I feel like demand for me has dropped now that I’m in my 30s. Even when I interview at nightlife venues, they recommend snack bars instead. I’d prefer places like girls’ bars.

A girls’ bar might be too demanding. Wouldn’t a snack bar be perfectly fine? Maybe it’s time to accept your age and live accordingly. You didn’t actually mention papa-katsu, but if that’s what you mean, this is probably your prime. Personally, I think women aged 28 to 32 are the best. My regulars are in that age range too. Women with experience are sexy, know how to reach the finish, can try all kinds of positions, and are still just about young enough to hold a conversation with. They’ve also moved past the phase where they were fawned over simply for being young, so they tend to be more settled. I see nothing but positives. Generally speaking, younger women probably do get more attention in their twenties. Men like younger women, so it can’t really be helped. Wanting to pass on their genes to a healthy young body is instinctive. Let’s both do our best with anti-aging. Come try papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). There’s plenty of demand for you.

I only make offers to women between 25 and 30. When I first started, I did make offers to a fair number of women in their early 20s, as well as a couple of women nearing 40. But after seeing which relationships lasted, where I felt comfortable, and how responsive they were, I’ve ended up focusing on this age range. I’ve hardly ever made offers to women in their 30s through papa-katsu, but when I used to go out drinking, I saw countless hostesses in their 30s who were pulling in serious money from older men. So I don’t think your age is the reason you’re only being introduced to snack bars. I don’t know the real reason, but I hope this gives you some perspective.

I like women in their 30s the most. I don’t really click with people who have no experience in the working world. I’m drawn to supporting women who have been through a lot in their 20s but still haven’t given up on their dreams in their 30s. By the way, there are quite a few women around me in their 30s who work at cabaret clubs or girls’ bars. Depending on the area, snack bars can actually pay better than girls’ bars. Where on earth are you looking for work?

In my case, I do pay some attention to age. The reason is that, generally speaking, once someone reaches around 30, marriage hunting and getting married become more common, so I prefer an age group where that’s less likely to affect the relationship. Also, by around 30, people’s salaries tend to increase, and compared with their early twenties, they usually have a little more financial breathing room and can become independent. That makes me wonder whether supporting someone through a relationship is really the best approach. In your case, rather than looking back at the past, I think you should focus on finding a way to become independent as soon as possible and make that your first priority.