I’ve been seeing a papa (a male supporter) a few times since the end of last year.
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Lately, he’s been saying things on LINE like, “I’ve seriously fallen for you,” “I want us to date,” and “I want to make you my wife.” When we talked on the phone the other day, he even asked, “How much would I have to give you every month to have you all to myself?”
I thought it would be a hassle if he got too serious, so I’ve been wondering what to do. I met him again yesterday, and he said, “I was so busy with work that I was wondering whether I should even meet you today.” When we’re together, he only talks about himself.
When it was almost time to leave, he let out a big sigh, so I thought maybe he didn’t want me to go. But then he said, “I wonder what I should eat when I get home.” LOL
If you really liked a woman who was sitting right next to you, you wouldn’t say things like you were unsure about meeting her, talk only about yourself, or wonder what you were going to eat after getting home, right?
Is it safe to assume that he’s not genuinely in love with me?
Thanks to Mac, I don’t have to take troll posts seriously and answer them, which is a big help.
Still, why are they so obsessed with this Q&A site?
Do they have nothing better to do?
I’m sure there are message boards besides this one, so maybe they come here because nobody takes them seriously elsewhere, while this site is full of sincere people who will actually respond to them.
I’m not sure how to answer made-up questions, but:
> So it’s safe to assume he’s not genuinely in love with me, right?
Yes, that’s right.
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This kind of question feels like a comedic prompt for a witty answer.
Thanks for providing it.
I think it’s pretty common to have a hostess you’d like to date, keep going to her club even though you know dating her is impossible, and then, once the bill is paid, think, “I really shouldn’t have—but I spent another fortune. What am I going to eat when I get home?”
Since you’re not asking her to date you for free, why not pay her to play house as your wife once a week or so?
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か？さん、お疲れさまです。
Even for the first meeting, they must be using a different phone or computer…
To add my two cents:
That’s the kind of thing the woman should be the one to bring up. A man who keeps saying it unilaterally is completely failing to read a woman’s feelings.
He’s a clueless guy who keeps repeating things the other person can only respond to affirmatively. I’m sure he’s already used to being brushed off.
It might help to have another man listen to you vent about that kind of stress. If he’s someone who doesn’t involve an allowance, you can probably let it all out without having to worry about being considerate.
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Which would be better, I wonder?
Do you actually want him to fall seriously for you?
If you don’t want that, then it’s actually lucky that he turned out to be a papa who’s all talk.
Good for you.
Women think about things like,
“What should I eat later?”
during sex too, right?
It’s the same thing, lol.
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How should I know?
How should I know?
How should I know?
Adding this after reading Mac’s answer:
I think the person probably believes they’re being funny when they write this stuff.
I find these posts completely unfunny and made-up. If they are fictional, then the person is painfully unfunny and keeps striking out. But if they’re true, then they’re just publicly masturbating for no apparent reason, which is creepy.
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