy I met for the first time asked me to exchange LINE, and although I really didn’t want to, I reluctantly agreed. Exchanging LINE can risk revealing my real name, so I’d rather avoid it if possible. Does anyone have a good way to politely decline if I’m asked again in the future?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you’re using your real name on LINE, you should change it if you’re going to engage in this kind of questionable activity.
Otherwise, you’re basically letting your personal information spill everywhere.
As long as you don’t use your real name on LINE, there’s no real problem with exchanging contacts—you can just block them right away afterward.
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📅 Feb 20, 2025 23:48
When I receive my allowance, what’s the proper and most polite way to put it away if I’m given the bills loose? Should I put the money straight into my wallet in front of him, or fold it in half and temporarily put it in my bag or pocket, then transfer it to my wallet later? I always feel a little awkward when I’m handed my allowance, so I’d appreciate knowing what would be considered the ideal way to handle it. Thank you.
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
None of the women I’ve met put the money straight into their wallets. Most of them folded it and tucked it away in their bags.
Personally, I don’t really mind either way.
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📅 Feb 20, 2025 17:01
I’ve been seeing a woman for about two years in an adult relationship (intimate). There was about a year when we didn’t see each other, and when we met again after that, her makeup had changed and she seemed much more skilled. I asked if she’d been seeing someone else, but she said she hadn’t. I understand if she saw someone else during the time we weren’t meeting, but now we see each other regularly. When I ask whether she’s been seein...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
What a ridiculous thing to ask. I thought you were asking as part of some playful role-play.
Even if that’s the case, it’s not a very good game to play.
To begin with, what exactly do you want to know? If she were seeing another man, would you break up with her? If so, I think you should end things regardless of whether it’s true or not. There’s no point continuing a relationship when you don’t trust her.
Besides, the woman’s answer was perfectly natural. Even if she is se…
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📅 Feb 19, 2025 13:58
Hello, I joined UC and Patro last month and received offers from two people. They were both very pleased, and we’ve already made plans to meet again. However, when we met, they half-jokingly said that because they really liked me, they wouldn’t want to give me a high rating in case I received offers from other people. Are there really people who like someone they’ve met so much that they intentionally give them a lower rating? Honestly,...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
As far as I know, there aren’t any men who intentionally leave bad reviews. However, there are quite a few men who deliberately choose not to leave a review, for exactly the reasons mentioned.
So I think you should just accept that this is how men can be sometimes. Also, it’s worth knowing that women with overly high ratings are actually avoided, so having an average rating is probably best.
Bad reviews can affect the offers you receive, but they’re usually for things like …
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📅 Feb 19, 2025 12:29
I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with an adult relationship (intimate) since last year, but I still haven’t been able to find a good match. Before starting papa-katsu, I had no experience with men or relationships, so I don’t really understand what’s enjoyable about intimacy or what pleasure is supposed to feel like. (Since I started taking the pill, I haven’t felt any sexual desire at all, so I don’t masturbate....
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> I tend to be pretty passive, and often things don’t continue after having an adult relationship just once.
I think you should treat it as a learning experience: watch porn and try acting similarly. Then practice until you can respond so naturally that even you can’t tell whether you’re acting or not.
Even if it’s obviously an act at first, I think it’s worth trying to make the same sounds as in porn. Women who are very passive may think, “There’s no way I can do that,” or…
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📅 Feb 18, 2025 23:45
I’m so depressed because I’m not getting any offers. I hardly get any offers at all, and even the club staff are cold whenever I go in for an interview. I honestly feel like dying. Successful papas are out there driving Lamborghinis and living glamorous lives, while I’m basically just someone men they meet at Universal Studios—three or four of them—use for cheap allowances and unprotected sex once or twice, then usually cut off. I know ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Don’t compare yourself to other people.
There will always be someone above you and someone below you. The women soliciting on the streets around Toyoko, for example, are getting about 15,000 yen.
Just getting accepted by a club, being able to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and having a papa (a male supporter) who gives you 40,000 yen is pretty decent.
