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Jan 10, 2026 21:58
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I’d appreciate it if more experienced members could clarify the following two points and share their guidance and experiences.
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1)
I’ve seen notes such as:
“Continued arrangement confirmed as of November 2025.”
“Came in for a reshoot in July 2025.”
I’m considering making an offer to someone I’m interested in, and I wanted to ask about the first expression.
Does “continued arrangement confirmed” mean that, in some form, she continued receiving offers or maintaining a relationship from July 2025 through November 2025?
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2)
It says, “The monthly target amount of support is ¥200,000.”
How is this generally calculated?
For example, does it mean adjusting things so the total comes to ¥200,000 per month, such as:
・¥50,000 per meeting × 4 meetings per month
・¥100,000 per meeting × 2 meetings per month
Or, if the amount is ¥100,000 per meeting, should I understand that ¥100,000 is given every time?
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1)
“Continuation confirmed” means that whether the arrangement will continue has been confirmed every six months.
“New photos” means the profile was updated with a new photo shoot.
Neither has anything to do with offers.
2)
You probably shouldn’t rely too much on the support target amount.
It may serve as a rough reference, but the desired allowance for a single meeting varies from person to person, so please understand that it’s something to discuss and decide together.
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it means she’s staying registered regardless of whether she receives any offers, since she’s checking for an ongoing arrangement.
My guess is that she’s attractive and takes a pretty strong stance—or maybe she’s just a little difficult to continue with. Still, nothing can start unless you actually meet, so I’d say meeting her is definitely worth considering.
There was a similar woman among the profiles posted this time, so I contacted her. In my case, though, she turned me down because she said she didn’t date married men. That was disappointing, since she wasn’t just attractive—she was also great to communicate with.
As for her target amount, since it’s her target, I assume that’s the amount she hopes to receive.
How she actually reaches that amount probably depends on the person. If she gets plenty of offers and continues seeing several men, she’ll naturally end up with more than her target. If she gets few offers and continues seeing only a small number of men, she’ll probably just barely reach it—or fall short.
In that case, I suppose she has to choose between continuing to wait for more offers or giving up on that and settling for her current arrangements.
Incidentally, the woman I’d been seeing until recently left the service after only about three months. In the end, I was the only one she continued seeing, so maybe she chose a less ambitious arrangement to avoid the risk of being recognized(笑).
Still, after eight years on and off, she finally graduated this March, saying, “Dating this way isn’t so bad after all!” I supported her to the tune of several million yen, but I’m truly grateful for everything and for all the help she gave me.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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👨 Male
Universe member
This is not reliable at all, because she’s stating a lower amount.
If anything, you should assume that if a girl lists her monthly target as ¥200,000, what she really wants is ¥400,000.
Something like pay-per-meeting at ¥100,000, four times a month—ideally with one papa (a male supporter). If that isn’t possible, she might see two men twice a month each, for a total of ¥400,000.
> 2)
> It says, “My monthly support target is ¥200,000.”
> In that case, how would the calculation work?
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> “As of November 2025, her continued participation has been confirmed.”
This means that when the woman was contacted in November 2025, she replied that she intended to continue.
At Universe, we check in every six months. Women who don’t respond are hidden from the site and eventually processed as having withdrawn.
> It says, “Her monthly support target is ¥200,000.”
> In that case, how is this calculated?
We intentionally keep this vague so it cannot be calculated precisely. The meaning differs from woman to woman, and the club does not verify it.
This system originally came about because many men wanted to know how much allowance each woman hoped to receive.
However, we do not disclose that information to men for various reasons:
- If we told men each woman’s desired allowance, it would no longer be free-form dating.
- A woman’s desired allowance may vary depending on the man.
- We cannot take away the woman’s freedom to decide.
Even so, people kept asking us to provide some kind of hint, so(笑) we ask the women and list their answers as a reference.
I believe there was once an answer from a female member saying that she wrote or answered randomly because she didn’t really understand things when she joined. If a woman who has never done papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) joins and is suddenly asked such a question, she may simply think, “I’m not sure, so I’ll put ¥200,000.”
So even if her monthly target is listed as ¥200,000, some women may want ¥200,000 per pay-per-meeting arrangement, while others may want ¥50,000 each time.
It would also be too quick to assume that someone whose monthly target is ¥50,000 wants ¥50,000 per meeting. She may have just answered ¥50,000 because she wasn’t sure. If the first man she dates offers ¥100,000 per meeting, she may then decide that she wants ¥100,000 each time, even though her monthly target was ¥50,000.
For that reason, the monthly target is not a useful guideline at all.
Of course, an experienced papa-katsu woman might quickly think, “I want ¥100,000 per meeting, so I’ll put ¥100,000 as my monthly target.” But I think very few women do this. Even then, it’s only natural that her standard may become the highest amount she has received through Universe—for example, ¥150,000 or ¥200,000 per meeting—so the figure still isn’t reliable.
In short, if you really want to date that particular woman and feel that you’ll never meet someone as wonderful again if you let her go, I think it may be worth offering her requested amount, even if it’s high.
On the other hand, if you’re interested but only within a certain range, you could say:
“I was thinking of offering around this amount. Would that work for you?”
If it doesn’t, you move on. If she agrees, you proceed with the relationship.
I think that’s the best approach.