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📅 Sep 2, 2025 12:10
I registered with Universe Club when I was around 20. I think I was probably in the Gold class. But I wasn’t earning much, so I switched to adult-entertainment work for a while and spent about ¥15 million on facial plastic surgery. I plan to continue working in that field, but now that I’ve become much more attractive, I’m thinking of registering here again as well. So my question is: although my looks have improved considerably, would ...
💬 Answer from カズ:
If you’ve had that much extensive cosmetic work done, there’s a good chance it’ll be noticed, so depending on what the staff member conducting your interview thinks and how you answer their questions, you’d probably be rated Gold—or Platinum if everything goes well.
Your class is determined by your overall appeal and rarity as a female member of the dating club: being naturally beautiful without cosmetic surgery, having a good personality, or having an occupation or backgrou…
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📅 Sep 1, 2025 18:21
Thank you as always for your insightful answers. I’m planning to have a 4P soon: one man and one woman, plus two women (one Black and one Platinum). Are there any fun and exciting activities that are easy to get into? I’ve experienced 3P (one man and two women) many times, but I’m hoping 4P will let me immerse myself in an adult relationship even more than 3P.
💬 Answer from 負け男:
A threesome with one man and two women is incredibly boring.
I feel like it only works when the guy is a hardcore masochist.
I’ve tried imagining what a foursome would be like, but I can’t see it being fun.
Shigurui is insanely entertaining, though.
I feel like rereading it for the first time in ages.
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📅 Sep 1, 2025 05:21
I’ve asked questions here twice before, and your advice was very helpful—thank you. This may be a difficult question to answer, but how often do you all meet with your partners? **Scenario 1:** Those who see only one person **Scenario 2:** Those who see multiple people Right now, I see one person once a week. I tend to fall for people easily, so I quickly find myself thinking about that person constantly. Following the advice I received...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I see multiple women about once a month each.
I meet three or four women once a month, and then see someone different every week.
If you’re meeting just one person every week, don’t you get bored after about six months of seeing the same woman?
Since there are so many female members, I think it’s more fun not to limit yourself to just one. Otherwise, it feels like a waste.
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📅 Aug 31, 2025 15:51
I’m divorced and have a child. I currently have a one-year-old daughter—can I still register? I’d like to receive support from around three men at ¥500,000 per month each. I worked in the adult entertainment industry for several years starting at 20, so I’d say I’m fairly skilled, and I have no problem with older men at all.
💬 Answer from アンディ:
I honestly think you should lower your expectations. With a one-year-old, you’re probably quite limited in terms of where and when you can meet.
And even setting aside whether someone would be okay with you bringing your child, finding a papa (a male supporter) who’s willing to make the effort to meet you will be challenging—more so than any particular technique.
Try taking action and see whether you can register. If it doesn’t work out, look into other options.
I haven’t …
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📅 Aug 29, 2025 13:32
Sometimes the woman’s video doesn’t show up, although I can hear the audio. Which app should I install to fix this?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
The A-type sounds like fun.
I’m past my sexual prime, so I’m quite content without anything more intimate.
I’m looking forward to the home-cooked meal from my cute, busty housekeeper tomorrow.
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📅 Aug 27, 2025 23:25
I’m 48—would there be any demand for me? Men can still find partners even in their 70s. I’m on the curvier side, so I’m wondering if I might be popular with foreigners.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
This may not be the best place to look.
If you’re looking for foreigners who are into curvier women, wouldn’t the U.S. be a better option?
In Dubai, it’s usually conventionally attractive Japanese women, and even in China, slim AV actresses are popular.
You might have better luck finding a papa at a snack bar that caters to men who like plus-sized women.
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📅 Aug 26, 2025 23:37
What kind of women are registered with THE SALON—looks, professions, and so on? Would they be considered Black Class, so to speak, at Universe Club? I’ve read that it’s quite difficult to pass the interview. Is that really true?
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Apparently, women who would be rated Platinum at Universe Club don’t make the cut at THE SALON. You need to be Black or higher at minimum.
As a self-proclaimed Universe Club loyal customer, I occasionally get invited to parties at THE SALON, so maybe I’ll give one a try sometime.
I’m not good with parties, though, so I always turn them down politely.
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📅 Aug 26, 2025 22:12
My monthly-arrangement papa keeps persistently asking me to go on a trip with him. I’m a single mother with an eight-year-old child. He keeps saying things like, “Maybe we can go next year,” but I don’t feel comfortable leaving my child behind to go. I also can’t spend two nights together with him. I’m starting to dislike him. I keep turning him down by saying I have my child to think about, but he acts like, “Surely you’ll be able to g...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
Basically, you have no choice but to firmly say no.
That said, in my opinion, the questioner also bears some responsibility here. It’s hard for an older man (or grandfather) to imagine how difficult life can be for a single mother with an eight-year-old child. Of course, I’m one of those men myself.
