I’m fed up with my papa-katsu partner’s indirect, insulting remarks.
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He constantly brags about how impressive he is and goes on and on about random bits of trivia.
At first, I just brushed it off, thinking he was tactless. But he keeps repeating the same thing over and over:
“Most women in their 20s are stupid.”
Whenever I just respond with a vague “Hmm” and become visibly annoyed, he gives me a present.
What a nasty attitude!
You shouldn’t put yourself through unpleasant experiences just to keep doing this. End things with him and wait for offers from other papas (male supporters).
I honestly don’t understand why you’re still continuing.
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That said:
> I love bragging about how amazing I am.
> I go on and on about random trivia.
This is basically the male equivalent of small talk among women.
Women often talk about things they’re having trouble with, but usually they’re not necessarily asking for a solution like, “What should I do?” More often, they simply want someone to listen, right?
It’s the same here. He wants you to listen. Maybe he has no one else to talk to.
And someone like you who will listen is rare, which is why he wants to see you again.
So rather than thinking you’re only being paid for H, I think it’s better to consider listening to him part of what you’re being paid for and just hear him out.
Also:
> Women in their 20s are often stupid.
I assume he was talking about some example or experience he had, but this is the same as above. It also seems to imply that he’s seeing you because you’re different.
Of course, I also think someone who doesn’t say things like that is more gentlemanly and preferable. But no one is perfect, so I think it’s best to accept that and listen to what he has to say.
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This is Andy.
I don’t have anything worth bragging about, so I don’t.
Actually, I’d like to hear some interesting trivia from you.
Anyway, why not just avoid meeting people who drain you?
If you decide to meet them knowing that’s all you’ll find, you can prepare yourself beforehand and get through the time, right?
I honestly don’t understand what there is to complain about when you can pout a little and still get presents.
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