Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Aug 24, 2025 16:25
On Patro, you can see when women are online and how popular they are, which makes me feel pressured to send an offer quickly. Also, I noticed that the introduction fee tripled after a date was arranged this time. I realized that papa-katsu is also governed by supply and demand. On the other hand, I see many women on Patro who don’t reply. Do you have any tips for arranging lots of dates?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Are you new to this site, by any chance?
I can understand feeling impatient at first. Offers tend to pour in for attractive women.
That said, new women keep joining all the time, so there’s no need to rush. Meeting someone also comes down to luck. In general, I think it’s best to make an offer quickly, but sometimes it works to take a contrarian approach—wait while someone is receiving lots of offers, then reach out once things have settled down.
You could also look throug…
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📅 Aug 23, 2025 18:57
I used to be a member of Universe Club and am currently active on Patro. A woman who registered as Gold at the beginning of this week was upgraded to Black today. It hasn’t even been a week yet—and of course, the offer fee changes too. I feel like this happened occasionally before, but has it been happening more often lately? It made me realize I probably shouldn’t be casually exchanging messages on Patro, so I wanted to ask.
💬 Answer from 迷わない70代:
The original questioner was a lost-and-confused man in his 60s who had also registered as an answerer.
Thank you all for your responses.
It’s been quite a while since I last posted, but with another milestone birthday coming up soon, I’m thinking it’s about time to retire. Still, I’m making one last attempt and continuing to use Patro for now.
This time, I was able to make an offer as a Gold-class member, but I was surprised when the woman changed to Black class after such…
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📅 Aug 23, 2025 12:12
The papa (a male supporter) I see regularly has been asking me out on dates a lot lately. He was someone who took me from dinner straight to a hotel from our very first meeting. Since I usually see several papas in one day, a date would tie me up for the whole day, so it feels like a waste of time. I can make ¥150,000–¥300,000 just by seeing two or three papas. For dates, I do charge an extra ¥20,000 on top of the adult relationship (in...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Since you accepted it once, it became the default. You should have declined the first date by saying you weren’t available or already had plans.
At this point, the papa is clearly completely smitten with you. If you tell him the price for something like a trip and both you and your papa are happy with it, then I suppose that’s fine, but…
I feel like you need to find the right balance—not lean into it too much or get him overly serious. Otherwise, things could get messy or c…
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📅 Aug 23, 2025 08:05
I figured out pretty much everything from that comment by Make-Guy, whom almost every responder here dislikes, lol. So basically, the men here look down on women, huh? I see! lol It’s seriously bizarre for one responder to obsessively go after another responder, lol. You should really realize how messed up that is, lol. There were never any decent men among guys who pay to buy women anyway, lol.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You can’t really know whether someone who says they’re disliked is actually disliked by the people around them, can you?
I simply disagree with the questioner’s opinion. Other than that, I respect the women who regularly date Fuu.
If I looked down on them, things wouldn’t last, and I’d lose women who give me good sex, so that would be impossible.
So you think men are buying the questioner?
Well, people involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) probably aren’t c…
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📅 Aug 23, 2025 07:58
I’m the person who previously asked about pain during sex. I was asking women who had experienced similar problems in the past while doing adult papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), especially those who had frequent intimate encounters, because I wanted to hear how they overcame it. Yes, I’m also the person who posted the follow-up questions calling out the responses. But when I looked at the answers to my question about pain durin...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
As Mac-san said, I think most of the female respondents also enjoy their club activities.
If you think about it that way, can’t you imagine that there are probably very few female respondents suffering from pain during intercourse, even if the question is addressed to women?
You also say to ask women, but women generally don’t know how other women date.
For example, if you ask a woman during sex, “You get wet easily, don’t you?” she’ll usually say she can’t answer because …
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📅 Aug 22, 2025 03:08
I’m debating whether I should register with a club, and I’m also considering asking here about some concerns I have regarding papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). But are the staff here—and the people answering questions—perhaps devoted to picking apart everything questioners say? There seem to be so many answers like that, so if that’s really the case, I’m thinking I might just give up on both registering and asking questions.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Well, yes, that’s true.
We’d rather not have women with bad attitudes joining, so this is really for the best.
Please don’t join Universe Club or Patro. We ask that you pursue your activities elsewhere.
You can also ask ChatGPT your questions—it will answer without criticizing or rejecting you, so please go there instead.
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📅 Aug 22, 2025 02:41
Even when I’m sufficiently aroused during an adult relationship (intimate) with my papa (a male supporter), penetration hurts every time. I end up writhing in pain whenever he tries to go deeper. How can I reduce the pain? Also, air often gets trapped in my vagina—how can I stop that from happening? I’d especially like to hear from other women.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
The best thing to do is consult a professional. Advice from amateurs is the most dangerous, since they may say something incorrect.