Just imagine what might happen if you said to such an unimaginative papa, “It’d be nice if we could go next year.”
It doesn’t sound like your child is the only reason you don’t…
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📅 Aug 26, 2025 18:36
I’m considering joining The Salon. I’m currently a Black member and have been for about two years. The women I’m seeing are: - Two Premium Black members - Two Black members (with one, I occasionally have threesomes; the other is brought along by a PJ) - One Platinum member I offer everyone an allowance of 80,000 yen on a pay-per-meeting basis. Would it be possible to maintain the same 80,000-yen pay-per-meeting arrangement at The Salon?
💬 Answer from 負け男:
The most recent Black-tier woman I met through Universe Club wanted ¥150,000 per meeting. She had an amazing figure.
And the Platinum-tier woman I’m meeting tomorrow told me beforehand:
“I’d like at least ¥100,000 per meeting. If that doesn’t work for you, I won’t meet you.”
Of course, I’m still going to meet her.
If you can only offer ¥80,000 per meeting, you probably shouldn’t join The Salon in the first place. I mean, what’s the point of joining? There are women at Uni…
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📅 Aug 26, 2025 15:34
There’s a guy who keeps asking me out for dinner only. We’ve already met four times, and each time he gives me an allowance of ¥30,000 just for dinner. The other day, he said he wanted to go to Disneyland. Does he think I’m some kind of rental girlfriend or something? Since an adult relationship (intimate) would be around ¥100,000, I can’t help feeling like he’s trying to save money. I wouldn’t mind dinner only if he paid ¥100,000 for t...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
That papa is wording it like an idiot, but if a woman with pretty much the same qualities as you came along and was open to an adult relationship (intimate), I think he’d go with her instead.
It sounds like a really good arrangement, so I think you should be grateful…
I wouldn’t go for a dinner-only girl, so I honestly don’t understand that papa’s feelings at all.
That said, it would be a different story if he were an extremely creepy papa who couldn’t find anyone willing …
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📅 Aug 26, 2025 13:18
I have a question about hotel events hosted by clubs. When an event is held in Tokyo or Osaka, are most attendees generally from the surrounding areas—greater Tokyo for Tokyo events and the Kansai region for Osaka events? Do people ever travel from farther away to attend? For example, would someone from Osaka make the trip all the way to a Tokyo event? I’d love to hear from anyone—men or women—who has attended one of these events.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Wait, was this the question asking me to promote THESALON’s upcoming event in Osaka (at a hotel), where they’ll be bringing women from THESALON?
I haven’t received any such request, and I have absolutely no intention of promoting it anyway.
Apparently, the women will be coming from Tokyo, but I’m not really sure whether men from farther away will be applying.
I assume the event is mainly intended for men in Osaka, though perhaps they’re thinking that men living in Nagoya m…
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📅 Aug 25, 2025 13:45
I only registered with Universe Club a few days ago. I received an offer from a Black-class man on the same day, but it’s been three days now and I haven’t even received a single “like” from anyone other than the man who made that offer. Is it okay to just wait patiently? I searched through past questions and found several posts from people saying, “I get likes, but no offers,” but I’m starting to feel anxious because I haven’t even got...
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
That sounds good. I think it would be worth putting some thought into your messages and first trying things out with someone who seems promising at your local branch, even though there isn’t much information available.
Also, if you’re registered with PATOLO, you could try exchanging a few messages there as well.
As I mentioned before, when someone sends a template message that can be used unchanged for anyone, I can’t help but wonder if they’re sending the same thing out to…
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📅 Aug 25, 2025 09:36
I’m an 18-year-old first-year university student, and I’d like to ask about planning my life from my twenties onward. I’m interested in experiencing new things and being inspired by unfamiliar worlds—for example, dining at places I normally wouldn’t go, visiting shrines, and taking trips to hot springs. In the future, I’m considering registering with B1 or B2. Right now, I have something else I want to devote myself to wholeheartedly, s...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Sorry for answering as a man.
I’m most interested in meeting someone who’s 18, like you, the person asking this question.
In fact, I’ve made an offer to an 18-year-old and we’ve become quite close. I’m genuinely happy when the women I’m seeing ask serious questions like yours.
“I wonder if even someone like me can be of any help…”
I take that question very seriously, set aside my own desires, and do my best to support her so that her life can become richer—while also bein…
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📅 Aug 25, 2025 00:57
I weigh 57 kg, which isn’t particularly heavy, but I’m only 153 cm tall, so I look overweight. Is appearance at a glance more important than actual weight? I’m asking because I don’t get many offers. My face is pretty average.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’ve answered this kind of question many times, but Fuu’s criteria for making an offer are:
Height − 110 = within ±5 kg
At 153 cm, the questioner’s upper limit would be 48 kg. Ideally, I’d want her to be around 43 kg.