It’s also disrespectful to women who aren’t getting any offers at all.
If you meet a papa who gives you 40,0…
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📅 Feb 18, 2025 16:06
Ladies in papa-katsu who have unprotected sex with ejaculation inside, how do you prevent bacterial vaginosis…? Do you always use Collage Furfur and Sepe afterward, then Inclear before bed???
💬 Answer from マックさん:
Chuchu is good:
https://tclinic.jp/VitaminC.html
By the way, this is your fourth question. Your age and gender have remained consistent.
Seriously, what do all you Universe women do when you’re about to have diarrhea while entertaining a papa at a hotel? Other than just gritting your teeth…
2025/02/02 15:04 Female, 20s, Universe female member 91863
My papa has been inviting me for the past year, saying, “Let’s go to Hokkaido during summer vacation!” I’d been looking for…
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📅 Feb 18, 2025 14:26
About the staff at Universe Club. The other day, I went in for an interview to re-register. A female staff member reprimanded me in a rather intimidating tone for having canceled a date and interview on the same day in the past because I genuinely wasn’t feeling well—not as an excuse, but due to unavoidable circumstances. She told me that my rating had gone down, so I would be less likely to receive offers. I fully understand that I was...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
That’s pretty harsh.
I’m extremely tolerant of last-minute cancellations, which is why my regulars cancel on me all the time, lol. But it honestly doesn’t bother me at all. If someone cancels, I just work instead, so I sometimes even feel like I’ve come out ahead.
Women are just the kind of creatures who cancel at the last minute, you know.
There’s also a new woman I haven’t even met yet who’s canceled on me over and over, but I don’t mind in the slightest. If anything, I …
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📅 Feb 18, 2025 13:28
Monthly arrangement: ¥450,000, meeting 10–13 times a month, about seven hours per meeting. Meals included. He’s quite possessive. NS and NN are the norm. I’m in my late 30s, with an average figure and average looks—nothing particularly exceptional. I’m on the pill. Actually, my papa and I had been together under these terms for about five years, but we broke things off a little while ago. The reason was either that he found another woma...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
What are you doing for seven hours?
Having sex?
If you divide 450,000 yen by 13, that comes to 36,000 yen per pay-per-meeting arrangement, with seven hours of your time tied up.
It’s amazing you managed to put up with that for five years.
Though it sounds like it might take a toll on your mental health...
If you’re not going to break down, you’re making more than the average salary of a company employee, so if you need the money, I think you should keep going.
Still, …
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📅 Feb 17, 2025 11:37
I’m in my early 20s, and I received an offer from someone in their late 20s. What’s the deal with people in their 20s doing papa-katsu? It feels a little scary—could it be some kind of solicitation? I don’t think they’d need to use this site, so it seems suspicious.
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I’ve been thinking lately that there seem to be a lot of younger people! So it’s like that overall, huh? ( ॣo ᴗo )
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📅 Feb 17, 2025 10:19
I like receiving oral sex, but it doesn’t make me climax. My papa (a male supporter) seems determined to make me finish, and it gets unpleasant when he keeps going down on me for so long. Even though I tell him I won’t climax that way, he has this strange confidence because he’s managed to make me finish plenty of times before.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If he won’t stop even when you tell him to, maybe wait for the right moment and pretend you’ve finished?
Women can actually do that pretty convincingly. You could just shudder a little and say, “I came.”
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📅 Feb 17, 2025 09:56
I don’t really have any dreams or ambitions in particular. Do papas want to support girls who have dreams? A friend of mine does papa-katsu too, and she said she just makes up something about her dreams, but she wouldn’t tell me what she says. She has lots of papas and is apparently very good at it, even though she genuinely has no dreams at all. (Apparently, her real dream is to buy a luxury high-rise apartment.)
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s actually better if she doesn’t have any big dreams or ambitions. I prefer papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with a woman who has a regular day job.
People with dreams often need money to pursue them, so I’m put off when money is too obviously their main focus.
I’m guessing that woman is either attractive, open to an adult relationship (intimate), or has a charming personality. I don’t think her dreams are the real reason.
