Tips Aug 14, 2025 15:22

Are papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and paid socializing the same thing?

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A girl I happened to meet told me that with paid socializing, you can receive tens of thousands of yen. She also said that the initial introduction is strictly by referral only. Apparently, it’s limited to wealthy people and attractive girls. Have you ever heard of paid socializing that operates by referral only?
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カズ
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No, there’s definitely such a thing as invite-only, word-of-mouth paid drinking companions. They existed long before websites and apps. Back in the day, I used to invite female college students to dinner gatherings through personal connections, and I think that would count as invite-only paid drinking companions. I’d give them 10,000 yen for taxi fare at the end of the evening.
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だて◎ゆめ
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The woman I’m dating once applied for a paid drinking event, and I’ve heard quite a bit about them, but I’ve never heard of invitation-only paid drinking events. It sounds suspicious to me, haha.
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That sounds suspicious. They could be taking you to a members-only bar, then to some kind of group-sex venue, where you’d be used over and over. If you’re being paid tens of thousands of yen, that’s not even a paid drinking gig—it sounds more like an even more extreme version of the kind of arrangement brokered by someone like GaaSyy. Realistically, if someone’s offering that much money, you generally have to provide your body. That’s just how it is. To put it simply: With paid drinking gigs, there are dedicated sites where you register, get invited by men, and just drink with them. You can earn a few thousand yen an hour. If you go bar-hopping, you might make over ¥10,000, though... With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you register your profile with a dating club like this one or on a papa-katsu site, receive offers, and get an allowance for having dinner or an adult relationship (intimate). You can make tens of thousands of yen if it includes an adult relationship. For more details, try searching online or asking an AI. Ah, today’s papa-katsu girl was great too. My monthly arrangements keep getting replaced one after another. Women lately are way too tight—and the rest is pretty erotic too. I wonder if they’re having tons of sex through dating apps or something. She was good at oral too, lol.
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