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Nov 5, 2025 01:24
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Also, depending on the person, many men prefer to continue seeing me for dinner only (with an allowance ranging from 15,000 to 30,000 yen, depending on the person).
Since there are Type A women as well, I’ve started wondering why they choose me. I also have a friend who works through Universe and is Type C, but apparently she’s never had anyone request dinner only. It made me wonder whether I’m lacking something in terms of appeal as a woman, so I wanted to ask what the reason might be.
When I asked the men I met, they said it was because they couldn’t become intimate right away.
I’m happy that they’re willing to see me for dinner only, but I’d really like to hear everyone’s opinions.
4 answers
アンディ
Male
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顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
What do you think?
Even with Type C, I usually part ways after the first meeting. However, anyone I want to see a second time inevitably becomes an adult relationship (intimate). I’ve never met anyone I wanted to continue seeing after the second meeting if it was dinner only.
I imagine the questioner may be a woman who wants to keep seeing him even if it’s dinner only, because his allowance is exceptionally generous.
Not sure if this helps.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s strange.
Sometimes I meet a papa who seems unhygienic, rough around the edges, quiet, unresponsive, rude, or like a “dead fish,” so I keep it dinner only (no intimacy) and let him go. But then there’s never a next time.
In your case, though, there is a next time—although I’m sure it’s just coincidence.
Consider yourself lucky to have found such a rare papa (a male supporter). If several papas are like that with you, then you must have some mysterious charm.
横断歩道
Male
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re type C and still make them want to continue seeing you even for dinner only, you must be pretty appealing. I can’t think of any reason besides offering a high allowance for an adult relationship (intimate).
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
There may be clues in her profile, so if you contact me, I can look into it.
(If we’ve also received feedback from male members, I may be able to find out more.)
Some possibilities are:
1. There’s something written in the staff comments section of her profile (for example, details discussed during the interview).
2. Her allowance was higher than what the man was looking to pay, so they ended the meeting after dinner.
3. Her photos were too polished.
4. She’s the type of woman men prefer when they initially only want to meet for dinner.
Those are the possibilities that come to mind.
> “Maybe I’m not very attractive as a woman…”
Since you’re receiving offers, you seem to have enough physical appeal.
Also, if there are men who want to meet you for dinner only, your conversation skills probably aren’t an issue either.