I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and I’m a little confused about how things work.

When I make an offer, it’s basically for a meal—or sometimes coffee or drinks—and after discussing the terms, we move on to an adult relationship (intimate). With a club, you can choose between a meal or coffee when making the offer by default, so I think it gets the point across to the woman as well. With Patro, if she specifies a meeting station, I think it’s best to ask something like, “Would you like to have a meal?” From the second meeting onward, it depends on what you both agree on. In my case with Fuu, if a woman prefers just going to a room (the shorter the time, the better), I go along with that and keep it room-only. For women who also want to enjoy a meal, we have some good food and drinks in a nice atmosphere before going to the room. In the end, the top-tier women—the real aces—are enjoyable to dine with and talk to, and the adult relationship is also amazing, which is why they become long-term repeat partners. To be blunt, room-only women are limited to cases where she’s extremely beautiful and has a great body, or maybe she’s completely passive but incredibly tight, making it worthwhile. If it’s room-only, I start getting bored after about five meetings.

I’ve gone straight from the meeting place to a hotel with B-type women many times. I’ve never done that with an A-type woman, though. That’s only because the woman was okay with it. Normally, I always meet for tea or a meal first. To all the Black-class male members reading this: please be sure to send the money you saved as the letter-date fee via PayPay. If you communicate properly during the letter date, you can go straight from the meeting place to a hotel with a B-type woman. Women are always conscious of cost performance and time efficiency.

It depends on the person—or rather, on the relationship and the context. So I think it’s best not to skip confirming with the other person.

> By “adult,” do you mean adding an adult relationship (intimate) to dinner? With apps and dating sites, I assume it may mean going straight to a hotel. With Universe Club, the club’s arranged first date is required to include a meal. You can get a sense of what the other person is like while eating, and afterward, it’s up to you whether you part ways or go to a hotel. > I’m worried because when they ask about my schedule, it seems like whether I can make the date depends on which option they mean. At Universe Club, if you select relationship type B1 or B2, you’ll have dinner only (no intimacy) and part ways after the first meeting. For subsequent meetings, many Universe members have dinner first, but some go to a hotel before eating. People who are used to using apps may also go straight to a hotel, so it’s probably best to casually find out whether they’re expecting dinner.

> When you say “adult relationship,” do you mean intimacy in addition to dinner? That’s right. > Or do you mean intimacy only? There’s no adult relationship right from the start. If someone proposes that immediately, you should decline. Dating clubs are based on building a relationship, so it’s not just about an adult relationship, right?（笑） First, you need to talk and see whether you’re compatible and can actually pursue a relationship.