Does the club ever advise women that if they’re not interested in a man’s offer, simply staying silent is a way of declining?

Since the club makes money when an offer is accepted, they probably wouldn’t go to that much trouble. That said, some women may be viewing the men’s profiles after receiving an offer and then passing on them. It’s also possible that the men’s profiles contain wording that raises a red flag.

The woman I offered to meet recently kept me waiting for about five days, but we eventually went on the date and had an adult relationship (intimate). Especially for women who have just joined, getting a sudden flood of offers can be overwhelming, and they may not know how to respond. Incidentally, I haven’t had any trouble contacting her since the date. Of course, it’s only natural to respond politely to the staff, but if my schedule allows me to wait, I don’t see any point in withdrawing the offer. If you can’t wait, withdraw it; if you can, just wait. That seems perfectly fine to me.

I withdraw the offer if I haven’t received a reply after two days. That’s only happened once in the past, though. If you make hundreds of offers, maybe it’ll happen ten times.

I’ve made offers to women and had no response for two days nearly ten times so far. Among the male members of Universe Club, I’m probably one of the members who has made the most offers to women. Even so, I don’t think I’ve ever had to wait two days for a reply more than a handful of times. So if someone has had no reply after two days on ten occasions, I’d assume they’re either lying or a problem member who’s close to being forcibly expelled. That said, if you’re a member in good standing and still haven’t received a reply after two days, I think it’s perfectly fine to withdraw the offer.

I don’t think the club itself does anything like that. It’s rare, but if a woman hasn’t replied for two days, I wouldn’t want to move forward with the offer either, so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you drawing that line. Personally, I figure it’s fine as long as I get a reply by the next day at the latest after making an offer. Usually, I hear back the same day, but it also depends on the time of day. Hope that helps.

It’s something you’d understand with a little thought, but don’t you realize that saying things like that only creates more work and hassle for the staff? I honestly find it harder to understand why the person asking this question can’t grasp something so simple. And withdrawing an offer after just one day—are you some prankster who rings the doorbell and runs away? Well, they’re probably just trolling and grinning as they read this answer. It’s painfully obvious that they deliberately wrote the opposite of what they really mean, hoping someone would respond, “No, that’s not how it works.” > “There have been nearly ten cases where I made an offer to a woman and received no reply even after waiting two days.” The staff probably dislike him too and write things like: “This man is awful and dangerous. What should we do?” They obviously can’t recommend dangerous, snide, or deliberately difficult men. Sometimes they’ll share the staff’s impressions with the woman and ask whether she still wants to accept the offer. Then, after the date, they receive feedback saying: “He was exactly the kind of man you described.” The current system, where accumulating too many negative reviews results in forced removal, is actually helpful for both the women and the staff. I don’t even understand how someone could accumulate so many negative reviews in the first place. (Women generally try to be considerate, so unless something truly serious happens—even if they experience a little unpleasantness—they usually won’t leave a negative review.)