Lately, I’ve been getting more messages from male members asking about my allowance instead of receiving actual offers.

At Universe Club, the staff mediate everything, so men won’t ask you about your allowance. You could simply register with Universe Club and not sign up anywhere else, but if they ask, “Would you like to register with PATOLO at the same time?” and you agree without thinking, you’ll end up registered with PATOLO as well. I assume this time you’re talking about PATOLO. In that case, if you enable “accept orders only,” men will no longer be able to send you chat messages. In other words, they won’t be asking about your allowance either. You go all the way to an interview to register with a dating club, have all kinds of photos taken, end up with photos posted that aren’t what you wanted, and then have to deal with meaningless messages from men. How much do you want to volunteer? Men who ask about your allowance before making an offer are treating it like an app, so they’re usually the kind of people who offer only ¥20,000 or some other ridiculously low amount. They’re not worth replying to, so you can simply change your settings so you don’t receive messages. There are even men who agree to meet at a certain place at a certain date and time, but never make a formal offer—and then don’t contact you even on the day. You can’t even caution men who haven’t made a formal offer, since chat is unrestricted. They can do whatever they want, just like on an app. I don’t see much point in exchanging messages like that. With a dating club, I think it’s perfectly fine to use it as a dating club and simply wait for offers from men. At Universe Club, the staff handle the communication in between, so there’s no need for meaningless chats. That’s exactly one of the advantages of a dating club.