That really would be difficult.
Usually, I think the man would eventually give up, but I’m sure there are some who won’t.
Just to clarify, the condoms provided at love hotels are often inexpensive, so they tend to be relatively thick. Some men may have trouble finishing with thicker condoms.
For future reference, it might be a good idea to discreetly keep some 0.03 mm condoms (because they’re made of latex, men are less likely to notice a difference, and they’re the thinnest latex option) and 0.01 mm condoms (they aren’t made of latex, so some people may notice a difference, but they’re the thinnest available) on hand.
If the man is taking a long time to finish, you could say, “Oh, there are some thinner ones here,” and hand one to him as if it had been there from the start.
(That said, you’d have to put it there discreetly while showering or something, so it would go to waste if you didn’t end up using it ＞＜)
I think the key is for the woman not to say anything in particular, but simply respond as usual.
There’s no need to mention that he isn’t finishing. It’s best to act completely calm and carry on as though everything is normal.
Usually, I think the other person will eventually give up, though…
I get it. It’s awkward, isn’t it?
My monthly partners usually give me a little time to take a break, cuddle and fool around a bit, then, once I’m feeling a little better, they’ll give me oral and we start again.
Even then, there are times when it just doesn’t happen. Sometimes I’ll say, “It’s not going to happen today, so it’s okay.” If I keep trying but still can’t, the woman will say, “I’m going to take a shower,” which is basically her signal that it’s over.
If he’s a generous papa and the arrangement has to continue, I’ll make the effort. But if he’s not much of a papa, I think it’s fine to call it a day, lol.
I think that if you keep things going for a reasonable amount of time without him ejaculating, most men will eventually give up.
If it happens two or three times with the same person, I assume we’re not compatible and stop seeing him.
That’s just what I personally do.
