I’m a woman considering signing up with Universe Club.

All older men have terrible body odor and breath that smells like a sewer. I don’t think you should join. Can you calmly listen to their bragging, sexual harassment, and lewd stories? I prefer B2.

There was a Type B girl who continued having dinner dates with me more than 100 times in a row. Do you think it will stay that way, or will things eventually develop? Either way, it means we’ve had a lot of enjoyable time together. My ideal order of preference is: B1 = A ≧ B2 ≧ C D is out of the picture. In reality, there are relatively few Type A girls, and many are either very experienced with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or, conversely, quite savvy professionals. So I make fewer offers to Type A girls: B1 = B2 = C ≫ A D is out of the picture (zero offers). I see both meetings arranged through the club and meetings outside the club as relationships that can continue for life, so I don’t place much importance on the types. These days, even Type B2 girls may bring up an adult relationship (intimate) or the allowance on the very first day. For men and women who prefer to build trust first rather than focus on the allowance, I think Type B1 offers more breathing room. I have no problem continuing dinner dates, no matter how many times, as long as I genuinely like the girl. Since I’m looking for something long-term, I neither rush things nor give up. To add one more thing: I think only a very small handful of women are liked that much—even in a dating club.

If you’re worried about an adult relationship (intimate), I think starting at B1 would be fine. Even if you force yourself, you can’t do what you can’t do. That said, unless you’re exceptionally attractive—beautiful or cute—you may get very few offers, or none at all. If you’re getting few or no offers, you might want to consider changing classes. Alternatively, you could give up on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and choose something that doesn’t involve adult relationships, such as paid drinking events, girls’ bars, cabaret clubs, clubs, or snack bars. Personally, Fuu has only ever made offers to C and D.

B1 > A > B2 > C >>>>> D That’s my priority order when making offers. I’ve never made an offer to anyone in category D. A is the tricky one. If she’s cute, I’m totally fine with A, but I think every male member would agree that you almost never come across a cute girl in A. So, there are papa supporters like me who mainly focus on B1, and I think you should choose your dating type based on your own feelings. I’m going on what will probably be my fifth dinner date with a girl from B1 who is very unlikely to lead to an adult relationship. She says she wants to try hugging, so I’m going to give it a shot. I don’t know what will happen after that, but she’s fun to spend time with even if it’s dinner only, so I wouldn’t mind having ten dinner dates in a row. In fact, there’s a B1 girl I’ve had dinner with about ten times, and she’s given me more than enough enjoyment. Let me ask you one thing: do you have the conversational skills to satisfy a papa through dinner only? I also make offers to A-types, so I’ve met all kinds of girls, but only one has ever made me think, “This is fun,” with dinner only. We’ve been seeing each other for about two and a half years, and there’s no reason to stop, so I think we’ll keep meeting. She has a serious boyfriend. She comes over and stays the night, and for some reason I get excited when she’s taking a bath, haha. I don’t peek, though. I just wonder what may or may not be there, and of course there’s nothing in the end—but that’s what makes it fun.

I think women with Relationship Type B generally make a better impression, though it probably depends on the male member. With B1, some men may feel uncertain about when things will progress beyond dinner, so you may receive fewer offers. That said, as others have mentioned, you should probably expect that most men will only continue with dinner for around three dates. Personally, if I’ve met someone about three times and feel there’s no potential, I give up.

When it comes to relationship types, your own feelings are the most important thing. So don’t choose based solely on the number of offers—think carefully about whether you genuinely feel comfortable with that relationship type and can meet the men’s expectations. If you choose Type C even though you want to meet a man several times before deciding, he may complain, and in the worst case, the club may have no choice but to terminate your membership. With that in mind, the types that tend to receive the most offers are C and B2. Their popularity is almost equal, but the men who choose them are clearly looking for different things. So I think you should choose based on which type of man you want to receive offers from. As for your question about B1, it’s basically just a little better than A. You’ll receive fewer offers, but it’s not as hopeless as A. Even with B1, attractive women will still receive offers. However, if you’re only slightly above average, you may not receive any offers with B1. In that case, B2 may be the better choice. The difference is that with B1, you can go on several dinner dates before deciding what to do next. With B2, the first meeting is dinner, but by the second meeting, you’ll be expected to either decline or accept. That said, most women say they can tell after meeting someone once whether they could be intimate with him. So unless you specifically want to prolong things with dinner dates, I think B2 would be better. With B1, you might get the impression that you can keep things going with dinner dates. However, most men decide around the third meeting whether they want to continue seeing a woman, so in general, it probably isn’t possible to keep things going with dinner alone. There are methods online that involve hinting at an adult relationship while prolonging things with dinner dates, but at Universe Club, I think you should assume that’s more or less impossible. (Unless you’re exceptionally beautiful.)

I find it a hassle to keep meeting for dinner with a woman who isn’t willing to be intimate with me, so my motivation to make offers is highest in the order of D, C > B2 >> B1 >>> A. At the moment, I have no shortage of people to see, so I rarely even look at the profiles of D or C types—and I don’t look at B2 or below at all. When I had just joined and didn’t yet have enough partners, I did make offers to B-type women as well. That said, I don’t think you should choose your relationship type based on whether it will attract more or fewer offers. If you claim something that doesn’t reflect how you really feel, you’ll likely end up forcing yourself into situations you dislike, and troubles will become more common. I recommend choosing the relationship type that feels right to you. Adding this after reading a response from a member who works as a systems engineer: I also only meet women for dinner alone three times at most. There was one woman I kept having dinner with out of inertia, and around the fifth time she invited me to take things further. By then, though, I had already lost interest, so I stopped seeing her.

There are men who are B1s as well, so even if you’re a B1, I think you’ll still receive offers. ☆ You may get fewer offers than a C-type, but when filming your introduction video, you can simply say, “I’m nervous because this is my first time, so I’d like to start as a B1, please♡” It’s scary at first, right? Why not register as a B1 and move up to B2 once you’ve gotten used to things? ☆ Rather than having people assume that making an offer means they’ll get somewhere with you, I think it’s better to come across as sweet and inexperienced.