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Mar 14, 2025 04:25
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Thank you as always for your help.
I joined a week ago, although it took me a while to get the hang of logging in and setting up my profile, so today is effectively only my fifth day of being active.
To receive offers, I’ve been reading men’s profiles carefully, showing genuine interest, and sending messages that encourage them to reply with questions. Men do add me to their favorites, but I haven’t received a single offer yet.
What else should I do to start receiving offers?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It looks like all you can do is wait.
I’m not sure whether you’re using a club or a patron-matching service, but wait about two more weeks. If you still don’t receive any offers, unfortunately, it probably isn’t a place where you’re likely to get offers.
You may need to try somewhere else. If you really want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you might have to lower your standards a little and try platforms like Happy Mail or X.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
If you’re having trouble logging in or setting up your profile, I’m guessing you mean either the app or PATOLO?
When a man sends a message and doesn’t get a reply, he’ll usually check the woman’s profile afterward. In many cases, he sees her photo and realizes she isn’t his type.
Even if he likes the photo, he may still not reply if the introduction text is underwhelming.
In the end, photos are what matter most, so if you can’t change your profile photo, I think your best bet may be to compete with a good selfie.
Regarding what Mac wrote:
> Apparently, you can transfer from Universe to that dating club, then rewrite both your photos and profile completely on PATOLO. You’ll disappear from Universe itself, though.
That’s true.
PATOLO has various dating clubs as members, and if the woman herself wants it, they’ll even allow them to poach her...
It makes me wonder, what is Universe doing?
What benefit do they get from this?
It makes no sense.
That said, one of the member clubs in a certain area is being very proactive.
They’re also incredibly skilled at taking women who were standard-level at Universe, raising them to platinum pricing, and still getting offers for them.
From a man’s perspective, the setting fee has gone up, so I imagine the Universe staff are wondering whether that’s really a good thing.
But sometimes I think, “Is wanting the cheaper option a very Showa-era mindset?”
Well, of course cheaper is better.
Still, the fact that this club can raise the price and continue getting offers has even people within the company saying, “That club is really something.”