On Patro, you can see when women are online and how popular they are, which makes me feel pressured to send an offer quickly.

Are you new to this site, by any chance? I can understand feeling impatient at first. Offers tend to pour in for attractive women. That said, new women keep joining all the time, so there’s no need to rush. Meeting someone also comes down to luck. In general, I think it’s best to make an offer quickly, but sometimes it works to take a contrarian approach—wait while someone is receiving lots of offers, then reach out once things have settled down. You could also look through profiles that were registered quite a while ago and try to find a hidden gem. There are plenty of ways to enjoy it. If you want to go on lots of dates, don’t rely only on Patro—make full use of clubs, lounges, and the Universal-affiliated services to broaden your options. I feel like what matters most is what happens after you meet. At the very least, you need to reach the point where she feels she could be intimate with you. Take care with everything—cleanliness, physique, personality, and the terms of the arrangement—and assess things carefully without letting your guard down. If you want to be intimate with women you’re attracted to, don’t lose to the other papas out there, haha.

These days, PATOLO also uses dynamic pricing. I’m not sure how it’s calculated, but the offer amount often suddenly increases. They’re probably using AI. If you’re interested in someone, send your offer sooner rather than later. Also, it depends on what kind of women the person asking about isn’t getting replies from on PATOLO. If they’re newly registered, the lack of a reply may be due to the wording of your message. If they’ve been registered for a while, they may no longer be doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). In that respect, it may be similar to dating apps. If you’re a club member, check whether she’s registered with Universe. If she is, the club may also be able to reach out to her for you.

Mr. Maezawa, it’s been a while. Please note that I’m not the same person as the previous questioner. Thank you for your understanding. I’ve hardly ever been turned down on Patro. The women I meet often tell me that my messages are well written and make them want to meet me. My profile itself is fairly simple, but perhaps because the women I’ve met leave good feedback, many women also message me after getting a favorable impression from the additional notes written by the staff. I’m sorry if this comes across as bragging, but thank you for your understanding.

I’m not familiar with referral fees suddenly shooting up. It’s true that popular members may move up to a higher class, but I’ve never seen the fee suddenly triple, so I’ll keep that in mind. If you simply want to increase the number of dates—or offers—you can probably do that easily by sending lots of offers through Universe Club. I use Patto too, and sometimes I don’t get a reply. When that happens, I just think, “Well, I guess I wasn’t their type,” and hide their profile. If you take a transactional approach, send out a large number of messages, and meet the people whose terms work for you, I think you can have plenty of dates. If you’re barely getting any replies, why not ask the staff at your branch to take a look at the content of your opening message? I hope you meet lots of people. Just sharing this in case it helps.

If you don’t know how to get lots of dates, you can almost always get a date by making an offer through Universe Club, so you’ll be able to go on dates with plenty of women. That could be considered a tip, I suppose. But if you specifically mean through PATOLO, I feel it’s really meant for people who are already experienced with dating apps and similar services, and who understand how to get women to reply and agree to meet. So if you’re not confident in that area, using PATOLO will probably take a tremendous amount of effort. If you’re okay with putting in that effort, there’s no shortcut, so I’d recommend learning through trial and error. Basically, if you’re considerate toward women in your chat messages, I think you can get a date almost every time. So the key is to pay attention to that. Women sign up because they want to meet someone, too. The reason you can’t meet them is probably that your messages are self-centered and don’t take the other person into consideration. From a woman’s perspective, you may seem dangerous, so she chooses not to meet you. Just as men choose women, women want to choose men as well. In that sense, PATOLO can be good because women can get to know a man before meeting him. Even so, I get the impression that there are still a lot of low-quality users. That’s how bad the chats are. P.S. Judging by the mention of the referral fee, I assume this question was written by the same person as last time, but the content itself was fairly normal, so I answered it normally.