Tips Apr 5, 2026 20:32

I’m a 36-year-old woman. I can’t remember whether it was Universe, but I used to be registered as a member. At the time, I was 22 and had a young, preschool-aged child, so I was only available during the daytime on weekdays. I had a first meeting and, I think, chose an adult relationship (intimate) from the second meeting onward.

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However, I had recently given birth and was also a single mother. I was on the curvier side and had a round face, so I never received any offers and eventually withdrew my membership. Here’s my question: Would there still be any demand for me at 37, even though I have a child who’s now an adult? If I register again, do you think I’d receive any offers? Is there a record of previous membership registrations? Would I be treated as a new member? Looking at other people’s posts, it seems like I wouldn’t be considered new. Apparently, my daughter is also interested in Universe. We’re close, so she talks to me about things like that. I didn’t know what to say, but since I worked in the adult industry when she was little, I can’t strongly reject or forbid it. There are also dinner-only (no intimacy) arrangements, so I feel that might be okay for her. I think people should gain the experiences they can only have when they’re young. I know that probably makes me a bad mother.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Sex work is a respectable job, too. I want you to feel proud and confident about raising your daughter as a single mother, no matter what anyone else says. You are not a bad parent. If anyone says otherwise, I’ll punch them myself.
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ライトにやっています お互いのフィーリング重視です
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Hmm... I wonder if it might actually be better than having a younger girl jump into this world without knowing anything... If she does decide to go through with it, please make sure to teach her the proper judgment and boundaries an adult should maintain, even in this kind of world. I can’t tell you to go for it, but I hope it turns into a valuable experience for her.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
There are women who are registered at 37, and they do receive offers. That said, naturally, they’ll receive fewer offers than women around 30. And if you didn’t receive any offers when you registered before, there’s a possibility you won’t receive any this time either. > Looking at other people’s profiles, it seems like they’re not new members. I’m not sure how women are able to view other women’s profiles. If this isn’t about Universe Club, I think you should contact the dating club in question. Regarding your daughter, if you found yourself at a loss for words, I think it’s reasonable to oppose it. If you’d had a positive experience yourself and felt it was worthwhile, I don’t think you would have been lost for words.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Universe Club didn’t exist 14 years ago, so it wouldn’t have been through Universe Club. You’d be registering as a new member. If you register together as a parent and child, clearly stating that you’re related, it might attract attention since I’ve never seen that before. If you’d rather not do that, you can register normally. However, since there are so many beautiful women, you may not receive any offers unless you have something distinctive about you. As for being 36, that’s perfectly fine. There are plenty of members around that age.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
You had your child at 19 and joined a dating club at 22, but didn’t receive any offers. → If someone had no offers at 22, then realistically, getting offers at 37 would be pretty much impossible unless she became miraculously beautiful. My current monthly arrangement is 36. She’s been on the platinum tier since her 20s and received tons of offers. She even has generous (well-paying) papas, and although she has two children, she looks prettier and cuter than she did in her 20s. She recently lost even more weight and her waist got slimmer, and she said she lost it for me. I know it was just lip service, but apparently she’s still doing papa-katsu and getting offers. She really works hard— she puts in a tremendous amount of effort. She runs a business with a generous papa and says she’s doing papa-katsu because she wants funding for herself too. She’s actually been doing papa-katsu longer than I have, even though I started first, lol. If you want offers too, I think you’ll need to put in more effort than the average woman your age when it comes to beauty and looking clean and well-groomed. Men are paying an allowance, after all. When you think about it, that’s only natural. You’d need to have something that makes them choose you, at 37, over a beautiful woman in her 20s. When we were kids, once we got past 20, we started to understand our parents a little better, didn’t we? What kind of people they really were. Our parents and schoolteachers weren’t saints— they were just ordinary people, lol. Like finding out that your father visited adult entertainment venues, for example, lol. Or learning at a class reunion that a former homeroom teacher had made a move on a student and gotten fired, lol. I understood that sort of thing myself from around the time I became an adult. Why not try talking to your child about it? About registering for adult entertainment work or papa-katsu. Somehow, I get the feeling you’re a single mother, aren’t you? If you were married, you couldn’t really say it, but if you raised your child on your own, and especially if it’s your daughter, I think it might be okay to talk woman to woman about the hardships you went through. That’s reality, after all.
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