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📅 Nov 2, 2025 12:11
I only recently started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and I’ve been trying it at B1, but after meeting a few people, I’m starting to feel that an adult relationship (intimate) really isn’t for me. There’s someone I told I’d meet for dinner only (no intimacy) for now, and that maybe, if I felt ready, we could consider moving forward in two or three months. But honestly, I’m beginning to think I probably won’t be able to. Woul...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You’re very honest and seem like a good person, questioner. Thanks for sharing how you really feel.
I think most women keep accepting their allowance while secretly having no intention of going further, dangling the possibility in front of the men.
Cabaret hostesses and snack bar mamas use the same technique to get money out of people, don’t they? lol
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📅 Nov 2, 2025 06:22
A question about how often women should reach out between meetups. I know it depends on the person, but how often is it best for the woman to message? The men always seem busy, and some of them are married, so I worry that they might find it annoying if I contact them. Because of that, I haven’t messaged them at all. Could that make them gradually lose interest and fade out? I actually like them and want to see them, but that’s exactly ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> How often is it best for the woman to reach out?
It depends on the person, so I think it’s a good idea to casually ask when you’re together. But if you message them about once a week, I don’t think they’ll find it too bothersome.
> Do people who don’t like messaging still appreciate it when they receive messages?
Whether they appreciate it or not is another matter, but if you message them around that often, I think few people would consider it a nuisance. It also seems m…
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📅 Nov 1, 2025 16:07
After going on one date with a female member, or meeting someone in the past, does their profile become unavailable in the member directory afterward?
💬 Answer from 吉岡 菜奈（スタッフ）:
Thank you for your question.
Yoshioka from the staff team will answer.
If you met through Universe Club on or after May 1, 2023, both profiles are automatically set to become hidden after a certain period—in our current system, 20 days after the date the date was confirmed.
For people you met before May 1, 2023, staff handled profile visibility manually, so some profiles may be hidden while others may still be visible.
We hope this information is helpful.
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📅 Oct 30, 2025 16:45
I’ve posted twice before—more like asking for advice than asking a question. Thank you for your opinions back then. This may be another difficult question to answer, but I’d appreciate your thoughts. There’s one woman I meet on a monthly arrangement, and she’s the only person I’m seeing. We’ve met eight times so far, but things have only progressed to an adult relationship twice—and on both occasions, things didn’t go particularly well,...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
“I think she’s a really interesting woman, and I’d like to keep seeing her.”
That one sentence says it all.
Whether other people have an adult relationship every time, or whether they also have a hard time getting that far, is beside the point.
You’re probably drawn to her because she’s unlike anyone you’ve met before. And if you let her slip away, you may never meet another woman like her again.
So with this woman—who keeps you on your toes and doesn’t always do what you…
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📅 Oct 29, 2025 20:19
There’s a man who seems to think that money is only involved when we spend time at a hotel. To be honest, I’d like him to take the allowance into consideration for the entire time we’re together. How can I ask him about this without coming across as rude? Also, even though we were at a restaurant with no private rooms and the tables were very close together, he suddenly started talking about how I am in bed, what we do, and other sexual...
💬 Answer from だて◎ゆめ:
I feel the same way, to some extent.
I’m not really a fan of putting things into categories like “in a room” versus “somewhere else.”
Even with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), despite the age gap, it’s still a relationship between a man and a woman. So I think it’s best to look at the arrangement as a whole, rather than judging based solely on whether it involves a room or not.
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📅 Oct 29, 2025 16:14
If a background check is done when I get married in the future, how likely is it that my past will come to light? I was registered with Universe Club for just two months and met around ten people. I used a separate device for LINE and was careful about the locations of my dates, so I don’t think anyone I know likely saw me. I reached my target amount in four months and have since quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) altogether.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you cancel that phone, too, there’ll be almost no evidence, so I doubt you’ll get caught.
There’d be no way to track you down.
If anything, the most likely possibility is that the information you sent to this Q&A box is still in the questioner’s email on their current phone, and a professional third party figures out their password, opens it, and finds out.
So hurry up and completely delete the history of asking this question here, lol.
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📅 Oct 28, 2025 06:56
If a female member rates someone three stars after a date, does that mean he didn’t meet her expectations? I was wondering because if she didn’t have a bad time, she’d probably give him four stars or more.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Average: 3
Good: 4
Really good: 5
I’d give it a 3—nothing particularly good or bad, just acceptable. It didn’t leave much of an impression.
