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Apr 12, 2026 17:32
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I’m not exceptionally attractive, and I don’t have any particular skills when it comes to adult relationships, which makes me even more insecure…
He’s gentlemanly, handsome, successful, and an elite professional. He contacts me just the right amount and is very attentive when we meet, so I also want to do my best to make sure he enjoys himself, even if it’s just a little.
Lately, I’ve been trying things like switching from my usual neat, feminine outfits to a slightly preppy style…
Could you share things a PJ has done that made you happy, or any tips for making an arrangement last?
4 answers
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ll also mention a few things that come with some risk:
- During an adult relationship (intimate), be a little louder than usual. The “little” part is important—if you’re too loud, it can be off-putting.
- Kiss your papa (a male supporter) more during intimacy, and be proactive with your tongue.
- Take a bath together and wash him.
- Orgasm from oral sex, fingering, and penetration separately. In particular, having a lot of vaginal orgasms can make it easier to fool your papa.
※Watch adult videos and learn how to act out an orgasm.
- Message him first on LINE, including about things other than making plans to meet.
- Reveal personal information little by little. ※Please be careful, as this carries risks.
- Slightly go over the agreed-upon date time and extend your departure time just a little.
- Make anniversaries special, such as the night before a holiday, birthdays, and the anniversary of when you met.
I don’t think you can do all of these, so start with the ones you can try right away.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
What makes someone happy depends on the person, so you’ll have to observe him and figure it out for yourself.
It might be different from what makes Fuu happy.
If your profile and first impression are more on the refined, classy side, he may prefer that type, so it might be best to stay that way.
If you get too invested and try too hard, it can backfire. So I think you should accept the questioner’s next offer, find a few other papas, and give yourself some breathing room.
In relationships like this, I think making him happy physically is what makes things last the longest. Personally, even if a woman has a difficult personality, I can’t pull away if we have great chemistry, she’s incredibly devoted and enthusiastic, or the physical compatibility is irresistible.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
If he likes you, I don’t think he’ll get bored with you right away.
That said, it’s a good idea to casually find out during the conversation what he likes about you. Even if you don’t ask directly, people often mention it naturally in conversation, so you should be able to figure it out as long as you don’t miss the hints.
Usually, it’s just some small thing that happens to match the other person’s preferences.
As long as you don’t show up late or cancel at the last minute, I don’t think he’ll get bored with someone he likes.
However, if he starts seeing more women and the time between meetings gradually gets longer, his feelings may drift away. So, without being too pushy or making him uncomfortable, it may be important to keep in touch and avoid letting too much time pass by saying things like, “Are you free on ○○?”
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I agree that, from the man’s side as well,
> The key to making things last is to be yourself when you’re together.
I think so too!!
> A modest, feminine style of clothing
is also very cute and makes a great impression!!
Also, rather than focusing on
> trying to make sure he enjoys himself, even just a little,
whether you’re enjoying yourself is another key to making things last, so I don’t think you should worry about it too much. You don’t need to put on an act.