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📅 Oct 9, 2025 15:37
Has anyone else had an experience like mine? This has happened three times now: I always get sick after meeting a certain person. It starts with a sore throat, followed by a fever of 38–39°C (100.4–102.2°F), headaches, and other symptoms. I wondered if it might be an STI, but it seems strange for a fever to develop after only two days… The only explanation I can think of is that my immune system may be weak, so germs that are harmless t...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Hmm… that’s a difficult one.
Apparently, humans have around 380 trillion viruses inside and on their bodies, and about 90% of the body is made up of roughly 1,000 types of bacteria. So maybe your papa (a male supporter) has something that doesn’t agree with you.
How do you feel about your papa’s scent, especially around his neck? Apparently, your sense of smell can sometimes tell you whether you’re compatible with someone.
If his smell is unpleasant, you may not be compati…
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📅 Oct 8, 2025 16:17
A woman at the club has asked me to get tested for STIs before entering into an adult relationship (intimate). Some STIs can have an incubation period of up to three months, so even if I get tested now, there would still be a risk from the past three months. How do you all view this? One option would be to get tested now and again three months later, avoid anything that could involve a risk of transmission during those three months, and...
💬 Answer from アンディ:
If that’s what he wants, I think you should get tested, show him the results, and move forward.
I have no problem getting tested myself, but if someone told me right from the start that testing was mandatory, I’d feel put off and definitely fade out.
No one’s ever said that to me, so I’ll keep it in mind for future reference.
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📅 Oct 8, 2025 00:41
I’ve learned a lot from everyone here, so I’d like to hear your opinions on something. I’m a man in my 30s with Platinum membership. I started using the service about two months ago. I prefer contacting people myself, so I’ve been more active on PATOLO than through the club. When a woman is registered with both the club and PATOLO, there have been times when I asked the club for some basic information about her, then contacted her throu...
💬 Answer from アンディ:
I use Patro quite often too.
You can ask the staff about women on Patro as well. In the end, you’ll get a reply from the representative at the branch, so there’s really no difference either way, lol.
From Universe Club’s perspective, I’m sure they’d prefer to see the number of offers increase regardless of where they come from. So, to answer your question: since it’s within the rules, I don’t think you need to worry about it too much.
Hope this helps.
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📅 Oct 7, 2025 17:42
I was active for several years, but suddenly it started feeling like a hassle for no particular reason. Have you ever experienced this?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s not quite that extreme, but the motivation does change.
Every now and then, I think, “I’m getting a little bored,” and feel like switching up my monthly arrangements.
Then I get excited by new offers in the meantime, regain that sense of anticipation, and enjoy being with someone new.
That’s basically my papa-katsu life: repeating the cycle of being left by someone even though things were going really well, making new offers, and struggling to find the next person.
I…
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📅 Oct 7, 2025 11:02
What do men in their 30s think about cute women who are 18 or 19? What kind of clothes do men in their 30s like—skirts, dresses, pants, and so on? I’m sure it varies from person to person, but I’d love to hear your individual opinions.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It sounds like something a man would write, lol.
The types of clothes, the vocabulary...
Is this the person from the “papa-katsu in your 30s” series?
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📅 Oct 7, 2025 10:56
If you’re a single man in your early 30s, how much could you realistically afford to give as a monthly allowance for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? I know it depends on the person, but I’m curious about the going rate.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Papa-katsu in your early 30s…
Seems kind of wasteful.
You’d probably be able to date even without an allowance.
Unless he’s seriously lacking in other areas. I wasn’t popular either, but even I wasn’t paying money for this at that age.
Maybe it’s just the times we live in.
Generally speaking, unless he’s a business owner—or running some hot startup—I doubt he has that much disposable income.
If a guy in his 30s has money, women will probably be drawn to him even withou…
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📅 Oct 6, 2025 22:00
It’s been almost a year since I joined, so it’s time to renew. I’m currently a Platinum member, but I’m considering upgrading to Black. I tend to prefer women who seem like everyday, down-to-earth people, so I’m not often drawn to women in the Black tier. However, if I become a Black member and ask, “I’m considering making an offer to this woman—what is she like?” would I be given more detailed feedback?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
As a Platinum member, you can consult the club staff, but if you just vaguely ask, “What kind of woman is she?” the staff probably won’t be able to tell you much beyond what’s in her profile and perhaps a few comments from the interview—unless they were the ones who interviewed her.
