I’m planning to get married next year, so I’d like to receive as many offers as possible before then. How can I get more? I only have a limited amount of time left for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and every day without an offer feels like a waste. I’m pretty tough and confident I could handle even 100 offers, so ideally, I’d like to get as many as possible.

I don’t think getting 100 offers is something you can achieve through a few superficial efforts alone. Since your time seems limited, if you need as many papa supporters as possible, why not actively promote yourself by posting photos and videos on a dedicated matching app or X? Among the standard- and gold-tier women registered with Universe Club, there are probably some who, unable to get offers, promote themselves on X and target people outside the Universe membership. But there also seem to be women who become popular and find papa supporters that way. Even if they’re completely ignored by Universe Club, being fawned over on social media—and acting with that reality in mind—is already a win for women in papa-katsu. Perhaps the reason they get results is precisely because they recognize that they can’t compete in the Universe Club market and take action accordingly. If you’re short on time, you’d better hurry!

If you want more offers, you need more visibility, so simply sign up for lots of platforms. Of course, don’t limit yourself to Patolo. Try other dating clubs, online services (Sugar Daddy, maybe?), dating apps, and even X for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). But don’t overdo the “I have a really high sex drive” angle—it can turn papas off. C-types are more popular than D-types, so be mindful of the balance. Consult AI when writing your comments and create a profile that resonates with papas. Just don’t get so desperate that you jeopardize your chances of getting married. Be careful about the people around you, and watch out for STIs too.

> I also tried changing the message for each individual man and sending them out for about a month, but I didn’t receive any offers. That’s normal. The overwhelming response from male members was that even if they received a “You seem lovely” message from a woman who wasn’t their type, they weren’t interested... So, realistically, the only explanation is that there must have been some kind of secret strategy in her message. That’s why I’m curious what kind of message the woman I mentioned last time was sending. To put it plainly, she’s a woman who has overturned the common sense of Universe. I suspect she sent it to every male member (since we know how many “You seem lovely” messages she sent), but the fact that this led to offers is incredible. Maybe if she wrote something like, “I’m fine with no allowance the first time. If you’d like to see me again, you can give me an allowance from then on,” some men might think they’d give it a try. On the other hand, there are probably also men who would dislike a woman writing something like that. I’m really curious what she actually wrote. > I have a strong sex drive. > I also mention in my messages that my sex drive is strong. I don’t think many men would respond positively to that. It may be fundamentally the same reason D-type women receive few offers. Men may want H, but I think many of them are put off when H is pushed to the forefront too strongly. > I want to receive a lot of offers before then. How can I get them? I feel like becoming the most beautiful woman in the world would get you a lot of offers, but starting from where you are now, that seems difficult. I assume that wanting a lot of offers means wanting a large amount of allowance, so I’d change the strategy: 1. Set an allowance goal—say, ¥1 million a month. 2. Break that down and decide on an allowance target per person—say, ¥50,000. Based on those figures, you can calculate that you’d need 20 dates to reach your monthly goal. From there, you can see that if you find men who will see you four times a month, you only need five of them. If they see you twice a month, you need ten. Once you think about it that way, you don’t actually need a huge number of offers. You can focus on what you need to do to achieve your goal. The higher the goal, the farther it gets from reality and the more difficult it becomes, so I think it’s fine to start with a goal that seems achievable. When a woman meets a good man and develops a good relationship with him, she becomes more beautiful. As she becomes more attractive, the number of men who want to make her an offer gradually increases. I understand that you don’t have much time, but rushing won’t make something achievable if it isn’t realistic. It may be better to look at the situation realistically and think about what level you can actually reach. Moonshot goals are fine too, though... > Those papas will probably make offers to other women next year, and the club will benefit as well. I thought the wording was poor. (Though I’m hardly in a position to criticize other people.) Why was the part about the club making money necessary? If she also included things unrelated to getting offers when sending “You seem lovely” messages, I feel many men would become even less inclined to make her an offer. (The part about “I have a strong sex drive” is the same kind of thing, come to think of it.) Something like, “Take me with you too. I can’t steal yet, but I’m sure I’ll learn,” would be better. If it were phrased more like, “I have a strong desire to steal. If you take me with you, you’ll make money too,” you’d end up thinking, “I really don’t want to take her along at all.” It’s a slightly difficult analogy, though. P.S. Mack-san > Then wouldn’t she have sent them to me, Kazu-san, and the other respondents too? True... Maybe she only sent them to men in her own area—for example, Tokyo only if she was in Tokyo. The reason there’s no record of the messages may simply be that there’s a rule prohibiting the use of programmers. The messages themselves might still exist on the server. As for how we know the number of “You seem lovely” messages she sent, there’s a system that copies the data to a separately managed system, and everyone except the programmers analyzes the data from there. Apparently, the message text simply wasn’t included in the data that was copied.

> I tried changing the message for each person, but I still didn’t receive any offers. People who are very active tend to be avoided, so sending carefully crafted messages may actually work against you. If someone isn’t used to this, they probably wouldn’t put that much thought into their messages, say things like “You’re lovely,” or even log in that often. There’s nothing wrong with being proactive, but if you come on too eagerly, it can feel out of sync with the man’s image of someone fresh and inexperienced. If you do anything, I think it would be best to limit it to uploading a few private photos.

I once had this game where I’d put a woman who wasn’t married yet in a used wedding dress I’d bought on Yahoo Auctions, take her to a sex club, and have everyone have their way with her—but I don’t have the energy for that anymore. It might appeal to people with a cuckolding fetish. If she isn’t married yet, she probably wouldn’t be vulnerable to an adultery lawsuit, either. That said, if she’s dealing with 100 men, there may be one or two who develop genuine feelings—or become obsessed—so she should be careful about that. Still, deciding to retire once she gets married shows admirable resolve and a clear sense of responsibility. She deserves credit for that. Seriously, good for her. You’re confusing a reverse offer with the “That’s wonderful” and Patro messaging features, right? By “reverse offer” here, I simply mean writing a question and then contacting, through Maezawa-san, respondents who gave a favorable answer. Sorry, but as I mentioned above, I’m no longer attracted to women who aren’t married yet, and I wouldn’t know how to help the questioner grow or develop, so I’ll pass. I may have stuck my nose in where it wasn’t wanted even though I wasn’t asked for a reverse offer, so I apologize if I offended you. > I’m not taking away the other PJs’ positions, either. You could become friends with other PJs and have them introduce you to a papa (a male supporter) who wants to have a threesome. If you put out a request on X, you might get some takers. Or you could contact the Univa branch and ask whether they have any papas looking for that kind of arrangement. Maezawa-san, > I assume you sent it to all the men. If that’s the case, then wouldn’t it have reached me, Kazu-san, and the other respondents too? Does the fact that it can’t be confirmed mean that the retention period has expired? Now I’m curious too, but over the past year or two, I haven’t received any “That’s wonderful” messages with wording that really stood out that much.