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Apr 5, 2026 23:52
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I’m a 36-year-old woman. I don’t remember whether it was Universe, but I was registered with a club years ago. At the time, I was 22 and had a preschool-aged child, so I was looking for arrangements during weekday daytime hours. I think I chose an adult relationship (intimate) starting from the second meeting after the first meeting. However, I had recently given birth and was also a single mother, and I was chubby and round-faced by other people’s standards. So I never received any offers and ended up withdrawing.
That was what I was asking about.
I didn’t look at the profiles of Universe’s female members—I looked at their Q&A section.
Thank you for answering several of my questions. I’ll pass your advice on to my daughter.
As for A, my daughter may not fit the criteria. I looked at other people’s questions as well, and it said the looks required were good enough to appear on television, so it may be difficult. At my daughter’s university, there were countless girls who were prettier and had better figures than she does…
I’d like to tell my daughter about the responses from people such as Yozakura and Maezawa, and then write about what she wants to do.
Someone said Universe didn’t exist 14 years ago, so it was probably a different club.
Regarding tax obligations and using condoms, I’ve explained those things to her. As for married men, I’ve told her about that as well.
I want to oppose it, but since I did it myself, I can’t completely object.
I’ve repeatedly told her that since she’s legally an adult at 18, she has to take responsibility for her own choices.
She’s attending university using student loans, so perhaps she also wants some spending money of her own. Personally, I feel safer with a service that arranges introductions than with some random app.
Recently, there have been videos and posts on X, TikTok, and Instagram introducing this club, so that may be influencing her. I’ve told her not to think she can make easy money, but I feel that idea is probably still somewhere in the back of her mind.
This got quite long, but thank you to everyone who took the time to answer.
When I think about my own future, I feel I’d like to register with Universe, so I’m hoping to work on myself a little more and then go in for an interview. I’m 154 cm tall and weigh 51 kg, so compared with how I used to be, I’m not as round anymore. Now I just need to improve my appearance.
4 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Even if they’re ultimately responsible for their own choices, I think many parents oppose it because they may not understand the full extent of that responsibility.
With that in mind, it seems best to explain as much as possible—including the potential impact and worst-case scenarios—and help them broaden their perspective. People who are currently involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) have probably considered those possibilities and decided that the benefits still outweigh the drawbacks.
Whenever you make a decision, it’s normal for there to be both advantages and disadvantages. If there are drawbacks they haven’t noticed, I think the best thing is to point them out.
> I couldn’t reply to your answer.
You should be able to reply if you set a password when posting your question. If you did set one and still can’t reply, please let me know.
50半ばのオッサン
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 特に無し
ライトにやっています お互いのフィーリング重視です
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
At first, I thought A was completely out of the question, but lately my feelings have changed. Maybe I’m getting older, haha.
I’m starting to think A might actually be more comfortable.
Once you’re over 50, just talking with a young woman can lift your spirits, haha. I think you’ll be fine.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
There’s an adult video called “A 20-Year-Old Sheltered Virgin College Student Loses Her Virginity in Front of Her Mother,” so you might want to watch it. A preview is available for free.
The mother teaches her daughter how to touch the male actor’s penis, and holds her hand when it hurts during the initial penetration.
With mother-and-daughter pairs like this out there, it feels like anything goes these days—as long as no one ends up unhappy. So I think you should do whatever you feel is right.
If you’re interested, watch it together with your daughter. I’m being completely serious—not making fun of you. It might help break down some emotional barriers and make it easier for you to talk openly and have fun discussing things together.
“Wow, there are really mother-and-daughter pairs like that?”
“Talking about papa-katsu is starting to make us seem pretty normal, huh?”
Something along those lines.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If the questioner isn’t lying, the club’s website says it was founded in 2011, so it’s possible they joined a club that had only just opened.
But as far as the term papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) goes, Universe was probably the first and is one of the oldest clubs, so I’m not sure about the others.
At 154 cm and 51 kg, your specs are basically a 100, so honestly, who knows? You might be slightly chubby. Do you have any standout features, like a large bust or a refined, guy-friendly face? Otherwise, I’m not sure how many offers you’d get.
That said, there are plenty of women who aren’t conventionally beautiful but have a cute, slightly sexy look that makes men feel comfortable approaching them, and they still get lots of offers. So I think you should start by coming in for an interview.
Also, as Mac-san suggested, why not go all in and come to the interview with your daughter and register as a mother-daughter pair? You could appeal to papas who want a parent-and-child arrangement. If you put something like “Mother and daughter registered with Club XX” in your profiles, it seems like both of you might get plenty of offers.
It’s a chaotic world, so this is one of those timelines where you might be able to turn things around in one shot, haha. The decision is up to you.