While I was out on a date with my papa (a male supporter), he said, “If I meet someone prettier than you, I might switch to her.” (“You” is my name.)
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I don’t know whether he was joking because he’d been drinking, or whether he’s always felt that way and the alcohol simply lowered his inhibitions enough for his true feelings to come out…
He’s a man who cares a lot about his appearance, so I do feel that I may be making him think I’m not quite enough for him.
When a man says something like this, what does he want the woman to say in response?
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I think Aya, one of the female members, would answer like this:
“He isn’t thinking anything of it. It doesn’t mean anything deeper.”
I wish Aya would come back.
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The answer might depend on what kind of relationship you have.
If you want things to continue long-term, you could react as if you’re upset:
“No, I’d get jealous. I’ll work harder for you, Papa.”
Even if it’s not true.
If you both know you’re seeing multiple people and can take a joke, you could say:
“Got it! If I get an offer from a handsome older guy, I’ll switch to him too.”
Well, you don’t often get women saying such needy things, right?
Sounds like a troublesome papa who wants to hear, “No, don’t leave me.”
Fuu is always looking for the best sex too, but I don’t say it out loud. I just quietly keep searching, haha.
Lately, my monthly arrangements have been changing, and there are too many great women again, so putting together my schedule has become a real challenge.
There have been more women lately with high-quality sex, and the women I’ve been seeing before were great too. I don’t know what to do, haha.
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They probably just want you to say something like, “Don’t gooo.” But personally, I find it more attractive when someone stays composed and says, “Do whatever you want.”
Besides, if someone has decided to go elsewhere, they’ll go no matter what you say. So I don’t think there’s any one perfect answer.
Hope that helps.
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It’s hard to say without knowing what kind of person he is, but based on his comment—
“If I meet someone prettier than you, I might switch to her”—
it seems that the main reason he’s seeing you is because he finds you beautiful. That may also mean that, for now, you’re the prettiest person he’s found.
I’m not sure what you want him to say, but looking at it that way, I think it’s important to let him get to know the parts of you beyond your looks.
Even if he does meet someone prettier, if his values have changed by then and he places more importance on qualities other than appearance, he may go on a date with her and think, “She’s beautiful, but something feels missing.”
I recommend thinking now about how you can make him feel that way.
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If he’s seriously thinking about switching to someone else, he’ll simply start looking for the next person and move on, giving some convenient excuse.
He probably has something he wants you to improve. If you don’t know what that is, why not just ask honestly:
“What could I improve to make our relationship more enjoyable?”
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The first thing that came to mind was, “Aren’t I good enough for you?” (lol)
Well, they say you get tired of a beautiful face after three days, so looks alone won’t be enough to keep a papa (a male supporter) around. (lol)
As for what you should say, I think something like, “Why don’t you go and see what it’s like?” would be best.
You can’t judge someone based on looks alone, so I’m not sure whether she’ll really go unless they talk a little first.
Relationships between men and women are really about both sides thinking, “Well, I suppose you’ll do.” (lol)
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