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Sep 23, 2025 14:57
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Does it actually happen that the allowance doesn’t work for both sides, so things don’t progress to a hotel?
So far, I’ve never had a situation where we didn’t go to a hotel—either I reluctantly compromise and accept less than my ideal amount, or the other person agrees to my terms.
6 answers
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Before Patro came along, it happened fairly often.
Patro displays the allowance amount you’re looking for, and even with women who don’t list one, I message back and forth with them before meeting.
There was only one woman whose terms had been confirmed by message, but she canceled on the day, saying she wasn’t feeling well, and then blocked me. So I figured something like that can happen.
Before Patro, there were times when the terms didn’t match on the day of the meeting.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Yes, there are.
Since I’m usually the one traveling a long way to meet for a date, I’m prepared to give it a try at least once, even if the allowance is on the generous side.
That said, I don’t offer more than I had expected to any woman.
It really depends on the chemistry...
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m willing to compromise on a difference of one or two, but anything more than that is a firm no.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The other day, I met a woman who was totally my type—I really can’t stand C-types. When I saw that her face was filled with hyaluronic acid, I thought, “Whoa… no way.” But I gave in to her pressure, went to a hotel, and got intimate with her.
She said the allowance was 10, so I gave her 10,000 yen, but I really wanted to ask for 5,000 yen instead (;∀;)
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> They always give in, so I’ve never ended up without a room.
Hmm...
So, even though you weren’t having any trouble, you just wanted some attention and asked how the respondents handle it anyway.
This is a Q&A site, and people have already said that casual conversation isn’t allowed here, yet some people just never learn.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
This sounds like a post looking for attention, but I’ll answer anyway.
Yes, it happens. I’ve ended things when the woman’s requested allowance was one or five higher than what I was offering.