I also joined in my 50s and have made plenty of mistakes along the way. Even now, I still haven’t quite mastered the art of a sophisticated arrangement.
That said—and I realize I’m speaking while ignoring my own shortcomings—don’t ask questions like this at 50. I won’t let you off just because you’re a beginner!
One of the best parts of an arrangement club is how you end things, so it’s a waste not to use your own brain to come up with a graceful exit.
For now, don’t be stingy. Prepare at least ten Eiichi bills and say, “I’m tired of your pussy.” Of course, you’ll need to soften the wording and put it more delicately.
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It depends on the person.
If it’s from Fuu, I usually either don’t make another appointment, or I turn it down if one is suggested and stop meeting them after that.
When it comes from the woman, it varies. Some women politely message me to say they can’t meet anymore, while others suddenly block me.
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I’ve met another woman I’ve fallen for. I tell them I’m grateful and thank them for everything.
If we’ve been seeing each other for over a year, I’ll also send them some extra money, depending on how I feel.
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In my case, I don’t quit until the woman I’m seeing says she wants to.
Thanks to that, it’s been almost eight years. She told me this spring that she wanted to end our relationship, so I decided to stop.
Right now, I’m looking for just one new woman. It seems like things may work out（笑）. It’s pretty difficult since I’m an old man.
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If you’ve been meeting on a pay-per-meeting basis for a few months, you can simply stop contacting him and let things fade out naturally once he realizes you’ve found someone else. Thank you. Or you could just say it casually: “Oh, I see,” and leave it at that.
Since this is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), ending or having an arrangement ended is an everyday occurrence for both sides, so I don’t think there’s any need to be overly sensitive about it.
Hope this helps.
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There isn’t much information to go on, but if you never said anything about continuing things—such as becoming a monthly arrangement or meeting every month—I think it’s fine to simply stop replying. You could also let them know that you won’t be able to meet anymore and say goodbye.
If you did give the impression that things would continue, it might be more graceful to give them a little extra as a parting payment—not exactly hush money—and then end things.
Also, once you realize that you may not be as popular as you think you are, the answer to what you should do seems pretty straightforward.
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If it’s only been a few months, I’d say, “I’ve given it a lot of thought, and I’ve decided to end our arrangement. Thank you for everything,” then delete the chat without even reading any replies.
It’s like abandoning a kitten or taking it to an animal shelter, so you just close your eyes and get it over with quickly.
In this case, the “kitten” refers to the affection for her that was born and had begun to grow inside you. The girl herself is strong and won’t be crushed by something like this.
If you feel bad for her, that’s just overestimating your own importance. You’re not nearly that important to her.
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