If you’re fine with a woman who could be found anywhere, wouldn’t you make offers to women who don’t seem to be getting any offers, one after another? They’d probably be thrilled and treat you li…
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📅 Oct 6, 2025 09:40
I’m 19 and I have a 32-year-old papa (a male supporter). So far, we’ve only met for an adult relationship (intimate), but he recently suggested going out for dinner or taking a little trip together. He’s a really nice person, so I’d definitely like to go. I’m curious what he means by wanting to take a little trip with me. From his perspective, I must seem really young…
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I guess it’s because I get bored and want some new excitement.
With Fuu, things usually end when we stay overnight or go on a trip together, lol.
When you’re together for too long, you both start seeing each other’s true colors, lol. It’s complicated.
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📅 Oct 5, 2025 15:56
I’m in my mid-40s and thinking about trying papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I work in the beauty industry, so I believe I’m more polished and communicative than most people my age. I also enjoy intimacy. But younger women are obviously in high demand and have the upper hand in this market. Would it be difficult for someone my age?
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
There are female members in their 50s as well as their 40s, so there’s clearly some demand for them.
That said, quite a few male members may wonder, “When you’re 40, is taking off your underwear really the only option?” I’m one of them.
So don’t you think the motivation for joining is important?
If you’re looking for more than just an allowance and also want your intimate needs met, though, that’s more than welcome, haha.
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📅 Oct 5, 2025 05:58
I’m a 55-year-old man. I’ve been active with a dating club since I was 43, so this is my 12th year. I’m currently a Platinum member. My wife is 52, and we’ve been married for 26 years. I also have a 51-year-old girlfriend whom I’ve been seeing since our second year of marriage. Aside from my sex drive, I’m fully satisfied with my private life. To put it simply, though, when it comes to physical intimacy, I still prefer younger women. So...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
I’m in the Black class, but I’ve never used the concierge service.
I’ve only met my account manager once. It wasn’t to get any advice or anything—we’re on friendly terms, so it was more like catching up over tea after a long time.
I think staying in the Platinum class would be fine, but don’t you simply need to make more offers? When it comes to finding a wonderful woman, you just have to keep trying.
I’ll probably end up making around 200 offers in total, and among them, …
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📅 Oct 4, 2025 12:49
My husband has been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) here, and so many things have fallen apart because of it. The papas (male supporters), the women doing papa-katsu, and the people who work here are all out of their minds. It’s a whole group of crazies. You’re all aware of what you’re doing, aren’t you?
💬 Answer from アンディ:
From the questioner’s perspective, you’re absolutely right—I’m aware that I’m crazy.
I don’t know whether I consider myself a papa-katsu girl.
The staff at Universe Club have nothing to do with this, do they?
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📅 Oct 3, 2025 05:34
Could you tell me the going rates for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and how old you all were when you started?!
💬 Answer from ダイ:
I started my club activities at 43, and I’m now in my seventh year.
I varied the allowance quite a bit during my first year, but since the second year, I’ve basically kept it fixed at 5.
I’m willing to go above 5 for a first date if it’s a long-distance date, but considering my arrangements with other women, it has never progressed to a second meeting.
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📅 Oct 3, 2025 00:45
Maybe it’s because I’m getting older and my sex drive has declined, but I’ve started to feel that an adult relationship (intimate) would be a burden. I’m considering making an offer to an A-type woman, but what is the usual allowance for the second meeting onward? I’m thinking of it as roughly ¥5,000 per hour—for example, ¥10,000 for a two-hour dinner, or ¥30,000 for spending about six hours together on a weekend. Is that roughly in lin...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
I think it’s best to let go of the idea that Type A women are cheap to date simply because they don’t have an adult relationship.
Thinking that ¥5,000 an hour is a lot for enjoying a nice meal is a male perspective.
For example, the average hourly wage for hostesses at Ginza clubs seems to be around ¥6,000.
Women also go to the hair salon, dress up, and spend both time and transportation costs getting to the date.
Taking that into account, ¥10,000 for a two-hour meal work…
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📅 Oct 3, 2025 00:39
I’m meeting a woman for the first time. She’s a 23-year-old college student in Type C. If we don’t click and it ends up being dinner only (no intimacy), what would be a reasonable allowance? We’ll be having French cuisine at a hotel, and it’ll cost about ¥20,000 per person including drinks. Of course, I assume it depends on her level, but I’m in my 50s.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
At Universe Club, the first date is generally a meal together.