That’s why asking a medical professional—the expert—is the best option.
So if someone only wants to hear opinions from nonprofessionals, it seems like they’re merely conducting a survey or market research, not actually trying to solve the problem.
Were you hoping to hear something like, “If you’re poisoned by pufferfish, burying yourself in th…
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📅 Aug 21, 2025 09:05
The people answering here say things like, “I’ve never been turned down when offering an allowance of 50,000 yen,” but that’s a lie, right? Either they’re choosing unpopular women who don’t get many offers, or they have dementia and have forgotten being turned down—which is it?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Even though I’m starting to forget things here and there, I still can’t forget how frustrating it felt to be turned down.
Dementia is supposed to be a natural function that helps you live happily as you age, so you don’t get crushed by all the unpleasant memories piling up—haha.
I’ve been turned down countless times by women who simply rejected me, claiming they were on their period (though I never knew if that was true), women who said, “I’m an 8 or higher,” and women who …
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📅 Aug 20, 2025 20:24
Do older guys really think they can make young women feel good? Almost every one of them tells me, “I want you to feel good, [name],” but who do they think can actually feel good with an old guy’s body? lol Honestly, I already have my sexual needs taken care of by younger or same-age friends-with-benefits in my private life, so with these older guys, I just want them to get it over with and finish as quickly as possible. I even laugh wh...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
LOL
Yes, I do think that, and I even say it:
“I want you to enjoy yourself.”
Maybe you’re someone who was once with Fuu and cut ties after seeing his true colors. I’ve met several women who just lay there passively—women who weren’t worth the allowance.
It depends on the person.
You’re free to believe that if you want, but not everyone is like that. If you do papa-katsu while assuming everyone feels that way, it must be pretty miserable. What a waste.
The papa will usual…
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📅 Aug 20, 2025 07:21
Good morning. I recently joined and had my first intimate encounter the other day. We had agreed beforehand on a pay-per-meeting allowance of ¥50,000, but after going to the hotel and then having dinner, my papa (a male supporter) said that the ¥50,000 included the meal, which surprised me. I had understood that ¥50,000 per meeting meant going to the hotel and being intimate. I thought the ¥50,000 we agreed on didn’t include the cost of...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
There have been questions before about whether transportation costs should be included in the allowance, but including the cost of the meal? That’s a new one to me! I’m thinking, “Oh, so that’s an option.” But I couldn’t do it myself—it just feels too tacky.
People have all sorts of views on allowances, but I’d like to stick to what I learned back in my student days from my Susukino mentor: “Once a man has offered to pay, he doesn’t take it back!”
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📅 Aug 18, 2025 23:51
I have a date tomorrow with someone who sent me an offer. I selected Type C, and I would like to accept an invitation after dinner if possible. I’m sorry for the somewhat vulgar subject, but I’m currently experiencing abnormal bleeding. I also developed a yeast infection during my period, and the skin around my genitals has become cracked/irritated, so I’m in too much pain to be intimate. This is just my assumption, but I feel that I re...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Ideally, you would have the staff inform the man in advance.
However, this seems like something the staff can’t communicate due to the nature of the information. (They apparently can’t even tell him that you’re on your period, so I doubt they’d be able to explain this.) That makes going through the staff difficult, but since it’s information the man would want to know beforehand, I still think it would be best to consult the staff.
Then, if the subject comes up with the man…
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📅 Aug 18, 2025 23:06
Question about a woman–man–woman threesome. I’ve tried it before, but isn’t it surprisingly difficult? Are there any easy, exciting adult techniques that can satisfy all three people?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
① The “king” position: have both women perform oral on you from either side. The key is to have them deep-kiss each other first, so they get comfortable with their tongues touching. If you skip that, they’ll both hold back and it won’t feel as good.
② Have intercourse with one woman in the missionary position while embracing, kissing, and making out with the other woman’s upper body. It gives you a sense of taboo and indulgence.
③ While taking one woman from behind, have th…
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📅 Aug 18, 2025 20:40
If your feelings suddenly cool off while you’re seeing someone, do you send them a goodbye message to bring things to a proper close? After each date, I’d usually hear from him about the next invitation within a week or so, but I haven’t heard anything this time. I’m wondering if maybe his feelings have cooled. I imagine some women may prefer to let things quietly fade away because it feels awkward, while men who have been giving their ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It usually just fades out naturally.
I don’t see any benefit in telling them directly that it’s over.
I think it’s simplest and best to avoid making another arrangement and just stop contacting them, so that’s what I do.
After all, I see the allowance as a kind of advance payment for keeping things transactional—almost like severance pay.
