Before meeting, the club asked me what allowance I had in mind, and after I answered, I received an offer. However, when we actually met, we didn’t click, so I turned it down. He got upset, and we ended things there.

> When I met him in person, we didn’t click, so I turned him down. He got upset, and we ended things there. Most people get upset when they’re rejected, so it might be worth thinking about how you phrase it. But if you say, “Something suddenly came up after this,” some men will get angry and say, “Didn’t the club tell you it would be four hours?” I asked a female staff member about it the other day, and she said, “It’s obviously just a way of turning him down—he should take the hint.” I thought, “That makes sense,” but in reality, the club may receive a complaint and then contact the woman to confirm what happened, so you can’t really use that excuse. At this point, should we start a “Take the hint” campaign? “Something came up after dinner” is basically a sign that you didn’t click. Maybe we should tell men not to blame the woman or complain to the club? Well, that sounds difficult, so perhaps we should just give up on that idea. If a woman simply said, “No, no, no, no, no, no, absolutely not!” maybe the man wouldn’t even get angry because it would be so clear? Anyway, I’m sorry there’s no perfect solution, but I do wish women would find a tactful way to turn someone down. > This time, I contacted him and said that we didn’t click and that was why I turned him down. In situations like this, is it better not to contact him from my side? You never know what the man might write, so I think it can be effective to contact him first as a precaution. However, saying only that you “didn’t click” doesn’t really explain what specifically was wrong. It might be better to mention concrete issues, such as: - His clothes were just sweatpants, which I couldn’t accept. - His clothes were badly wrinkled. - He looked unhygienic. - He was rude to the restaurant staff. That said, it’s important to stick to the facts and avoid turning it into personal criticism. Then, even if the man gives feedback saying, “She was a C-type woman, but she clearly wasn’t interested and was only looking for dinner,” the woman’s feedback might say, “His clothes were badly wrinkled, so I decided not to continue seeing him after dinner.” In that case, the club can reasonably conclude: “If he showed up in wrinkled clothes, it’s understandable that she turned him down. It doesn’t sound like she was only looking for dinner.”

I’m dying lol. How does this person always manage to see right through everything so accurately? > For Loser Guy, it’s just a kink, though. I’ve finally met a woman asking for the highest allowance I’ve ever seen, and I’m still riding the high. How did someone like her get registered so casually? Her class setting and pricing are both way off. The male member who requested a first meeting without knowing any of this will probably complain lol. There are several discrepancies between her profile and reality, too. Even I can’t handle her starting price—it’s way too high—but that’s exactly why it feels worth trying to win her over. I haven’t been able to meet any new women lately because of one last-minute cancellation after another, but now that such a big catch has finally landed in my net, I guess this recent cancellation spree was all part of the setup. 最高♡ Sure, she’s asking for a high allowance, but she may be worth it. This woman is going to be at least a three-year project. I’ll let her go back into the open sea once, then work things so she naturally finds her way back into my net. Update: > Replying to Loser Guy’s feedback sounds like it’d be even more of a hassle. I’ve been adding “No reply necessary” at the end more often lately because I feel bad about making things extra work for the staff汗

Even if you don’t leave feedback, the man can still indicate that he turned you down through his feedback. So you don’t need to worry about the club getting the impression that you’re someone who turns men down. On the contrary, you could receive strange feedback from the man, so I think you should leave feedback as well. Rather than sugarcoating it or being vague about the chemistry, you should clearly write something like, “His allowance terms were lower than what I had stated.” The club staff will probably make their judgment after considering both the man’s and woman’s feedback. Being able to turn someone down is part of papa-katsu, so just wait for the next offer. Changing the subject—sorry to make this about me, but with my last two consecutive offers through Patro, neither of us explicitly turned the other down; things just naturally faded out. In both cases, it became impossible to continue because Fuu’s package was just too big... I try to choose women who seem to be into adult relationships as much as possible based on their profiles, but you really can’t know until you try. Since I’m looking for a second round despite being so well-endowed, it can be pretty hard to find someone. When I find someone who’s into that, things continue, though... lol Anyway, I got off track, but relationships don’t always last, so don’t worry about it too much. That said, you shouldn’t just let the men have the final say—women should also make sure to leave proper feedback. For all I know, someone may have left feedback saying, “Fuu was just too big for me,” lol.

This is Andy. I can’t give you a definite answer without knowing the type of arrangement, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with turning someone down because you didn’t click. It’s best to give the staff clear feedback. Otherwise, I think it could be unhelpful going forward if they form an impression based solely on the other person’s side of the story. Even if you ended up turning down every subsequent offer because you didn’t click with anyone, they might still get some impression of the situation. So I think you should explain your reasons to the staff. Hope this helps.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with turning someone down because you didn’t click. If you agree to see someone you’re not compatible with, it can take a toll on you both mentally and physically. It may depend on the branch, but the staff do properly review the feedback, so I think it should be fine to write after the date that you didn’t feel a connection. I don’t work for the agency, but unless you meet a lot of people and say you didn’t click with every single one of them—or something similarly extreme—I don’t think it should be a problem… I’m not sure what your relationship type is, but even if it’s Type C, that doesn’t mean things will necessarily develop into a relationship. I feel the real issue is that many men don’t understand that.

Since Universe Club doesn’t have standard allowance guidelines, are you referring to PATOLO? Also, I’m sure you understand this, but I don’t think “chemistry” is the same thing as an allowance. Of course, the allowance is part of the overall chemistry, but it shouldn’t be the whole thing. I think it would be a good idea to leave feedback. Most people wouldn’t assume that someone who turned them down once is “the kind of person who often refuses an adult relationship (intimate).”