Has anyone who sees multiple people ever unexpectedly run into another papa (a male supporter) or girl while on a date?
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I regularly see multiple papas, and I’m always nervous about accidentally running into one of them at a restaurant or on the street.
Do you all prepare an excuse in case that happens?
The odds of randomly running into someone I know while walking around town are insanely low, so it’s never happened to me.
If it did happen by some incredible coincidence, I’d just walk past confidently as a stranger without making up some weird excuse.
Fuu openly says they’re dating multiple people, and all my monthly-arrangement women know that I’m seeing multiple people too, so it wouldn’t really be a big deal.
I do think it might be a little awkward if a woman I used to see—and who just naturally faded out—showed up at a lounge event. But I’d probably just say, “How have you been? Hope you find a good papa,” and leave it at that.
Though, I’ve never actually had that happen lol.
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It happened to me once.
It was in a regional city, probably because the downtown area was fairly limited.
I happened to walk past a bar where I was having drinks with another woman, and we could be seen from outside. Her papa noticed me too.
Afterward, she received a barrage of messages from her papa, but she didn’t come with me to the hotel. I heard they argued the next day, but she stuck to her story that I was someone from work and managed to get through it.
I’d completely forgotten about it until now. lol
Hope that helps.
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It’s never happened to me, but if an established monthly supporter who doesn’t know I’m seeing multiple people happened to see me walking with another woman, I think it would turn into a real drama.
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I’ve actually seen her once before while I was on my way home. She either didn’t notice me or noticed but didn’t care. I also tell her, if she asks, that I’m seeing other women, so there’s no inconsistency, and I don’t worry about it.
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I hardly ever hear about that happening.
Isn’t it more common for people to simply go to different places than anything else?
Some women avoid certain areas, such as around a particular station, because they don’t want to run into friends or acquaintances, but I’ve never heard of anyone avoiding all of Tokyo.
The chances of running into each other are probably pretty low.
In smaller cities, there are fewer places to go, so it’s not unusual for friends to run into each other. Even then, though, the odds seem low—and if you do see someone, I think the mature thing is to say nothing.
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No, I don’t.
I’m upfront with my partners about seeing other people, and they seem to be honest with me if they’re seeing someone else too. So even if we happened to run into each other, there might be some teasing on either side, but I don’t think it would turn into anything more serious.
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It’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so there’s really not much you can do about it. For now, prioritize the papa you’re on a date with and pretend you don’t know the other one, while accepting that, in the worst case, the papa you run into may cut ties with you. You could always play dumb later over LINE and say he’s a business contact or your seminar professor, but obvious lies usually get found out. Maybe try sending something like, “He’s someone I’m meeting for the first time. The club practically begged me to meet him…” or, “He’s just a dinner-only papa, but of course you’re the most important to me!” It’s worth a shot.
I’ve never been in that situation—or maybe I just haven’t noticed. If I did run into one, I’d either pretend not to know him, depending on the circumstances, or say, “Hi, ○-chan. This is △-chan,” and introduce them.
Running into the wife of a married papa (a male supporter) would be much scarier.
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