Honestly, you’re probably in the overweight range. If you’re overweight but say you’re not heavy, that suggests your self-analysis and self-assessment are too generous, so I have a feeling even having an average-looking face may not be enough.
That may sound…
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📅 Aug 24, 2025 18:54
I’ve always looked for private rooms for dinner dates, but that really limits the options, doesn’t it? For the first date, I naturally go with a private room, but what do people usually do for the second and third dates? Even when I ask the women, they say a private room isn’t absolutely necessary, but I’m worried they may secretly dislike the idea because of concerns about being recognized. Personally, I’m fine either way—I just want t...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Exactly. For the first meeting, since we’re gentlemen in the C category, we need to discuss the terms of the adult relationship, so a private or semi-private room is essential.
From the second meeting onward, there’s no need to discuss the terms so bluntly—we can naturally head to a hotel, so a regular restaurant is fine. For women who are concerned about being recognized, I arrange to meet them directly in the hotel room.
I also choose places with great views and a nice at…
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📅 Aug 24, 2025 16:25
On Patro, you can see when women are online and how popular they are, which makes me feel pressured to send an offer quickly. Also, I noticed that the introduction fee tripled after a date was arranged this time. I realized that papa-katsu is also governed by supply and demand. On the other hand, I see many women on Patro who don’t reply. Do you have any tips for arranging lots of dates?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Are you new to this site, by any chance?
I can understand feeling impatient at first. Offers tend to pour in for attractive women.
That said, new women keep joining all the time, so there’s no need to rush. Meeting someone also comes down to luck. In general, I think it’s best to make an offer quickly, but sometimes it works to take a contrarian approach—wait while someone is receiving lots of offers, then reach out once things have settled down.
You could also look throug…
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📅 Aug 23, 2025 18:57
I used to be a member of Universe Club and am currently active on Patro. A woman who registered as Gold at the beginning of this week was upgraded to Black today. It hasn’t even been a week yet—and of course, the offer fee changes too. I feel like this happened occasionally before, but has it been happening more often lately? It made me realize I probably shouldn’t be casually exchanging messages on Patro, so I wanted to ask.
💬 Answer from 迷わない70代:
The original questioner was a lost-and-confused man in his 60s who had also registered as an answerer.
Thank you all for your responses.
It’s been quite a while since I last posted, but with another milestone birthday coming up soon, I’m thinking it’s about time to retire. Still, I’m making one last attempt and continuing to use Patro for now.
This time, I was able to make an offer as a Gold-class member, but I was surprised when the woman changed to Black class after such…
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📅 Aug 23, 2025 12:12
The papa (a male supporter) I see regularly has been asking me out on dates a lot lately. He was someone who took me from dinner straight to a hotel from our very first meeting. Since I usually see several papas in one day, a date would tie me up for the whole day, so it feels like a waste of time. I can make ¥150,000–¥300,000 just by seeing two or three papas. For dates, I do charge an extra ¥20,000 on top of the adult relationship (in...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Since you accepted it once, it became the default. You should have declined the first date by saying you weren’t available or already had plans.
At this point, the papa is clearly completely smitten with you. If you tell him the price for something like a trip and both you and your papa are happy with it, then I suppose that’s fine, but…
I feel like you need to find the right balance—not lean into it too much or get him overly serious. Otherwise, things could get messy or c…
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📅 Aug 23, 2025 08:05
I figured out pretty much everything from that comment by Make-Guy, whom almost every responder here dislikes, lol. So basically, the men here look down on women, huh? I see! lol It’s seriously bizarre for one responder to obsessively go after another responder, lol. You should really realize how messed up that is, lol. There were never any decent men among guys who pay to buy women anyway, lol.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You can’t really know whether someone who says they’re disliked is actually disliked by the people around them, can you?
I simply disagree with the questioner’s opinion. Other than that, I respect the women who regularly date Fuu.
If I looked down on them, things wouldn’t last, and I’d lose women who give me good sex, so that would be impossible.
So you think men are buying the questioner?
Well, people involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) probably aren’t c…
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📅 Aug 23, 2025 07:58
I’m the person who previously asked about pain during sex. I was asking women who had experienced similar problems in the past while doing adult papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), especially those who had frequent intimate encounters, because I wanted to hear how they overcame it. Yes, I’m also the person who posted the follow-up questions calling out the responses. But when I looked at the answers to my question about pain durin...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
As Mac-san said, I think most of the female respondents also enjoy their club activities.
If you think about it that way, can’t you imagine that there are probably very few female respondents suffering from pain during intercourse, even if the question is addressed to women?
You also say to ask women, but women generally don’t know how other women date.
For example, if you ask a woman during sex, “You get wet easily, don’t you?” she’ll usually say she can’t answer because …