Tips Apr 18, 2025 12:54

What do you think he really meant by this?

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I spoke on the phone today with a married man I met at a nightlife establishment—not through papa-katsu—and whom I’m seeing. Him: “I want to see you soon.” Me: “It’s going to be way too long until we can meet again.” Him: “I’ll somehow make time during Golden Week. We have to do it at least once.” Me: “Do what?” Him: “We need to meet at least once. You’ll have a boyfriend again soon anyway.” It’s true that I got two boyfriends while I was seeing him. Does “we have to do it at least once” mean something like, “Since it’ll be so long until we meet again, I won’t be able to hold back my urges, so I want to find time to get together at least once”?
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Though I don’t really know the situation, they’re married too, so even if you made another boyfriend or a FWB, I don’t see the problem. Since you’re dating, if they say they want to, you might as well go along with it. It doesn’t come across as bragging—more like an amusing status update.
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I agree with Kazu. Even if you gather opinions on what other people think, you still won’t know what this person actually thinks.
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I think you should ask him directly. Collecting random guesses here won’t get you anywhere.
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