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Sep 16, 2025 14:34
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For the papas (male supporters) here, is there anything you’d be happy to receive from your PJ? I’d love to hear your suggestions for inspiration.
7 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I think it would be a good idea to ask them what they want, but people usually buy the things they want when they want them. So if they don’t already have something, it probably means they don’t want it that badly—or it’s simply too expensive for them to buy.
That said, if you ask around, you’ll probably get some general categories. From there, you could choose something within your budget that shows good taste or makes them think, “Oh, wow,” and give it to them as a gift.
Personally, I think it would be amusing to have a figure made of yourself and give it to them, but most people probably wouldn’t want one and might not know what to do with it. (If they had a wife, for example, they might have trouble finding a place to display it.)
Still, some people might find it fun?
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I agree with Fuu.
The best gift is when she gives it to me with her body. My ace only lets me have unprotected sex on her birthday.
As for actual presents, I’d probably be happy with workout gear. It’s inexpensive, so it’s easier for me to accept.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I really don’t need gifts or anything like that.
I’m basically a middle-schooler at heart, so what would make me happiest is an adult relationship where he says:
“Do whatever you want, Fuu.”
“Let’s spend the night together and get intimate until morning.”
I’m usually considerate and don’t just do whatever I want, so being able to let loose for once—without worrying about having to make him climax or be gentle—is the best birthday present I could ask for.
To all of Fuu’s monthly supporters, I’m counting on you!
Some things money can’t buy.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
This question has been asked countless times, but I believe experiences matter more than things.
Maybe you’re just throwing out a random question because you want attention, but if you don’t know what kind of gift would make someone you’re always indebted to happy, is this really nothing more than a relationship where you’re simply lending them a hole?
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I get cash worth one-tenth of what I give him for his birthday.
If he doesn’t want cash, maybe cosplay or a massage.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I haven’t received requests that often, but it has happened a few times.
I collect watches and fountain pens, so I’ll ask for one or the other. I tell them, “As long as it’s within your budget.” Honestly, if someone gives me something really expensive, I start wondering if they have some ulterior motive lol.
The gifts I was happiest with were an affordable fountain pen that felt great in my hand and a limited-edition Swatch. The fountain pen is engraved with “From T” along with my initials. I still use it all the time, even though we’ve already broken up lol.
I’m still seeing the girl who gave me the watch, and I wear it whenever I meet her.
They may not be what you’d call typical gifts. But the best part of giving a present is putting thought into it. So I feel like the questioner’s papa (a male supporter), who’s clearly thinking hard about this, would be happy with anything he receives.
横断歩道
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Honestly, I don’t need anything.
Birthdays are a hassle, so I make a point of not telling people when mine is.
If I had to choose something, maybe just have him bring some snacks to the hotel and eat them together.