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📅 Aug 18, 2025 17:16
Regarding the club’s email asking whether I’d like to have my photos retaken, I received a message saying I’d get a bonus of ◎◎ yen if I continued with the shoot. However, this time the amount was less than half of what it was before. Is it possible that my rating has gone down? Also, what is the usual range of bonuses offered—from 0 yen up to about how much?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
Naturally, female members who can attract offers will raise their rates, while those receiving no offers aren’t worth the trouble and won’t be invited.
It probably comes down to comparing them relatively with the other female members.
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📅 Aug 18, 2025 10:10
Has anyone who sees multiple people ever unexpectedly run into another papa (a male supporter) or girl while on a date? I regularly see multiple papas, and I’m always nervous about accidentally running into one of them at a restaurant or on the street. Do you all prepare an excuse in case that happens?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
The odds of randomly running into someone I know while walking around town are insanely low, so it’s never happened to me.
If it did happen by some incredible coincidence, I’d just walk past confidently as a stranger without making up some weird excuse.
Fuu openly says they’re dating multiple people, and all my monthly-arrangement women know that I’m seeing multiple people too, so it wouldn’t really be a big deal.
I do think it might be a little awkward if a woman I used t…
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📅 Aug 17, 2025 18:22
I’m the man in my 50s who previously asked here whether a one-on-one relationship was just a fantasy. Thank you for your answers at the time. It’s been three months since I joined, and I’ve met seven women so far. I had planned to consider an adult relationship (intimate) after meeting someone two or three times, but in the end, I never invited anyone. Then I met a truly wonderful woman recently. We’ve met six times over the past few we...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Yes! It’s almost pure fantasy (though it does happen occasionally).
It’s like going to a matchmaking agency and saying, “I want to sleep around as much as possible.”
It’s difficult because the purpose is completely different.
(You might wonder if some people do sleep around through matchmaking agencies too, but regular people can’t exactly follow their example, lol.)
A. Are characteristics like ①–⑦ considered normal in this world?
B. Or should I assume she has other pe…
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📅 Aug 17, 2025 16:20
I’m thinking about attending a cruise party hosted by the club, but I’m not sure what to expect. Do the men go around approaching the women one after another, or do the women actively approach the men? Also, do the male attendees chat with one another even if they’re meeting for the first time? Would it be best not to come on too strong and simply talk to a few people who catch my interest? I’d love to hear from anyone who has attended ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’m not familiar with cruises, but lounge events are incredibly fun because women come up to you proactively.
They’re there looking for a papa (a male supporter)—basically a source of money, lol—so they’re very forward.
It’s honestly a world that someone who’s never had much luck with women could hardly believe exists.
Sometimes women will even start the conversation, and they’ll wait for you to approach them, so it’s really easy for men.
That said, at events, the woman y…
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📅 Aug 16, 2025 22:33
Do you adjust the allowance depending on the woman? The answers here generally make it sound like it’s a flat ¥50,000–¥80,000, and I’m around that range too. But a senior woman who registered with me says she gets ¥100,000 per pay-per-meeting arrangement. Apparently, each meeting lasts about four hours. She’s 34 and reasonably attractive, but I’m in my late 20s and have even participated in beauty pageants, so I feel I have the edge in ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s partly about branding and partly about luck.
Even if you’re young and have competed in beauty pageants, you won’t get anywhere if you’re a dead fish.
Someone a little older, with slightly less attractive looks, but who also has a sexy side, might do better.
If you want 100, then state 100 or more on the papa-katsu app when negotiating your allowance.
You’ll probably have negotiations with papas fall through many times, lol. They may even leave you with some parting i…
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📅 Aug 16, 2025 09:49
I’d appreciate your advice and opinions on negotiating an allowance for overnight dates and what the going rate is. It’s been two years since I joined the club. I recently ended a long-term relationship, so I started being active again and was lucky enough to meet someone wonderful. At the beginning, he suggested meeting about twice a month for an allowance of 100,000 yen per pay-per-meeting date. Since I assumed that was the same arran...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Well, if you don’t like it, you’ll have to say so. Be prepared for the possibility that he may end things.
It’s too late now, but for all the women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) who are reading this:
The beginning is crucial.
You should have said something the first time you stayed over. Once you agree to something once, it becomes the default.
To the person asking the question: hang in there. It depends on the papa (a male supporter), so there’s no singl…
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📅 Aug 16, 2025 00:17
A woman I met again after about three years had gained a lot of weight. Since I live outside a major city, we spent three days and two nights together, but it was tough because she had put on so much weight. On top of that, she had developed an unpleasant odor down there. It was a rough three days and two nights. Of course, continuing the arrangement is out of the question. Has anyone else had an experience like this?
💬 Answer from アンディ:
I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for less than three years, so I don’t have any experience with that, nor have I ever gone more than a year between arrangements. I’ll actually be taking your experience as a reference.
Thank you.