I’m not very good at adult relationships. Does anyone have tips for getting better?
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With the people I’ve had an adult relationship with so far, either they didn’t finish, or we spent almost the entire hour having intercourse. Maybe I’m just not cut out for it?
I get wet too easily—could that be why it doesn’t feel good for them? I also climax too easily, so I often get completely exhausted and finish very quickly.
Most people tell me they keep going because it feels good, but they’re probably just being polite. And considering my papa’s age, doing it for a long time seems tiring for him, so I feel bad.
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> Could being too easily aroused be the reason it doesn’t feel good?
I haven’t really heard of that happening.
It seems possible for too much lubricant to make things feel less pleasurable, but unlike with lubricant, I haven’t heard many people say that being too wet makes it feel unpleasant.
> I climax too easily, so I often get exhausted quickly and end up passing out.
If you say you climax too easily but then don’t actually climax, the man may think he should keep trying until you do. So it may be that you feel good and get close, but don’t quite reach the point of climax.
> With the people I’ve had an adult relationship (intimate) with so far, they either didn’t climax or we stayed intimate for almost the entire hour.
It’s possible that you may not be very tight down there.
However, if you’re able to continue seeing each other, I don’t think you need to worry about it too much. You could simply think of it as a good thing that you’re both able to enjoy yourselves for a long time.
If you can’t continue seeing them, though, then it may be worth considering whether there’s a problem.
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Women who can make their partner climax are pretty rare here, I think.
It could become a problem if you start seeing him less often or he ends things with you, but if possible, try observing your papa and figuring out what gets him there—positions, angles, your voice, his preferences, favorite areas, and so on lol.
It’s true that if things stay monotonous for too long, it can sometimes be difficult to finish, so varying the intensity and pace might help.
I think it would be good to try a few things through trial and error.
The fact that you’re already thinking this way is really sweet, so I’m jealous of your papa.
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Since you say you climax “too easily,” that means you’re sexually satisfied, right?
It really depends on whether the issue is on your side or the man’s. If you’ve been invited back a second or third time and things have continued, there’s a good chance there’s no problem on your end.
If you haven’t been invited back after the second meeting, then perhaps there really is an issue, such as your vagina being too loose.
I once met a girl who was cute but had a loose vagina. She felt normal during penetration, but became looser as she got more aroused. Women’s vaginas tend to expand when they’re aroused—a phenomenon known as “ballooning”—and she seemed to be the type in whom this happened particularly strongly.
I’m a little curious, so try signing up for an app called “Patro” and message a male member from the Nagoya branch named “Mac.” If our terms match, I’d like to make her an offer and see for myself.
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