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📅 Oct 28, 2025 06:26
Nice to meet you! I’m interested in Universe Lounge, but are women with Relationship Type A generally not very welcome there…? I understand that I might go, wait, and still not match with anyone—and I’m okay with that. I’m just worried that the staff or male members might think, “Why did she come here if she’s Type A…?” To the staff and male members: what do you think when a Type A woman comes to the lounge?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
The staff make money when women come in and there’s a chance of making a match, so I don’t think they’d treat you that way.
That said, if it’s A, you might actually have better luck meeting someone at the singles bar on B1 of the same building. There’s no allowance, but plenty of food and drinks lol.
If you’re looking for an allowance through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’d recommend going to B or C sooner rather than later.
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📅 Oct 26, 2025 03:52
I’m an adult woman who has never been in a relationship, let alone had any experience with men. I’m registered as B1 at a club, and I’ve agreed to take things to an adult relationship (intimate) with someone I see regularly. I’ve told him that I don’t have that kind of experience, but I’m worried I’ll be extremely nervous on the day, or that there might be a lot of bleeding and we won’t be able to go through with it. From a man’s perspe...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
Maezawa-san’s point about men who prefer virgins is that there are two groups. One consists of men who have never been with a virgin and want to try it at least once in their lives. The other group—including me—is more of a “mentor” type: we want to guide someone from that nervous, inexperienced stage, just like the person asking this question.
The allowance is probably higher with the first group—maybe ¥300,000 or more?
The second group generally doesn’t pay that much. In …
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📅 Oct 25, 2025 10:41
I’m a female member of Universe’s Kanto branch. A male member from the Kansai branch whom I met through Universe before seems to have viewed my profile several times through a friend who is also a Universe member. This may be an emotional reaction, but to be honest, I feel a little uncomfortable. It strikes me as sneaky—or rather, kind of creepy. Of course, we never promised each other anything like “let’s only see each other,” so there...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
A question full of things that don’t quite add up.
Thanks for sharing. Is this fictional?
As Maezawa-san said, profiles can’t be viewed while someone is on hiatus.
And I don’t think they were grouped as the Kanto and Kansai branches either. Weren’t the branch names more like Ginza or Osaka?
Anyway, even if her papa’s friend saw her profile, wouldn’t it be fine as long as neither of them had made any commitment to be exclusive?
Do you mean that her papa said, “You took a …
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📅 Oct 23, 2025 17:09
This is my first time asking a question. When negotiating an allowance with a woman, say I offer 10 to a “black” woman and she seems hesitant—would it be considered poor manners or leave a bad impression to raise it from there to 11 or 12? Or is it better to state upfront the maximum amount I’m willing to offer her? Thank you.
💬 Answer from アンディ:
I’ve never asked for as much as 100,000 yen regardless of the person’s class, so I’m not sure how helpful this will be. But if it hasn’t been discussed in advance on platforms like Patro—especially with a Universe Club offer—I meet them first and tell them what I’m looking for. If they seem hesitant, things usually fall through, but afterward I ask what they want. If you still want to continue seeing each other, I think it’s simply a matter of accommodating their wishes.
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📅 Oct 23, 2025 17:02
Sorry for the long post. There’s a man who comes all the way from Tokyo to meet me in another region once a month. He’s gentlemanly as long as nothing upsets him, but he clearly shows his displeasure when it comes to my views about my future—namely, that I don’t want anything more because he’s married, and that I also meet other men through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to save money. Sometimes he’ll maintain eye contact and ...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Even if you spend six or eight hours together, penetration itself only lasts a few minutes. If you’re both already at the height of arousal, just two or three minutes (or maybe one or two?) of penetration is enough to bring you both to climax, leaving you completely drained.
Women can reach orgasm in under a minute when masturbating, and men can climax quickly with a woman they’re attracted to. If they aren’t attracted to her, they may not be able to climax no matter how man…
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📅 Oct 22, 2025 17:19
I Come from a Troubled Family Background There’s someone I like, but they graduated from a top university and come from a wealthy family. My upbringing was extremely difficult. Do you think a relationship can work when our backgrounds are complete opposites?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Go for it and turn your life around in one fell swoop.
If you already feel like you have little to lose, then you’ve got nothing to lose with this either.
Be calm and deliberate—but sometimes, be bold, like poking holes in condoms. Once you’ve made him yours, wouldn’t that be worth it?
