I’m the one who posted earlier about not receiving my allowance after staying overnight today.
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I finally managed to ask him directly, and he said he’d completely forgotten and would give it to me at the beginning of our next meeting.
He’s a really kind person, so I think it’ll be okay, but is it safe for me to see him again? Is there a chance he might brush it off or that I could end up in a dangerous situation...?
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Since you can send money via PayPay on LINE, try telling him you’re in urgent need of money and asking him to send it right away. If he does, you can meet him again; if not, just give up and block him. He’s the kind of person you’re better off avoiding.
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If you’ll receive both the allowance for the previous meeting and the next one when you meet again, I think it should be fine.
That said, the phrase “a kind person” really caught my attention. A genuinely kind person wouldn’t forget to give you your allowance and would always pay upfront. Personally, I don’t think someone who gives you the allowance after intimacy is truly kind, because they’re making the woman feel anxious.
My judgment is that this person is neither kind nor a good person.
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You’re probably in the best position to judge, since you’ve met him before.
Those of us answering only have the information you’ve provided, so it’s impossible to make a reliable assessment based on that alone.
If you’re worried, you can simply decide not to meet and end things. Or you could meet him once and make your decision afterward.
As for what’s possible, there are all kinds of possibilities.
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It might be worth going, even if you don’t expect much. Just go with the mindset that you’ll be lucky if you receive both the allowance from last time and the allowance for this meeting upfront.
The odds are probably low, but when you do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), it’s best to remember that things being left unresolved—or even ending up in a dangerous situation—can never be ruled out.
I hope things work out for you.
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If you really want an allowance, you need to find the courage to bring it up—and make sure you do so on the same day.
Once the club has made the introduction, it’s up to each individual; you’re on your own, so hang in there.
He seems kind, but this is a little concerning. Since he said he’d give it to you the next time you meet:
When you see him next, if he properly gives you the allowance for both the previous and current meetings, you can continue. If he tries to dodge the issue again, firmly ask for both payments. If he pays, continue; if he doesn’t and tries to leave things vague, say goodbye.
You stayed over on your second date without asking for an allowance, so he may think that’s the standard. Do your best to ask for it.
Phrase it gently and calmly, but be clear about what you’re asking for. I just hope you don’t end up losing out...
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