I feel like I’ve suddenly started looking much older now that I’m in my 30s.
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I’ve often been complimented on my looks and figure by both men and women. But since turning 30, I feel like I’ve lost my spark—and, more than anything, my confidence.
Do I still have a chance of receiving offers?
Sex drive may increase and female hormones may decline, but as male hormones become stronger, you might actually feel more energetic, don’t you?
There are plenty of confident, forward women in their 40s and 50s among my peers.
The average age of Japan’s population is around 48, and the largest age group keeps getting older each year. There will be more energetic papas in their 50s and beyond, and women’s demand will rise with age too.
Let’s both do our best to stay youthful.
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There are women in their 30s who still receive plenty of offers. At the branch I’m registered with, there are even women in their 40s who receive plenty of offers.
That said, the women who get a lot of offers tend to take very good care of their appearance. So ultimately, I think it depends on your potential.
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There’s no photo and no other information—only the person’s age range and the fact that they’ve lost their spark. Is there any demand for someone like that?
I don’t know…
It would be nice if offers could be judged based on that little information, but in reality, it’s more complicated.
Even after an actual interview, where you receive various details and ask all kinds of questions, sometimes you expect an offer to come through and it doesn’t. (The opposite happens too.)
Asking about demand here won’t really help, since there’s far too little information to make a judgment.
Please come in for an interview.
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If you’ve never done papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) before, I think there’s plenty of demand, and you’ll likely be well received.
I believe the balance between supply and demand is fairly even across all age groups, so if you feel you’d benefit from joining a club, it might be worth giving it a try without overthinking it.
The men who make offers will naturally be interested in your age, appearance, and profile, so I don’t think you need to worry too much.
Whether or not you receive any offers depends on the individual, so I think it would be best to try it once and see.
Addendum:
I suppose they’re using several smartphones or tablets all by themselves…
“Ka?”—who seems to do nothing but leave comments—nice work.
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I’m not really into youthful, immature vibes, so I prefer women in their 30s who are more composed. Childish behavior is an especially big turnoff for me. Regardless of age, what matters is whether she has something that catches a man’s interest.
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If your lack of energy doesn’t show during the staff interview or in your photos, and you’re in your early 30s with an appearance and figure people compliment, shouldn’t you get offers at first?
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