Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Feb 2, 2026 15:48
If a woman says in her profile or at the first meeting, “I’d like to go shopping together,” does she...
💬 Answer from よっさん:
Going shopping
“Can I ask you to get me a Louis Vuitton key case—unde…
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📅 Feb 1, 2026 16:51
Do you really have to wait a full six months before having your photos retaken? If you’ve changed yo...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
It’s not necessarily six months every time.If the branch isn’t handlin…
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📅 Feb 1, 2026 09:06
Are women’s membership ranks (Black, Platinum, Gold, etc.) displayed on PATOLO?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
PATOLO didn’t have the concept of classes before, so they weren’t disp…
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📅 Jan 31, 2026 16:30
What do men usually think when a woman changes her dating type—for example, from B1 to B2? Also, is ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Becoming more open to an adult relationship (intimate) is a positive c…
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📅 Jan 29, 2026 17:41
This is Sakura, who posted earlier. I’m sending this as a test because I suspect there may have been...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Sorry you weren’t able to reply to the answer.
It seems there was stil…
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📅 Jan 29, 2026 12:32
I was surprised to learn from this earlier question that some people might feel it’s a waste to give...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I finally managed to log in.
I asked Maezawa-san to reset my password…
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📅 Jan 29, 2026 12:00
Nice to meet you. There’s no one I can talk to about this, so I’d like to ask for advice here. I hav...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
Judging from your message, it sounds like this papa (a male supporter)…
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📅 Jan 28, 2026 14:59
Why are you moving to a question box?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
As I understand it, the current column and Q&A box have started rankin…
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📅 Jan 28, 2026 13:26
Is it rude to ask what kind of activities are involved beforehand? I really feel uncomfortable with ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’d say you should offer an allowance that includes the usual things:
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📅 Jan 27, 2026 16:47
A question for the men about traveling. I’ve been seeing my regular papa (a male supporter) about tw...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I sometimes fantasize that it might be fun.
The first time was hell. …
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📅 Jan 27, 2026 14:46
When a man offers me less than the usual going rate for my class, I turn him down. Most of the time,...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
Once you’ve actually said it out loud, you’re already in a whole diffe…
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📅 Jan 27, 2026 10:00
Reading a question about STIs got me thinking: even if you avoid sex before an STI test and everythi...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I don’t want to make you an offer, so please add this comment to your …
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📅 Jan 27, 2026 07:36
I’m a complete beginner—I only registered recently! A few people have contacted me, and I’m planning...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Since this is a question that the other respondents aren’t very good a…
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📅 Jan 26, 2026 23:22
Please help me. My overseas trip with my papa is nothing like I imagined, and I’m thinking about ret...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
If he’s paying you ¥1 million or more, I’d put up with it. But if he’s…
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📅 Jan 26, 2026 17:16
Why are some people against tattoos? Wouldn’t a small, discreet one be okay? A lot of young people t...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I wouldn’t offer even a small allowance. Why? Because I’m a delinquent…
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📅 Jan 26, 2026 14:35
Men in papa-katsu often say that sex workers carry STIs, while customers of sex workers say that wom...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I think it varies from person to person. Those who are careful are les…
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📅 Jan 26, 2026 10:48
Why do I so often see people saying “no single mothers” or “no sex workers”? I can understand the “n...
💬 Answer from 日月新:
If she’s currently working in, or has experience with, the adult enter…
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📅 Jan 25, 2026 14:45
This is Maezawa. Regarding the question below, a woman has asked me to check whether there are any i...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I just had a look. I think it’s pretty good, isn’t it? I do hesitate a…
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📅 Jan 25, 2026 11:26
How can they tell, just by feel, that it’s only been a day or two if you used a condom? Also, if you...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I really have no idea. When a sex worker is at a busy restaurant, I ca…
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📅 Jan 25, 2026 02:57
I currently have two papa (male supporters) I’ve been seeing for quite a long time. Recently, I got ...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
It probably depends on the papa, but in my case, I’m totally fine with…