It’s so emotionally draining that an adult relationship is basically a prerequisite.
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I’m a female member. The staff told me that Type A gets very few offers, so I switched to Type B, but honestly, the fact that an adult relationship is still expected makes me feel like crying.
Spending time at hotels is genuinely painful. I put up with it every time, but I’ve reached my limit and feel sick.
Are there really no papas (male supporters) who would continue seeing someone without an adult relationship? Sorry for turning this into a rant.
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Wouldn’t it be better to change your relationship type to A, even knowing that offers may become harder to come by, or consider another approach?
Among the people I’m currently seeing, some mainly want to go out for meals.
You’ll need to make an effort to become someone they want to meet—even for dinner only (no intimacy)—with an allowance.
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Very few papas choose option A, since most are looking for an adult relationship (intimate), which is why the allowance is relatively generous.
If you want money quickly, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) may not be the right fit for you.
If you don’t want an adult relationship, why not try paid drinking dates, being a rental girlfriend, working at a girls’ bar, snack bar, or club?
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> Do papa (male supporters) who are willing to date without an adult relationship (intimate) not exist?
I don’t know whether you’re specifically hoping for a relationship without intimacy, but if a woman is exceptionally beautiful or exactly a man’s type, he may offer her an adult arrangement.
That said, I’d like to know how you’d feel if you looked at it from the opposite perspective.
“What if a man in his 50s asked, ‘Are there any papa-katsu women who would date me without money?’”
How would you feel?
There may be people like that, and I’m sure some people are actually in those kinds of relationships, but I think they’re rare.
You may be able to understand your own feelings to some extent by considering how you’d feel if the situation were reversed.
> Honestly, the fact that everything revolves around an adult relationship (intimate) is making me so depressed I feel like crying.
Then you should simply quit. No one is forcing you.
If it’s affecting you that badly, you should stop immediately.
Plenty of people live perfectly normal lives without doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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I have no hesitation about making offers to Type A women.
There have been several times when a Type A woman suggested an adult relationship herself, and we ended up becoming intimate. I also have a Type A woman I’ve been seeing for nearly three years, and it’s remained a dinner-only relationship the whole time.
Since Type A women can’t use their biggest asset—sex—their looks tend to be judged more strictly, so I think the chances of getting an offer are considerably lower.
Personally, if I’m attracted to a woman’s appearance, I’ll make an offer regardless of her type—except Type D. That includes Type A.
There’s a Type A woman I’m really interested in right now, and I think I’m going to make her an offer.
I’m really looking forward to meeting her.
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Lately, there seem to be far too many women registered as Type A.
I’m wondering if this is just another one of the usual clickbait posts… I’m Paper Airplane, and my wife scolded me this morning for being the type who falls for clickbait and gets easily fooled.
Some men join the club even though they have no trouble finding sexual partners, so in those cases, Type A women may actually be welcome—type fraud included.
That said, when so many women are willing to show their faces and accept an adult relationship (intimate), the women who deliberately insist on being Type A tend to be unusually bold, shrewd, cunning, or calculating. Some are even practically con artists. The reality is that Type A has overwhelmingly more formidable women than the other types.
Couldn’t the person asking the question have chosen to follow her own path as one of those formidable women…?
If the number of such Type A women keeps increasing simply because they claim that looks and everything else don’t matter, they may eventually become a factor in lowering men’s satisfaction.
If more male members keep coming back, and eventually the number of male members equals or exceeds the number of female members, I think that would be a sign of high satisfaction. It would be better than simply having a large number of female members…
Even if the automatic expiration period were shortened from six months to two or one month, reducing the number of female members, men might become more motivated, thinking, “If I don’t check for even a month, I’ll miss out.”
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We get questions like this from time to time.
You say you’re so distressed that you don’t want to take your pants off, but I can’t feel any sympathy for you at all. I simply can’t see what you have to offer besides your body.
This is a place where an intimate relationship is assumed. So, in my view, you would need to have some other appeal to offer in its place. I apologize for being so blunt, but if you actually had that kind of appeal, I doubt you would be asking such a frivolous question here—or so it seems to me.
I’m sure you have your reasons, but please leave.
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They do seem to exist. However, it’s not hard to imagine that, to maintain a relationship without sex, there would need to be something else that could take its place.
Occasionally, there are also men who don’t ask women for sex because they lack confidence in that area. If you’re lucky enough to meet someone like that, it seems you won’t be expected to be intimate.
The reason an adult relationship is often a given is that there are plenty of women who are just as appealing as—or more appealing than—you and are happy to have sex as well.
You don’t seem suited to this, so if you don’t want to do it, I recommend not getting involved.
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