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Jul 29, 2025 00:04
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I’m considering asking out a Type C woman whose dates are “daytime only.” I understand that, depending on the chemistry, she might be open to going to a hotel even on a first meeting, but I can’t seem to find a suitable day-use hotel, so I end up hesitating to ask her out in the first place.
There wouldn’t be any financial issue with a regular overnight stay, but check-in is usually from 3 p.m., and early check-in through hotel membership benefits depends on availability, so I don’t feel I can rely on it. Booking two nights would probably be the best solution, but I’m not motivated enough to go that far… I’d also feel a little awkward going straight to a business hotel like APA.
I feel bad asking someone out when I can only meet during the day, but I’d appreciate hearing how others handle this when dating someone who is only available in the daytime.
For reference, I live in Tokyo. Thank you in advance.
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Age: 50s
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I usually use regular love hotels for daytime dates.
Hotels in the Bali An resort group are convenient because you can make reservations even for a short stay, and they’re reasonably clean.
Day-use hotels can really vary in quality.
Once, I booked a day-use room at a hotel I wasn’t familiar with, and regretted it—the place was so bad that even an APA Hotel would have seemed better.
If I were going for a luxury hotel during the day, I’d book an overnight stay at a JR-affiliated or Mitsui-affiliated hotel instead.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
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If you search for “hotel day use,” you’ll find plenty of options.
And most of them seem to allow check-in from noon, such as the Keio Plaza Hotel and Oakwood Premier Tokyo...
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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That’s what love hotels are for.
And you can use web searches to find one.
※ Please take the initiative to find and choose a clean love hotel. You can check reviews to see whether it’s clean and well-regarded.
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You can find plenty of day-use hotels even in my area outside the major cities. In Tokyo, I feel like there must be countless options.
I find them through Google searches.
I also basically only meet during the day, but with C, there’s always a chance it’ll end up being dinner only that day, so I don’t make reservations—I just use a love hotel.
Age: Private
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I’m looking for it through an online search.
I used it a few years ago, so I wondered if it might no longer be around. But I just checked, and I can still find it.