Nothing changes if you don’t take action. You only live once, so rather than regretting not trying, wouldn’t it be better to try and regret it, then move forward?
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📅 Oct 21, 2025 02:56
I’m a female member with a B2 dating type. The other day, a papa (a male supporter) contacted me saying he wanted to move toward an adult relationship (intimate). I personally had no objection to that, as long as we could agree on the allowance. However, there was a difference between the amount I wanted and what he was offering, so I told him, “If we’re going to have an adult relationship, this is roughly the allowance I have in mind, ...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
When I want them to turn me down, I suggest “5 for an adult relationship (intimate).”
Maybe that papa (a male supporter) is hoping you’ll turn him down.
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📅 Oct 20, 2025 19:19
We had dinner on our first date, continued spending time together afterward, and even made plans for next time. However, I came across a survey response (customer feedback) that seemed to be about me based on the date, and it wasn’t very positive. Should I avoid inviting him/her out again?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Other people may be dating him on the same day, so it might not be what you think.
If you invite him and he turns you down, then maybe—but did you do something that would make him write something strange about you?
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📅 Oct 20, 2025 10:38
I’m going to a day spa with my papa (a male supporter) soon. Should I go makeup-free, or should I wear makeup?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
For a day trip, you could just put on your makeup before you go and leave it on.
If you’re staying overnight, I think it’s fine to go with makeup on, take it off, and then do your makeup again in the morning.
Someone I used to date said she didn’t want me to see her without makeup, so she took it off after I fell asleep and put it back on before I woke up.
Men actually don’t worry about it as much as you might think, though. Seeing you without makeup feels fresh. I’d like …
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📅 Oct 20, 2025 09:43
It’s been about two months since I joined Universe Club. I’m a Type C, but embarrassingly, I haven’t received many offers. I’d say I’m probably below average in terms of looks… I’ve received offers from two men during these two months, but I’d like to meet more people. To receive more offers, do I simply need to become cuter and go in for a new photo shoot? The two men I’ve met both said, “I wonder why you don’t get more offers. You’re ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> If you’re fun to talk to, charming, and generous in what you offer,
if that doesn’t also mention being prettier, more beautiful, or cuter than your photos, then I assume the impression you give in person is probably about the same as in your photos.
Since many men decide whether to send an offer based on their impression of your photos, I feel that your appearance may be the reason you’re receiving few offers.
That means if you can get men to meet you, you have a good ch…
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📅 Oct 20, 2025 04:34
A question for the male members: Would you feel uncomfortable if, at your first meeting, a woman asked why you decided to make her an offer? I’m curious about what part of my profile, photos, or other details made you want to make an offer, but if most men would find the question unpleasant, I’ll refrain from asking.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Some people ask about that from time to time. I guess neither person is completely honest when you’ve only just met.
When asked why I made an offer, Fuu’s answers are usually:
- Because I liked her
- Because something on her profile caught my interest
- Because she looked classy but also kind of sexy
- Because she had a great figure and a nice waist
If they also ask what kind of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) I do or how many other regular arrangements I have:
“…
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📅 Oct 19, 2025 22:46
I’m scared because a man I met here nearly five years ago still contacts me. We only met twice, and since we ended up living far apart—and I didn’t think we were really a good match anyway—I assumed things would naturally fade out. But he still messages and calls me, which frightens me. I’m afraid he might lash out if I block him, and I’m also scared to tell him directly that his contact makes me uncomfortable, so all I’ve been able to ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
You could start by clearly telling him something like:
“I’ve stopped doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I won’t be accepting any further contact from you. Thank you for everything before. I’ll be blocking you after this.”
You should also be able to block his calls.
If he harasses you afterward, I recommend consulting the police or another appropriate authority.
He may think it’s okay to contact you because the two of you became close, or he may simply want…
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📅 Oct 19, 2025 11:37
The woman in her 20s I’ve been seeing for a little over a year told me at our last meeting that she didn’t need any allowance because she’d already received plenty from me. Since we were together for quite a while, I still gave her a small amount rather than nothing, taking her at her word. But now I’m unsure what to do about the allowance amount going forward. Would she dislike me if I reduced it again next time?
💬 Answer from 負け男:
If you reduce the allowance, you’ll ruin the wonderful relationship you’ve built. Please keep giving the same amount as before.
Unless she says, “I told you, I don’t need it! *sob*” — keep giving it to her.