I’ve only just started with Universe Club.

It seems like staying with B1 as it is might be perfectly fine. Since this is a club, many men and women who develop a good adult relationship will consider intimacy or an allowance for intimacy every time—or at least more than half the time—after meeting ten times. But some people prefer to meet nine times out of ten without intimacy or an allowance for intimacy. For women, it may be that they want to enjoy the time they spend together rather than focus on the allowance, dislike relationships where they feel they’re wanted only for their bodies, and believe that even in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), there needs to be an adult relationship with genuine feelings—feelings appropriate to papa-katsu. Unless both people share those views, I don’t think they’ll feel fulfilled by the dates or what happens during them, even if they continue meeting. I think that’s even more likely for someone leaning toward A. Whether it’s A or B1, unless you meet someone whose expectations align with yours, you won’t find any enjoyment or reason to keep meeting. So it’s only natural that the opposite dilemma comes up more often.

A-type girls in their teens are my main focus. The reason I make offers is simple: they’re the hardest to win over. That’s really all there is to it. I have a regular A-type partner I’ve been seeing for a full four years. She often comes over to stay, but we’ve never even held hands. A little while ago, I went on an overnight trip with a teenage A-type who was still a virgin, and wow, it was a lot of fun. We’re going on another trip this month. She’s the hottest one right now. Even with A-types, once you get close, things naturally develop into an adult relationship (intimate).

If you’re already receiving offers as a B1, personally, I don’t think you need to force yourself to switch to A type. Since B1 doesn’t guarantee an adult relationship (intimate), you can simply choose not to proceed if you feel it would be too difficult. Based on my extensive experience being strung along at hostess bars, I’m the type to cut things off early when I’m active in this scene. So, in my imagination, the biggest source of trouble is probably the pattern where someone keeps the other person hanging with suggestive behavior, only to turn them down in the end. I’ve seen about a hundred women emotionally break down after starting multiple romance-based approaches at hostess bars and then coming under pressure from all sides around the third month, lol. Anyway, getting back to the point, I’ve only received offers from three A-type people in the past, but they made the offers with much the same mindset as B1 people, so I don’t think there’s really any difference. That’s just my personal opinion, but I hope it helps.

If there’s a possibility of an adult relationship (intimate), I think staying at B1 is fine. You can always reassess after meeting 10 people. If we have perfectly matching interests—like both loving driving or golf—I’d make an offer at A as well. I’m not interested in a dinner-only relationship (no intimacy).

Two or three offers should be more than enough. From there, I think you should date someone you feel you could build a relationship with. Repeating one-time dinner dates over and over would get boring, wouldn’t it? I can’t help feeling that it doesn’t really count as dating. A banquet-hostess agency might actually be more casual and convenient. Since it’s a dating club, I don’t understand why someone would register just for dinner-only dates. As for me, I don’t make offers when I already have a dating partner, and I’ve never made an offer to anyone in Category A. Sorry I couldn’t be more helpful!

If you’re getting offers at B1, there must be some at A too. That’s amazing. As Fuu always says, I only make offers to C, so I can’t really relate. But at the very least, since there are papas who make offers to A, I guess A must exist. I wonder why. Even though I’m C, deep down I feel disgust toward B. But when I’m B1, I don’t really feel much disgust toward A. Maybe because I’m not the one making offers?

> After actually meeting several people, I’m starting to realize how difficult this is. B1 says: “If you go on several dates and the two of you hit it off, there’s a possibility that it may develop into a relationship.” I think the men understand that when they make an offer, so I’m not sure what you mean by feeling discouraged after only one date. What specifically made you feel it was difficult? If you mean that none of the men seemed like they could eventually become an adult relationship (intimate), then I think you should choose A instead. > If I choose A, will I stop getting offers? Since you received offers with B1, you may still receive a few offers with A. However, I think the chances will be extremely low. You should expect the number of offers to drop significantly from what you’re getting now. > What would make a man offer to someone with A? She would have to be exactly his type, exceptionally beautiful, have an amazing figure, or possess something particularly special. And it probably wouldn’t be enough for her to want dinner dates forever. She would likely need to be someone who might possibly be open to it after dating for around six months. Male members generally don’t like women who are only looking to earn money through dinner dates, so they probably won’t make offers to them. However, if the age gap is too large for him to consider an adult relationship, but she still has the attitude of wanting to somehow give something back for the allowance she receives, he might be willing to make an offer. I think that connects to the idea of, “It’s not possible right now, but maybe it could happen someday if we continue seeing each other.” Even if it never does happen, some men may still be willing to continue with dates only if they can feel that she’s sincere. But women who see it as “dinner only” often have an attitude like, “You should be grateful that someone as young as me is willing to date you.” Men can sense that, too, and end up thinking, “No way…” If you receive an offer with B1, I think it’s best to approach it with the attitude of, “I’ll do my best to eventually become intimate with you, but I’m not ready right now, so I’d like you to see me a few more times.”

As I understand it, B1 and A are basically the same. Older guys can be smelly and gross, after all. Back when I often made offers for A, it was simply something to pass the time. Since there was no need to consider intimacy, it was cheap and easygoing.