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Sep 21, 2025 20:49
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m the type who asks the club various questions in advance before making an offer.
When it’s a woman who has just joined, I ask how many favorites she has and then make my own prediction about how many offers she’ll receive.
This is just my personal impression, but women with two-digit favorite counts tend to get offers you can count on one hand, while women with three-digit counts tend to get offers in the double digits.
Looking at how many men have added the person asking this question to their favorites might give you some idea of what to expect going forward.
Also, if she receives few offers, the club may change her class.
If she was originally listed as Platinum or Black, changing her class may lead to more offers coming in.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
How attractive would you say you are, honestly? Try to assess yourself objectively.
If you don’t receive any offers within a month, there may not be any coming.
Keeping that possibility in mind, think about your next steps as well. It may be that this papa-katsu platform simply isn’t the right place for you.
アンディ
Male
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顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
If it’s only been two weeks, I’d say you’re still just getting started.
This doesn’t exactly answer your question, but since Patro is available now, why not try sending messages proactively and commenting on profiles you think are nice?
If you’re in the Tokyo area, there’s also an event at Universe Lounge this weekend, so it might be worth attending!
Hope this helps.
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
In my case, even if there’s a woman I’m interested in, I don’t make an offer right after she registers.
I worry that if offers come pouring in, she may end up treating people carelessly. On the other hand, if she doesn’t receive many offers, her initially inflated expectations may settle down. If she gets flooded with offers, she’ll likely develop a more realistic sense of the going rate and settle into that.
I don’t like dealing with her while she’s still unsettled—either having her make unreasonable demands or having offers continue to come in after I’ve made my proposal, creating competition among them.
I usually let things sit for about a month.
I also read an interview with a male participant in some book who said he lets things sit for a while. Maybe a certain number of men wait before making an offer.
システムエンジニアの会員
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It depends on the person. Some people don’t get any offers at all, while others arrange more than ten in their first month.
There’s no need to push yourself—you should decide based on what you’re comfortable with. That said, the number of offers you receive can vary quite a bit depending on the type of relationship you’re seeking.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
The way offers come in varies from person to person.
Popular women may be introduced to men by the staff before they officially register, so they can receive offers even before signing up.
Even without a pre-registration introduction, some women receive offers immediately after registering.
In general, you can probably expect to receive several offers within about two weeks. However, if you haven’t received even one offer after two weeks, it’s possible that the staff placed you in a class that’s too high. There can also be various other reasons why offers don’t come in.
That said, I think it’s worth waiting and seeing how things go for about a month.
👨 Male
Universe member
It seems offers vary from person to person (lol).
Some people get them right away, while others don’t receive any for quite a while.
Apparently, some people don’t get any offers at all.
Well, if you wait and see for about six months and still don’t receive any offers, it’s probably best to assume that an introduction club isn’t for you.