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Do older guys really think they can make young women feel good?

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Almost every one of them tells me, “I want you to feel good, [name],” but who do they think can actually feel good with an old guy’s body? lol Honestly, I already have my sexual needs taken care of by younger or same-age friends-with-benefits in my private life, so with these older guys, I just want them to get it over with and finish as quickly as possible. I even laugh when they apologize for not lasting ten minutes. If anything, I wish they’d finish within one second. lol (Older guy) “If I were younger, I would’ve married you.” → Even if you were younger, I wouldn’t marry you if you were the last man on earth. lol (Older guy) “I want to sleep with Satomi Ishihara.” → You’re such a mentally ill old guy. lol (Older guy) “I feel embarrassed having a young girl next to me in a miniskirt.” → No, no, no, no. lol I’m pretty sure young women are the ones who want nothing to do with old men. lol (Older guy) “I’m not attracted to my wife’s body.” → I’m not attracted to your old-man body either, you know? If anything, it grosses me out, but I put up with it and do my best. It’s hilarious how many old guys seem to mistake being introduced to top women through blacklisted male members for being popular. lol Still, thanks to all the guys who never got any attention otherwise, I get to benefit from it! Thank you! Oh, and the question is: “Do older guys genuinely think they can make young women feel good?”
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 30s 👑 Universe female member
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
LOL Yes, I do think that, and I even say it: “I want you to enjoy yourself.” Maybe you’re someone who was once with Fuu and cut ties after seeing his true colors. I’ve met several women who just lay there passively—women who weren’t worth the allowance. It depends on the person. You’re free to believe that if you want, but not everyone is like that. If you do papa-katsu while assuming everyone feels that way, it must be pretty miserable. What a waste. The papa will usually be the one to end things pretty quickly, so it won’t last. Then you end up having to see lots of different papas, creating a vicious cycle. Papa-katsu with a different papa every day—basically streetwalking, isn’t it? LOL You can hide it, but your true nature will show. There are women who really put effort into sex, women who get extremely into it, and women who like older men. They definitely exist. It’s true that there aren’t many, so you have to make lots of offers and search for them. Some are devoted, some have great personalities, and some simply enjoy sex. The way you see things is by no means the whole world. —Fuu, always making offers in pursuit of the best sex possible.
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アンディ
顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
To answer your question, I don’t think that at all. Honestly, it’s possible that some women are meeting you reluctantly, as the person asking this question seems to be. But even if that’s the case, I’m fine with it. So far, I’ve only had adult relationships with women in their 20s through papa-katsu. If I ever find myself in that situation with someone in her 30s, I’ll keep in mind that there are people with a mindset like yours.
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Yes, I do think that. Though the odds are under 10%. Regardless of age, being with someone you dislike or who’s bad at it isn’t going to feel good, even if they’re around your age. Conversely, even with a significant age gap, you should be able to enjoy it if you’re compatible. And just because a woman is young doesn’t automatically get me going either. Acting or not, just get me hard. Honestly, I’m grateful to the women who are willing to be with an old guy like me. To the person who asked: put up with it and make an absolute killing.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
You’ve probably been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for a long time. You should realize that what you’re saying sounds a lot like something an experienced sex worker would say. You’re not going to be young forever, either. As for whether you genuinely think you can make younger women feel good, that depends on the man, doesn’t it? There are plenty of young men who only know how to cause pain. There are also plenty of older men who are good at foreplay. You probably just aren’t the type those men are attracted to. When it comes to penetration, though, I do feel that you can’t fight the decline in stamina… Personally, I don’t really feel the need to climax, so once I’ve enjoyed myself to a certain extent, I just call it a night.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve never said, “I want you to feel good, ◯◯.” Are you really told that by every single one of them? If so, I can only assume the questioner is exceptionally unresponsive in bed. Sure, any papa who kept seeing a woman in her thirties while saying things like that must have been extremely unpopular with women. And you really managed to gather a whole bunch of old guys like that, didn’t you? As for, “Do they really think they can make young women feel good?”—first of all, women in their thirties aren’t exactly young anymore. That’s the first thing I’d point out. Do the women actually enjoy themselves? Yes, apparently they do. Of course they do—they’re doing something that feels good. It’s like asking, “Does anyone really think sea urchin tastes good?” You’d only say that if the only sea urchin you’d ever eaten was the alum-soaked Alaskan kind served at conveyor-belt sushi restaurants. There have always been people—both men and women—who insist that papa-katsu women are only pretending to enjoy themselves. But I think they don’t realize that most people see them as merely insensitive or sexually incompetent and laugh at them for it. Well, that’s certainly how I see it. I’m pretty confident in my penis—its size, shape, and performance.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
That’s a good question. I’ve never once been captivated by women in their teens or early twenties. No matter what, I just can’t fall for them or become obsessed. - I want to see you. - I like you. - I love you. - I want to marry you. - I’m your girlfriend, right? - That feels so good. - I’m almost there. All I hear in words like these from young, beautiful women is, “I want money.” Even when I go to lounges or hostess clubs in Nishiki 3 or Roppongi and admire the beautiful women, I don’t feel a thing. There’s no denying they’re beautiful, but I’m far more preoccupied with my business. The only thing I can believe is, “Hey… I want to do it again♡”
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
It’s been a while since I’ve received a post in this writing style from this woman—or whoever she is. She hadn’t posted anything for a while, so I thought she was gone. I wonder why she’s suddenly back. She’s the type who doesn’t actually ask a question, just writes whatever she wants to say and then tacks on a question at the end. So honestly, I didn’t want to display it. But Joe answered it, so I had no choice but to display it. Joe is just too kind. This is a question box, so naturally, posts that aren’t questions won’t be displayed. P.S. Sorry, Joe. Please don’t worry about it—feel free to answer whatever you think. If anything, part of the reason I displayed the question this time was because I wanted to show Joe’s answer.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
At least I don’t think so. But after we went to Tulum together in June and had an amazing dive in a cenote, was it all just an act when she started squirting the moment we got back to the room, leaving the bed unusable and forcing me to sleep on the sofa? If so, I don’t know what to believe anymore. Wait—was it because the allowance was seven figures? Nooo, Emily, tell me it isn’t true! Mr. Maezawa, I’m sorry. Please delete this or hide it if necessary.
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