Tips Nov 25, 2025 00:14

I used to be a C type and received quite a few offers.

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Even though I was a C type, many men had already booked a hotel for the first meeting, and I couldn’t bring myself to refuse, so most of them ended up becoming adult relationships from the very first meeting. Since I thought it might be smoother to just be a D type from the start, I switched to D. However, after seeing people in this Q&A forum say they wouldn’t make offers to D types, I’m wondering whether I should switch back to C. Does being a D type give a bad impression and reduce the number of offers? To be honest, judging from the allowances I received when I was a C type, I’m fairly confident in my looks. I also have a clean-cut, refined appearance—not the flashy, hostess-type look. I’d appreciate hearing about both female members’ experiences and male members’ impressions.
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
As for the person who asked the question, I think she should switch back to Type C as soon as possible. Looking at the other answers, there seem to be a lot of misunderstandings about Type D. Incidentally, I’ve made offers to two Type D women, and both of them happened to be very open and upbeat about having had cosmetic surgery. They were both highly educated and said they didn’t know anyone else involved in papa-katsu, so they chose Type D without really understanding what it meant. One of them said she lost her virginity to a man from the club. Their allowances were pretty standard, too. It’s rare, but I feel that some genuinely good women are hiding among them. Actually, I think Type C women are more likely to already know someone with papa-katsu experience and have been given all sorts of strange information.
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アンディ
顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve excluded Type D from my searches for the same reasons everyone else has mentioned. That said, if you’re not seeing a decrease in offers—or if the number is actually increasing—I don’t think there’s any need to bring it back. As long as Type D exists, there’s clearly a certain level of demand for it. Perhaps you could make your decision based on that. Hope this helps.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Personally, I think C gives a better impression. If switching to D doesn’t reduce the number of offers, then D should be fine. But if the offers start to decrease, you can always switch back to C.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
> Most of them were adult relationships (intimate) from the very first meeting. With Dating Type C, you have to choose whether to accept or decline after the meal on the first day, so seeing “from the very first meeting” made me go, “Huh?” If you’re actually thinking about starting from the second meeting onward, then I feel you should choose B2 or B1 rather than C in the first place. > Will choosing Type D give a bad impression and lead to fewer offers? A lot of men dislike Type D because it makes the woman seem like a sex worker. Even with Type C, women may think, “If he keeps making aggressive advances, wasn’t that his goal all along?” But in dating clubs, many men don’t want to meet professional women. Even if she isn’t a professional, they may still dislike a Type D woman because she seems willing to be intimate with anyone. In other words, they like: “I don’t get intimate with other men, but I will with you.” Which is obviously contradictory. Still, please kindly accept it as part of men’s romantic fantasies. > I’m wondering whether I should switch back to C. Since your history of dating-type changes is displayed, men tend to avoid women who change their type frequently. If you’ve been reading this site, I wish you’d read that part too—but even so, I think switching back to C would be best. Then, in the comment section you can write something like: “I want to work on not being able to turn down a wonderful person when they ask me.” That might help offset the impression and get you some offers.
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システムエンジニアの会員
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I’ve never made an offer to anyone with Dating Type A or D. It’s unlikely that I’d make an offer to either, but if I had to choose between A and D, I’d probably go with A. In my experience, most of the relationships that lasted a long time developed from Dating Type B, so B is my top priority.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
In my case, I’m not inclined to make an offer to a woman who changes her dating type frequently. I don’t mind if she changes from C to D, but if she switches back to C again, I’ll remove her from consideration for an offer. Please keep in mind that some people view it this way as well.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I haven’t made an offer to a Type D woman either. I probably won’t even consider doing so in the future. I’m more likely to make offers to Type A women. With Type C, I get the impression that the man is expected to take the initiative and invite her out. Unless either side makes a particularly bad impression, things will probably progress to an adult relationship (intimate). Type D, on the other hand, gives me the impression that things move along much more quickly.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
C-type definitely leaves a much better impression—by 10,000%. You’ll also get fewer offers if you choose D. For the record, I’ve never made an offer to a D-type, and I don’t make many offers to C-types either.
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