This may be a crude question, but I’d really appreciate any answers.
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There’s someone who enjoys prolonged sex and cunnilingus, and I always get a yeast infection after being intimate with him. This never happens with anyone else.
Treatment takes time, and I have to abstain for a while so I don’t pass it on to anyone else, so I’m considering ending things.
I’ve also been bothered by how bad his breath is and how yellowed the surfaces of his teeth are. When I casually brought up oral hygiene, he said he hadn’t been to the dentist in years.
Could his poor oral hygiene be causing me to get yeast infections? Or could it be because he leaves me naked and keeps touching me for such a long time, lowering my immunity and making me more susceptible?
Has anyone ever experienced symptoms below the waist after receiving oral sex from a woman with poor oral hygiene?
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At the most basic level, you’re putting up with far too much.
When you get the initial offer, check his yellow teeth and bad breath before anything happens, and please don’t agree to an adult relationship (intimate).
It’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), where women are supposed to have the right to choose.
He might leave the club negative feedback out of spite because his papa couldn’t get an adult relationship (intimate), so you should also leave feedback saying, “I couldn’t go through with it because he had bad breath and yellow teeth.” Let’s keep unhygienic papas out of the scene.
Don’t make it easy for them, lol.
Don’t push yourself.
Don’t put up with it.
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I dislike people who are that unhygienic, regardless of their gender. I go to the dentist regularly, of course. Before meeting a woman, I carefully brush my teeth, use an interdental brush and floss, and rinse thoroughly with mouthwash before heading out to meet her. I’m aware that I’m an older man, after all. That’s all.
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> I’m thinking it may be time to end things.
It sounds like you’ve already made up your mind, so I think it’s fine to go ahead and say goodbye. But since you still asked, are you looking for a reason not to end things?
That said, looking at the situation overall, if you’ve more or less reached a conclusion, I think it’s perfectly fine to end the relationship.
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Don’t sleep with too many people at the same time!
Not just thrush—your immune system being weakened can make you more susceptible to infections, so it’s best to maintain your health and energy while dating.
I’m an old man, but the women I date are young, so I take every possible precaution to avoid getting sick. I can also tell that they’re careful in various ways because I’m an old man. Thanks to that, it looks like I’ll be able to finish without ever getting sick.
Don’t force yourself to date. I hope you have enjoyable relationships without any regrets.
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Since half of your question is essentially about the causes and prevention of Candida, I’ll refrain from answering, as I don’t have any specialized knowledge.
As for the other half—or rather, my reaction to it—it’s this:
“If you know you’re prone to Candida, why do you take your panties off?”
Now that you’ve gotten it off your chest by posting here, make your own decision. Be a good girl.
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Candida is generally classified as “not a sexually transmitted infection,” but that means it can also be transmitted in ways other than sexual contact—not that it can’t be passed during sex. Chlamydia, on the other hand, is only transmitted through sexual contact, which is why it’s considered an STI.
Quite a while ago, I had some itching around the base of the glans, and some buildup started rubbing off. I didn’t get tested, but I thought, “Could this be Candida?” I looked it up online and treated it with athlete’s foot medication, and it cleared up. I have no idea where I picked it up. But that area doesn’t really come into contact with anything except my own underwear and a woman’s vagina, so it probably came from a woman.
So there are probably men who carry Candida too, and since apparently the yeast is found in all kinds of places, it could be present in the mouth as well. I don’t think whether someone goes to the dentist has anything to do with it.
A weakened immune system may also make infection more likely. But you can’t really tell just by how you feel whether your immune system is weakened. Some people also develop Candida every time before their period, so hormonal balance may play a role too. Maybe the beneficial lactobacilli become less effective?
Regardless of the mechanism or route of transmission, it sounds like you’re a bad match, so maybe it’s best to end things.
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