I’m dating someone who’s a B2 type, and I’d like some advice on negotiating the allowance for our next date.
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At the end of our meeting, should we simply agree to see each other again, exchange contact information, and decide on the allowance later via LINE or something similar?
Or should I negotiate the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate) next time first, then exchange contact information once we’ve reached an agreement?
If there are any other approaches, I’d really appreciate your advice.
I’d be grateful for any guidance from those with more experience.
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I only offer C, so…
When you explain the terms over LINE, you really have to be careful with your wording. Otherwise, it can come across as cold, and the nuances may not get across properly.
So I talk about it in person. I bring up the terms at the end of the meal. If we agree, we move on to the next step. If we can’t agree, we go our separate ways.
In Fuu’s case, it’s become pretty rare lately for us not to reach an agreement. Sorry to brag, but my five-plus years of experience are finally paying off lol.
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> Is it possible to arrange a meeting without discussing the terms?
With both B2- and C-type women, I often ended up going to a hotel without discussing anything beforehand. There was no discussion even after leaving the hotel.
I think I would have presented my terms from the start if I felt there was little chance of continuing with her.
Looking at it purely as dating, I actually believe there’s no need to negotiate an allowance—that it’s strange to put a price on an adult relationship (intimate).
Even though an adult relationship (intimate) is generally expected, some men join clubs looking for that, while I think a smaller number join because they’re looking for an actual relationship.
I also imagine there are men who aren’t short of sex partners but join a club because they’re looking for a relationship.
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From the woman’s perspective, whether to meet again depends on the allowance and other terms, so is it really possible to agree to meet again without discussing the terms?
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In my case, I usually ask toward the end of the first meeting whether things might develop into a relationship.
If it seems promising, I’ll also discuss and settle the allowance in person.
You could do it over LINE, but talking face-to-face lets you gauge the other person’s reaction, so there’s less chance of a mismatch.
If we’re both comfortable moving forward and can agree on the allowance, we’ll likely continue seeing each other, so we exchange LINE contact information.
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Are you seriously asking this?
Do you really think there’s a manual for that?
I take it case by case and go along with the flow of the conversation with the other person.
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