Hello,

Getting 10 offers at B1 is actually quite a lot. If you were only receiving a few offers, the club might consider changing your class, but in your case, that may be difficult. When you have your photos retaken, it might be worth asking why the offers have stopped coming. The club staff want to help you receive offers too, so they may be willing to temporarily lower your class. That said, it’s definitely true that you receive the most offers when you’re a new member, so be sure to value any offers from new supporters.

How many offers are you hoping to get? Are you saying that none of the 10 men you met seemed like a papa you could continue seeing? If you’re on the blacklist, I’d assume the papas there have money, but… I think that’s already pretty good for a club, though… If you don’t establish the terms to some extent at the beginning, your profile will gradually drop in the search rankings, and you’ll receive fewer offers.

As you probably know, you’re better off avoiding any papa (a male supporter) who tells women their “class.” If a grown man can’t even follow one simple rule, there’s very little chance he’ll keep his promises about the allowance or anything else going forward. Offers do tend to decrease, so you might consider changing your dating type, or taking the initiative and reaching out through sites like Suteki desu ne or Patro. Hope this helps.

At least getting offers is a good thing. This is a dating club, so you should date the men who make you offers. It must get boring receiving lots of offers and just going on one or two dates with each of them! The male members are all pretty similar—mostly older guys—so just try not to get rejected. Dating can be fun, too. The women I see have been with me for quite a while, and they even insist that “dating through a club isn’t so bad!” Well, if you can overlook your papa’s looks, you do get an allowance, after all（笑).

You can: ・Upload “private photos” ・Update your “schedule calendar” After being registered for a few months, some women meet a generous papa (a well-paying supporter) and lose interest in seeking new arrangements. So when a woman keeps her “schedule calendar” updated, it shows she’s still open to offers, and I’ll consider her as a potential match.

If you’re also registered with PATOLO, you could try approaching him there as well. PATOLO doesn’t have class tiers, so anyone registered should be able to make an offer, I believe. With PATOLO messages, men can reply too.

It’s a pattern that most women experience: receiving lots of offers at first, followed by a significant drop-off. Whether you continue receiving a few offers consistently each month, or whether it drops to one offer every few months—or stops altogether—depends on the individual woman and her profile, including her photos. > Is there anything else I can do to improve things, even slightly, besides changing that? I think the only thing you can really do is try sending “You seem lovely.” Changing your dating type to B2 would probably bring you a few more offers, but I don’t think now is the right time. Perhaps when you have new photos taken, or around a year from now. Also, since you said you don’t want to change it to anything else, I assume B1 is the only option you’re comfortable with. There’s no need to force yourself to change it. > If the woman is Black, can she only receive offers from Black men? Only Black men can make offers to Black women. Black men make up only about 30% of all men. If you were Platinum, both Platinum and Black men could make offers to you, meaning approximately 80% of men would be eligible to do so. With that in mind, Platinum seems to offer the best balance between the number of offers and the chances of meeting high-income men. Unfortunately, though, the club decides which class to assign, and it doesn’t seem to be based on the woman’s preference. If you’re Black now, perhaps you might have been rated Platinum if you had gone to the interview with slightly less makeup or a less flattering hairstyle. However, I don’t think anyone knows exactly what level they’re at before the interview, so showing up that way could also have resulted in you failing the interview altogether. By the way, I hear that clubs stopped telling women their class because it became difficult when women started saying things like: “I want to be Black.” “I want to be Platinum.” “Why was I assigned this class?” There are also many women who want to be Black, so it might be worth appreciating the benefit of receiving offers only from Black men. Generally speaking, the allowance tends to vary depending on the woman’s class, so being Black—which comes with the highest allowance—has advantages beyond simply receiving more offers. If you can continue seeing all ten men who have made offers to you so far, that could be a major benefit. So rather than focusing on getting more offers, I hope you’ll value the men you’ve already met.