I have a question about situations where women categorized as Relationship Types C or D turn down an adult relationship (intimate).
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① What do you do with the hotel you booked? Do you pay the same-day cancellation fee and go home, call an escort service, or stay by yourself?
② Does it feel like you’ve thrown the hotel money away, or do you consider the hotel cost part of the introduction fee?
I’d appreciate your answers.
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There’s a love hotel I go to almost every week because it accepts reservations, so I’ve become a regular there. They normally charge a cancellation fee, but they let it slide with just one phone call, haha.
(I even have a favorite room, and they’ll accommodate my requests.)
The other Saturday, instead of our usual area, I went to Kinshicho for lunch at the woman’s request. Since it was already late, every love hotel was fully booked, and we ended up unable to get a room—it was pretty embarrassing.
With so many love hotels around, just how active is everyone?
We couldn’t do anything that time, but I still gave her the full agreed allowance. We were able to make it happen safely the next time, though...
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In my case, dates are usually out of town, so I make plans for things other than spending time with a woman.
That’s why I don’t really mind if nothing comes of it.
I’ll just have a drink and go to sleep.
When I offer to meet a woman nearby, I make it a love hotel, so there’s no problem.
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① It’s happened a few times, but I call someone I’ve already met. When that wasn’t possible, I’d ask for a longer massage and just take my time.
I haven’t used any escort services since joining the club, and I’ve never canceled on the day because you almost never get your money back.
② It feels like a waste, but I just accept it as part of the introduction fee.
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I’ve never made an offer to a Type D, so I can’t say. With Type C, if it’s through Patro, we can message beforehand, so I’ve never had a case where things didn’t progress after that. Is the number of cases you’re getting low?
When it’s through a club, I arrange to end the first meeting after an hour, so I’ve never been left alone and feeling lonely.
As you said, I think it’s only natural that sometimes you book a hotel but she can’t go with you. So I use the rather uncool strategy of ruling out that possibility at the offer stage.
Hope this helps.
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① For the first meeting, I only go to love hotels.
If we were staying at a regular hotel, I’d have the breakfast buffet and take it easy.
② papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) costs money, so I don’t really mind.
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