The rule is to give the woman at least ¥10,000 at that time—not ¥5,000 to ¥10,000, but ¥10,000 or more.
If you give her ¥10,000 during the meal but the two of you don’t click and part ways after dinner only, then that ¥10,000 is all she receives. There’s no rule requiring you to give her anything extra.
So regardless of her level, you simply give her the ¥10,000 specified by the rules.
If you meet through a da…
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📅 Oct 1, 2025 01:17
I’m 19 and recently started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I met a 30-year-old papa (a male supporter) for the first time, and he seemed to like me. He said, “I want to see you every week.” I like him too and would like to keep this going for a long time. What are the secrets to making papa-katsu last, and what kinds of things do papas like to hear?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Paradoxically, since it’s ultimately a transactional relationship involving money, I think it’s better to prepare yourself for the possibility that it may not last.
Of course, you may genuinely come to like each other as people, so while you’re together, try to be mindful of doing things that make your partner happy and don’t make them uncomfortable.
From a papa’s perspective, being open to an adult relationship, being devoted, and having an appealing sexiness that really c…
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📅 Sep 30, 2025 20:38
I’m a woman in my late 30s. I’m interested in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I’m in the 150-cm range and weigh 75 kg, so I’m pretty overweight. I’m only an E cup, too—there’s no way I could even register, right?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Without a cute face and a sexy vibe, I think it’ll be extremely difficult.
You’ll need to be prepared for the possibility of failing the interview—or passing but not receiving any offers. If you still want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), why not come in for an interview?
Women have it tough in this age of lookism.
I’m glad I was born a man. If you have money, you can be with beautiful women, lol.
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📅 Sep 28, 2025 19:32
I’m going to meet a woman who’s open to a Type C arrangement. She lives fairly far away—about 40 minutes by bullet train—and when I offered to have her come to my area, she said she’d be okay with meeting in her hometown instead. So I’m planning to go there. Since it’ll be in the evening due to her work schedule, and I’m unfamiliar with the area, how should I plan the schedule—where to eat, the hotel, the time of the last train home, an...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you ask ChatGPT or Gemini, they can probably look it up for you.
Just make sure your prompt (instructions) is clear, then keep bouncing ideas off them and asking follow-up questions.
They can put together pretty good travel plans in chronological order.
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📅 Sep 28, 2025 13:36
I’m a man in my 30s doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I have a question. There’s one woman I’ve been seeing on a monthly arrangement from June through September this year, but we’ve broken things off and gotten back together several times. The reason is that I’m possessive toward her. For example, I ask her to send me a photo of the clock as soon as she gets home after we part ways, or to delete her papa-katsu account. She...
💬 Answer from だて◎ゆめ:
Well, as long as you’re both having fun, isn’t that what matters?
I’ve been seeing my companion for a long time, but I’ve never placed any such “restrictions” on her. I haven’t actually checked, but it seems she goes straight home on her own after we part ways.
She says meeting an old guy like me is fun, but tiring（笑）
Since we meet every other week, it feels like she enjoys being tired, and she seems happy to come see me（笑）
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📅 Sep 26, 2025 22:39
With the rising cost of living, have you increased your transportation allowance or regular allowance?
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
I haven’t changed it. Even if prices fluctuate downward, I wouldn’t negotiate for a lower allowance.
Ultimately, the amount is whatever both the man and woman can agree on, so I think it’s determined by the balance between them in practice.
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📅 Sep 25, 2025 12:35
I’m registered here while pursuing a career in entertainment. Recently, as my activities have started gaining momentum, I’ve been seeing cases where influencers registered with dating clubs are exposed and identified. I’m wondering whether I should ask about registering privately or under a non-public profile. If I do, under what circumstances would my profile be shown to male members? Also, since I live outside a major city, I imagine ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Since you live outside a major city, registering with THE SALON may be difficult.
People involved in the entertainment industry in regional cities are often at a level where they don’t appear on TV. For those who work in entertainment but aren’t on television, I think it’s fairly common to register with their face blurred. If their face isn’t visible, they’re unlikely to be recognized from the women’s listings.
For celebrities who do appear on TV, they’re usually based in…