I’m debating whether I should register with a club, and I’m also considering asking here about some concerns I have regarding papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). But are the staff here—and the people answering questions—perhaps devoted to picking apart everything questioners say?
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There seem to be so many answers like that, so if that’s really the case, I’m thinking I might just give up on both registering and asking questions.
Well, yes, that’s true.
We’d rather not have women with bad attitudes joining, so this is really for the best.
Please don’t join Universe Club or Patro. We ask that you pursue your activities elsewhere.
You can also ask ChatGPT your questions—it will answer without criticizing or rejecting you, so please go there instead.
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I became an answerer here because I wanted to raise the going rate for women’s allowances, so naturally, many of my answers tend to side with women.
As you can imagine, I ended up having some huge arguments with male answerers, got repeatedly harassed, and was even completely rejected by female answerers. I’m pretty sure most of the answerers here hate me, lol.
What I’m trying to say is that standing by one person means making an enemy of someone else. Even an extremely rude answer that seems to nitpick the question might make another woman think, “This person’s answers are amazing. I love them. I want to meet them, so I’m going to specifically request them.”
Come to think of it, I wonder where Kamihikoki-san disappeared to...
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“Maybe I should quit both posting questions and being a member.”
That may sound like they’re struggling with a decision, but in reality, it’s a threat.
In other words: “If you’re going to nitpick my question, I’ll quit posting questions and leave the site. Is that what you want?”
That seems to be what they’re saying.
But in the first place, no one is nitpicking. And if they want to stop posting questions and leave the site, they’re free to do so. No one is restricting the questioner’s freedom.
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What do you mean by saying you’re wondering whether to ask a question when you posted another one just 27 minutes ago?
Surely you’re not seriously staking your life on nitpicking. It’s far too trivial for that.
To be clear, neither I nor the other respondents are staking our lives on nitpicking. However, you’re so bad at lying and playing mind games that I think you’d be better off not signing up or asking questions here.
For everyone other than this questioner:
This papa-katsu anonymous Q&A box gets a huge number of prank posts disguised as questions, so unless you can tell when a lie is a lie, you’ll find it difficult to use it.
But dating clubs are probably much the same, so it might be useful for honing your ability to spot lies for what they are. lol
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I don’t mean to nitpick your question, but if that’s how you understand it, you may be better off not signing up.
The reason is that the men answering are generally those who receive few complaints from women.
In other words, the men you feel are picking apart your wording are representative of the gentlemanly men who receive relatively few complaints from women.
So even if you register, the chances of meeting the kind of good men you have in mind are probably low…
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Haha, exactly! I can understand how you feel, too（笑）
But it seems that the same person keeps asking questions in different forms that don’t really align with the original intent of the question, so the other respondents are simply putting their own twist on their answers（笑）
That said, since dating club relationships involve money changing hands, it’s easy to understand why there are probably quite a few mismatches between the person paying and the person receiving.
I think this Q&A site can be a useful source of information for understanding those aspects and considering how you want to approach your own relationships.
In that sense, I think Universe’s approach of sharing everything openly, without hiding anything, is wonderful.
After all, people who are enjoying good relationships don’t come here to ask questions（笑）
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