Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Oct 18, 2025 23:15
Does the number of offers differ significantly between B2 and C types? I’m a B2 female member, and I’m not getting many offers. I’m hesitant to keep changing my type because I’m worried the club might get upset with me.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
The club won’t get angry.
Fuu is just jumping to conclusions on her own.
Since I wasn’t getting any offers, I changed my dating type. I was originally a B-type dinner-only girl, but I’m worried I might get strung along without ever being able to have sex.
So I only make offers to C- or D-types in the first place.
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📅 Oct 17, 2025 19:38
I recently joined this club. During my interview, the representative strongly advised me, saying things like, “If you choose Dating Type A, you’ll probably receive far fewer offers. You should be prepared to go more than a month without receiving any. At the very least, you should choose Type B, and Type C gets the most offers.” However, I’m still uncomfortable with an adult relationship (intimate), so I chose Type A. Because they were ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> I was told this rather forcefully.
Really?
When staff talk that way, men later complain that the staff were steering women toward a particular dating type. So the club’s internal rule is that staff must not comment on the dating type a woman has declared herself.
So if she says, “I’m choosing A,” the response should simply be, “A. Understood.”
Of course, before asking her type, they may mention as a general rule that there are fewer offers for A. But I doubt they would …
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📅 Oct 17, 2025 13:10
I’ll be partially relocating to Okinawa soon, staying for about a week once or twice a month. Are there any women registered who would be available to go on dates in Okinawa? Since you don’t seem to have a branch there, I thought I’d ask here.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
There are fewer female members in areas without a local branch.
So, if you’re planning to use the club mainly where you’ll spend the other half of your time while semi-relocating—Adachi, for example—it may be worth joining. But if your goal is specifically to meet women in Okinawa, it’s hard to say whether membership would offer enough benefits.
That said, if you happen to find someone you like among the smaller pool of registered women, then it may not be a problem.
What …
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📅 Oct 17, 2025 12:33
He always drives me around, treats me to meals, and does so much for me, so I’d like to show my appreciation somehow. He picks me up by car—would it be a nice gesture to give him a convenience-store coffee when he comes? What would make you happy?
💬 Answer from 負け男:
> What do you think about giving her a convenience-store coffee at the time?
I’d be happy about it, personally, even though the other respondents don’t seem to like the idea.
It’s the thought that counts.
I’d hide the coffee I already had and say, “Thanks♪” to show my appreciation.
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📅 Oct 17, 2025 08:15
I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I’d like to ask those with more experience for advice. I’ve been seeing a female college student for two months. We started with dinner, things progressed to an adult relationship (intimate), and we now meet three or four times a month. She’s also new to papa-katsu. We had dinner about five times before becoming intimate, and we’ve met two or three times recently in an adult relati...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s only papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), with money involved.
People often suddenly stop responding for no apparent reason. Just let it go.
I understand how you feel.
This is what happens when you put all your focus on one person, so I recommend always having multiple monthly arrangements.
Even if one of them suddenly stops responding, seeing multiple people means that if Person A disappears, having Persons B and C softens the blow considerably.
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📅 Oct 16, 2025 21:17
Why are dating clubs like Universe so much less well-known than the adult entertainment industry? I get the impression that even people who work in the industry—or are considering working in it—don’t really know much about them.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
When comparing how well-known the terms “dating clubs” and “adult entertainment” are, I think “adult entertainment” is definitely more widely recognized.
However, “adult entertainment” isn’t a single type of business. I think it’s a general term covering various types of establishments and services.
Even with just a quick search, you’ll find:
- Soaplands
- Delivery health services
- Hotel health services
- Fashion health services (store-based health services)
- Onakura (ma…
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📅 Oct 16, 2025 18:45
Question about dates involving long-distance travel. The Universe site says that the woman initially pays for the round-trip tickets upfront, then receives reimbursement for the full fare from the man after arriving. For those who have experienced long-distance dates, have any of you ever had trouble not receiving the transportation costs afterward? Also, if something like that happens, would the agency be able to contact the man and re...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> I’m still a university student and don’t have the financial means to casually purchase a round-trip ticket.