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📅 Feb 17, 2025 09:51
I’m 29 and recently started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’ve met a few men, and while the mediocre older guys tell me they’d like to see me again, the men I find attractive haven’t invited me out again. I think my looks are reasonably appealing, but I’m probably not very good at conversation. Still, I’d like to be liked by attractive, impressive men. I want to become the kind of woman that sophisticated, intelligent men wa...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Everyone wants what they can’t have.
There are plenty of rivals for both good papas and good papa-katsu girls, so once they find someone they like, they move on to them.
As Basil-san said, improving your conversation skills isn’t easy, so you could work on your bedroom skills, or make yourself tighter down there (for example, with hyaluronic acid injections).
Or the easiest option is to do your absolute best to fulfill all of your partner’s bedroom requests. A lot of women…
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📅 Feb 17, 2025 00:22
I’ve been seeing my papa (a male supporter) for three years, but recently he’s started telling me during intimacy to say, “I’m ○○’s flesh toilet.” When I say, “I’m ○○’s girlfriend,” he responds, “And what else are you to me?” “My girlfriend.” “You’re something else too, right? You’re my flesh toilet, aren’t you?” That kind of exchange. He says it turns him on when I say it. I really like my papa, so even if it’s just a play thing, it hu...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I can see how that kind of thing might be part of the play.
If that’s how you see it, you could go along with it and indulge him—but this part:
> He told me, “If you’re okay with just being friends with benefits, then let’s date,” and in the end, I went back to being his girlfriend.
makes me feel that the man already has the upper hand, and that he no longer sees you as part of a role-play, but genuinely as nothing more than a sex toy.
If that’s the kind of relationship y…
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📅 Feb 16, 2025 20:30
I’m 36 and weigh around 90 kg (with a very youthful face). When I tell people I’ve just met my actual age, they’re always surprised and say I look about 27 or 28. Would there be any interest in me?
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
To put it bluntly, I’d probably be considered plus-size even at an adult entertainment venue.
I lost 7 kg before joining Universe, and another 15 kg afterward. That’s motivation for you! (﹡ƠωƠ֦﹡)
Profiles list your actual age, not your apparent age, so looks aren’t really a factor in this world.
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📅 Feb 16, 2025 17:10
This was the first time we were supposed to meet in about a month. He had chosen the date, time, and place, and I messaged him three days beforehand to confirm that everything still worked for him. He replied that it was fine. About an hour before we were due to meet, I messaged him again, but the message wasn’t marked as read. I assumed he was on his way, so I didn’t think much of it. However, even after waiting for an hour, I couldn’t...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
Worrying about it won’t bring him back. Maybe there was an issue with the conversation or LINE messages, or perhaps it was simply a matter of timing.
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📅 Feb 16, 2025 14:52
I work for a Chinese company. Is it possible to pay with UnionPay (Yinlian) cards?
💬 Answer from カズ:
I haven’t tried it myself, but it’s probably possible, depending on certain conditions.
It may not work depending on the country where your UnionPay card was issued, and the club may change its payment provider—or the provider’s support for UnionPay may change.
It would be best to confirm when you have your meeting.
That said, anyone who gets the name “UnionPay” wrong probably doesn’t actually have a UnionPay card in the first place.
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📅 Feb 16, 2025 13:24
In a recent answer on the Q&A forum, user “Paper Airplane” wrote: “Because of the 80/20 rule, there’s a possibility that 70% of both men and women aren’t able to have the kind of relationships they want.” I’ve read it 100 times and still don’t understand what it means. If they’re talking about the 80/20 rule—which I don’t even understand to begin with—where did the 70% come from?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
LOL. If you didn’t know, you should’ve Googled the 80/20 Pareto principle before asking.
If you know the Pareto principle, you can understand it after reading it once.
The Pareto principle means that the numbers “80:20” aren’t absolute—they’re merely symbolic figures representing the tendency for most results to be produced by only a small portion of the whole.
Most likely, around the top 20% of women receive roughly 80% of the offers. So, well, about 70% of women probably…