Sometimes things develop into an adult relationship (intimate), and sometimes I turn them down. I don’t pay much attention to the financial terms, but even if a man is gentlemanly, I may feel scared and decline if he’s too eager to pursue an adult relationship. I can’t really put it into words, but there are men I feel comfortable moving forward with physically, while with others, the thought of an adult relationship just feels wrong, so I turn them down.
Is this what people mean by “chemistry”?
For the male members here, when you make an offer to a B-type woman, I’d appreciate it if you could tell me roughly what percentage of those encounters develop into an adult relationship.
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Even with B1 types, I limit dinner-only dates to two meetings.
I’ve been in the club scene for a long time, so I don’t really think about the numbers as much anymore, but the rate of things progressing to an adult relationship with B1 women isn’t particularly high.
I’d say around 20–30%, give or take.
Most recently, after dinner I asked, “How would you feel about an adult relationship next time?” She said that was fine, but after we parted ways, she blocked me.
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My attitude toward women is the same, whether it’s a first date or a date after the second.
That said, if she’s someone I’m genuinely determined to win over, I offer an allowance of 120,000–200,000 yen, so my success rate is 100%. With women I’m not that serious about pursuing, I offer a much lower allowance, so my success rate is around 70%.
Honestly, I haven’t been feeling motivated lately. My monthly arrangement is just too good, and I’m having so much fun going on dates with an 18-year-old Type A that it feels far more meaningful to travel or go for a scenic autumn drive with her than to pay 120,000 yen to someone else.
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Over the past year, I’ve met seven women (I believe they were all B2). Two of them progressed to an adult relationship (intimate), but…
Neither led to an ongoing relationship!
With one, we couldn’t agree on the allowance.
With the other, communication stopped over how the relationship should work.
I want a relationship, but I keep getting played even before things become intimate（笑）
I just can’t seem to find a regular partner!
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I haven’t made many offers lately, but back when B wasn’t split into separate categories, my success rate was around 40%.
If it’s B1, I think it’s fine to turn down as many as you like. With B1, my success rate may have been closer to 20%.
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It depends on the chemistry, as well as differences in values and what each person is looking for.
Some men prioritize physical compatibility and satisfaction with the intimate side of things, while others also want to build trust and a deeper bond.
To put it bluntly, some women don’t want a man who’s only after intimacy, while some men don’t want a woman who’s only after the allowance.
If you care about more than just the financial aspect, as the person asking the question seems to, I think that’s what it comes down to.
When a man and woman share those values, they may eventually move on to an adult relationship (intimate).
Even after moving on to an adult relationship (intimate), not every meeting has to involve intimacy. Some couples may enjoy ordinary dates, deepen their trust, and share a special kind of adult relationship (intimate) based on that bond.
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Yes, that’s what people mean by chemistry.
Even if things progress to an adult relationship (intimate), there’s still chemistry involved in the kind of play you’re into, so it’s not unusual for things to end after just one meeting.
I mainly operate in B2, and I’d say I haven’t progressed to an adult relationship (intimate) in about 30% of cases—including those where I chose not to proceed.
I haven’t made many offers to B1s, but those relationships often continue through dates without intimacy, such as drives or trips to theme parks. I don’t recall ever progressing to an adult relationship (intimate) with one.
I make offers to B1s assuming they’re Type A.
So even though they’re both classified as B, I feel B1 and B2 are completely different.
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It’s perfectly normal to feel comfortable moving forward with some people, while deciding you really don’t want to and turning others down.
That’s why, regardless of the relationship type, the first meeting is set up as dinner together.
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