In that case, please consult the staff. We generally don’t arrange this, but if they ask the man and he agrees, he may sometimes purchase the ticket for you.
However, in most cases, the man will cancel the offer, and the staff will generally steer things away from that option because coordinating it is too much trouble.
That said, I’ve personally had a man pay for …
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📅 Oct 16, 2025 03:32
I’m the nearly 28-year-old woman who described herself as a loser in a question a few posts back. Thank you for all the tough feedback on my previous question. It really hit home. I’ve actually been working in the sex industry for about nine years (mostly at mainstream establishments). I’m currently looking for a day job through the disability employment program, but I still don’t have much confidence in myself, so I’ve decided to give ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I think it sounds good overall.
The part about sexually transmitted infections is a little unclear, though.
Still, isn’t this probably the best-case scenario for you?
That said, men are genetically wired to get tired of the same woman after about two years, and this man visits sex workers, so I think it would be in your best interest not to get your hopes up too much and to stay prepared to support yourself at any time.
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📅 Oct 16, 2025 02:24
I was just recently approved, and I’m completely new to this, so I’m sorry for the basic question. Thankfully, on the very day I joined, around 30 people added me to their favorites, and I received offers from several others. However, the names of the people who sent me offers didn’t appear in my list of favorites. Does that mean they sent me offers directly without adding me to their favorites? I can view the profiles of people who add...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Since men are the ones who pay and make the offers, the system is tilted in their favor.
Men can choose whether to make their profiles public. Unless they enable that setting, women can’t view their profiles.
Fuu felt that was unfair to women, so I set mine to “only show my profile to people I’ve made an offer to.”
You may be able to ask the club staff what kind of person the papa who made the offer is, and they might tell you whatever they’re allowed to share.
That said,…
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📅 Oct 16, 2025 01:26
I’ve been registered with the club for three years now and have met around 25 women, but only one relationship has continued long-term. With most of the others, things ended after a single dinner, and honestly, the reason they didn’t lead to a second meeting was simply that I wasn’t feeling it. When choosing women to make an offer to, I pay close attention to their initial profile photo, as well as the “warmth” and overall feel of their...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Well, the answer is ultimately within you.
People who stay around for over a year are rare, but arrangements can continue for several months.
After meeting a few times, things might change. You may start thinking, “Maybe we should try it this way next time,” or “Maybe we should try this position.”
When browsing profiles, I usually look for women with fairly high ratings who seem popular when they’ve just joined, then wait a while to see which ones are still active members.…
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📅 Oct 15, 2025 22:13
Can I see a man’s photo when I receive an offer? I’m worried about what I’d do if he turned out to be someone I know.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
During the interview, tell them that you’d like to be hidden from any men you know personally. If you provide his real name and other details, they can’t tell you whether he’s registered, but they can hide your profile from him individually.
That man won’t be able to view your profile, including your photos.
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📅 Oct 15, 2025 06:29
I joined Universe Club this June mainly to earn money for tuition, but I recently left. I reached my target amount the other day, so I’ve decided to stop going on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) dates from now on. I also have a separate phone for papa-katsu and use LINE on it, so I’ll be canceling that phone as well. Before I cancel it, I’d like to let the men I’ve met and might otherwise see again know what’s going on. How sho...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Even though you went to the trouble of using a dedicated phone for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think it’s better not to contact your papas (male supporters) when you quit.
If you haven’t shared personal information like your home address or employer’s name, you can probably just avoid making any further plans and block them…
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📅 Oct 14, 2025 14:44
I live in Fukuoka and have no experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’ve been with almost all the top-ranked women at upscale establishments in Nakasu, but it hasn’t given me any real emotional satisfaction, so I’m considering joining Universe. ① Is there any benefit to joining at the Black level in Fukuoka? ② Female members can tell what rank the male members are, right? If I’m a Black member rather than Platinum, w...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Whether it’s an advantage or not depends on how you look at it.
I think women generally expect someone with a black card to have more money.
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📅 Oct 14, 2025 14:04
There are times when I have to tell my regular papa that I’ve contracted an STI. If he asks where it came from, which of these three explanations would leave the best impression? ① From another regular papa ② From a papa I met just once through an app or something similar ③ I have a boyfriend who sleeps around It’s a long-term relationship that leans more toward romance, by the way. Women in regular arrangements: which explanation would...
💬 Answer from アンディ:
What’s the actual source of the infection when it happens occasionally? I assume the answers are 1 through 3, but if I had to choose, I’d say 3.
I see—so either way, you’re definitely going to fade out, huh? Unfortunately, it’s not about how you answer.
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📅 Oct 14, 2025 09:49
I only joined a few days ago and don’t know much about how everything works yet. Even after looking into it several times, I still can’t quite figure it out, so I wanted to ask here. Starting on my first day as a member, I received a message through PATOLO from a man who had favorited me through the club. We decided on a date to meet through the messages, but since it was my first date, I asked when the date would be officially confirme...
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
Just one point from my side.
With Universe Club, the transportation allowance for the first meeting is generally fixed at 10,000 yen, both for regular arrangements and letter dates.
With PATOLO, the woman can choose any amount from 0 to 20,000 yen, so if the transportation allowance was set to anything other than 10,000 yen, that amount may differ.
The allowance itself shouldn’t be any different, but according to women I’ve met, their local statistics suggest that offers f…
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📅 Oct 14, 2025 01:26
I was asked whether I have any experience working in the nightlife industry, and I answered honestly. Will that information be shown to male members? I’d prefer to keep it private—would it be okay to ask the staff not to display it?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
What counts as “night work”?
I’m not into soaplands or health clubs.
If you used to work in them, that’s fine.
Cabaret clubs and girls’ bars are fine too.
Even if you try to hide it,
I can usually tell somehow.
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📅 Oct 13, 2025 07:47
If a woman is listed as being affiliated with Universe on Pato, but doesn’t appear when you search Universe, can you only go on dates with her through Pato?
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
If they’re only listed on PATOLO, I think your only option is to send them an offer through there.
It seems like, in many cases, people who have left or paused their club membership simply forget about PATOLO.
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📅 Oct 12, 2025 20:55
What do you think when a woman in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) sends you a follow-up message?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
After seeing someone once, I’ve often had women follow up with me even when I didn’t contact them first.
Just like in a normal relationship, I reply to women I see potential with. If I don’t want to meet someone again, I simply don’t respond or I block them.
Of course, if you don’t make a move, there’s no chance of anything happening. So I think it’s fine to send a follow-up message, even if you’re worried you might get blocked.
I’ve also had plenty of situations where com…
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📅 Oct 12, 2025 16:03
About Universe Club I’m a 28-year-old woman interested in Universe Club. I’m fair-skinned, tall, slim-chested, and average-looking. I’m currently undergoing orthodontic treatment and working hard on strength training. I have a developmental disability, and people have told me that my behavior is unusual. I stopped attending school in middle school and don’t have much of an education—in other words, I’m what you might call a vulnerable w...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Honestly, I think it’ll be difficult.
You’re probably better off giving up and exploring other options.
If it were Fuu, I wouldn’t want to spend money making an offer or give her an allowance.
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📅 Oct 10, 2025 12:29
I was looking at the going rates for allowances and was shocked at how low they are. I thought they’d be around a million yen. Are there no wealthy men in this club?
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
No, there are not only wealthy people here—there are even ultra-high-net-worth individuals.
If I may be so bold, I’m one of them. You can easily find the definition of “ultra-high-net-worth individual” with a quick search.
Being ultra-wealthy and being stingy are not mutually exclusive at all.
Recently, a topless girl requested a certain sushi restaurant. The bill came to over ¥110,000 for the two of us. I practically writhed around Yotsuya over it. And after reading your …